OK, I've been neglecting this thread for a while... I was able to hit 2610 Prime stable, as I said before, but more volts did not really help at all... The thing is, I was priming it at 2610 when my ram was running the lowest divider possible, so it was running at about 100 something MHz. When I try to go 290 x 9 and set the ram on a 133 divider, my board goes into safe mode, and resets the HTT to stock 200. I'm using the Epox 9NPA+ Ultra, for reference, and I have 2 Adata Vitesta 1Gb sticks I got for $155 on sale.
I tested the ram and it is good up until about 210 at stock timings of 3-4-4-8 1T, but with the divider with a higher HTT, I have no luck. So, I'm still messing around, I'm gonna try 2T like some of you said helped, (though I really can't relax the timings any more because they are already really loose; this WAS value ram...).
Will report back later!