Ouch

[Bluga]

PRELIMINARY:

I don't know anything about her. No friends knew about her, just saw her in the hallway from time to time.


RESULT:

So today i saw her in library, i walked up and said "hi are you busy?"

she said: "ya"

I said: "do you mind if i talk to you for a minute?"

she said: "about what?"

i then said: "i've seen you around quite often, so i was wondering what is your name"

she repiled INSTANTLY: " i'm not interested"

i said "thanks"

The conversation didn't last more than 30 second, i couldn't even get her name. All of her friends were watching me as if i'm a total idiot.

 

[Kadarin]

Make eye contact, smile, say hello...

 

[Bluga]

<< Make eye contact, smile, say hello... >>



How can i tell if she is interested?

 

[weirdichi]

talk to her first d00d.. don't expect a her to be the mother of your kids just yet.. NAME.. HER NAME!!

 

[TallBill]

just start kissing her nuts.. all girls go nuts for that

 

[pillage2001]

<<

<< Make eye contact, smile, say hello... >>



How can i tell if she is interested? >>



Interested in being a friend or more than that?

Well, try talking to her. If all her replies are 'yes', 'no', 'maybe' etc etc, forget about her.

 

[Bluga]

<< Well, try talking to her. If all her replies are 'yes', 'no', 'maybe' etc etc, forget about her. >>



In the hallway? That would scare her since she's Asian, i've tried that to other Asian girl before and they scared away

 

[BatmanNate]

Stalking isn't for the meek.

 

[pillage2001]

<<

<< Well, try talking to her. If all her replies are 'yes', 'no', 'maybe' etc etc, forget about her. >>



In the hallway? That would scare her since she's Asian, i've tried that to other Asian girl before and they scared away >>



She's prolyl shy. I'm an asian myself. I know how it's like.

 

[Kadarin]

<<

<< Make eye contact, smile, say hello... >>



How can i tell if she is interested? >>



She may smile back say hi herself, and might stop to talk with you. Be confident, and show your sense of humor.

 

[ElFenix]

okay how bout: i know this maybe switch hitter chick or maybe shes a total crack smacker and i had the biggest crush on her (back when she used to get with guys) and i still want her and all i know is her address and her cell number. oh and once she said i was funny. so.... what do i do... come on AT... you know i'll help with computer hardware questions if i can... help me with this female hardware question...




<attempts to hijack thread>

 

[joohang]

<< The only way to get sex is to avoid it. >>

 

[Bluga]

<< <<

<< Well, try talking to her. If all her replies are 'yes', 'no', 'maybe' etc etc, forget about her. >>



In the hallway? That would scare her since she's Asian, i've tried that to other Asian girl before and they scared away >>



She's prolyl shy. I'm an asian myself. I know how it's like.
>>



show me the way brother

 

[pillage2001]

<<

<< <<

<< Well, try talking to her. If all her replies are 'yes', 'no', 'maybe' etc etc, forget about her. >>



In the hallway? That would scare her since she's Asian, i've tried that to other Asian girl before and they scared away >>



She's prolyl shy. I'm an asian myself. I know how it's like.
>>



show me the way brother >>



First of, saying hie and smiling is a good start. Do you see her at the dining halls or something?? If you do, you might want to introduce yourself there. Sit opposite her and not next to her and talk to her for maybe a little while. Then, do this over a few days and voila, if things work. Good for you, if it doesn't, better luck next time but chances are it will.

 

[tops2]

lol..happens too often
see enough girls around over and over again but never have the guts to talk to them...
**sigh**

 

[Bluga]

<< Do you see her at the dining halls or something?? If you do, you might want to introduce yourself there. >>



not really, i see her in the library more often, but she is ALWAYS with a BUNCH of girls

 

[pillage2001]

<<

<< Do you see her at the dining halls or something?? If you do, you might want to introduce yourself there. >>



not really, i see her in the library more often, but she is ALWAYS with a BUNCH of girls >>



Hmmm......easier approach. When you see her in the hallway, ask if she wants to hit the library to read a book or two?? Both of you are in different majors??

 

[Eli]

<< not really, i see her in the library more often, but she is ALWAYS with a BUNCH of girls >>



Yeah, that's how they protect themselves from people like you.

 

[Bluga]

<< Yeah, that's how they protect themselves from people like you. >>



ROTFLOL, thanks



<< Hmmm......easier approach. When you see her in the hallway, ask if she wants to hit the library to read a book or two?? Both of you are in different majors?? >>



What Eli said .

ya we're in two different majors, she's in an elite class (if i'm not mistaken).:Q

 

[HamSupLo]

In the hallway? That would scare her since she's Asian, i've tried that to other Asian girl before and they scared away

flash the cash, my friend.

 

[pillage2001]

<< In the hallway? That would scare her since she's Asian, i've tried that to other Asian girl before and they scared away

flash the cash, my friend. >>



You'll not get many girls like that. Not many if you're looking for a long term relation.

 

[ThaGrandCow]

<< Make eye contact, smile, say hello... >>

 

[HamSupLo]

what kind of Asian girl is this? Is she fobby? from taiwan or HK? Candian/American born?

 

[pillage2001]

If she's from HK or japan, flash the cash then.

 

[HamSupLo]

That's what I'm trying to imply. Sad, but that's the way it goes......