Originally posted by: Vic
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Vic
Really? So believing that what you do is your own business is "intrinsically" socially conservative and the cause of discrimination? Wow... black IS white... that's frickin' amazing!!!Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Vic
aidanjm's problem on this issue (and unfortunately I've come head-on with this before) is that he wants to be worshipped because he is gay, and the fact that I am so genuinely socially liberal that I really don't care whether someone is gay or not (as I consider sexual orientation to be in the "private sphere") is something that he simply cannot tolerate. Better to him if I were a homophobe (of course, after saying this, I'm sure he'll call me one :roll: ).
mostly I find you to be just a very tiresome old fart, and I have difficulty remembering past conversations with you - but I do have a recollection of you trying to mask a quite socially conservative outlook. Even the notion of sexuality as "belonging" in the private sphere is intrinsically conservative, and of course the underlying rational for a great deal of discrimination against gay people (or alternatively the rationale for a lack of action against discrimination against gay people - this is perhaps more your style - it's a homophobia or heterosexism that relies more on what isn't said, than what is said).
it certainly is a socially conservative notion. it underlies a certain kind of response to discrimination against gay people: "I don't care what they do in the bedroom, but WHY do they have to flaunt their sexuality?"
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Wow, your sexual insecurity is too much. No wonder most of the other gays here have come out more than once saying that you don't speak for them.
Listen. I'm straight. I don't expect you to care and I could give a sh!t if you do. You're gay. Whoop-de-doo. It's the same thing.
um, how are these comments in any way related to my comments? I am pointing out that the tendency of social conservatives to see sexual orientation as a matter best left to the private sphere is more often than not a block to progress on gay rights.