I wouldn't call them "losers". I'd call them "married". Single folk will go out to bars until they're ready to drop dead of old age.
Going to a sports bar or lounge is different.
Going to a sports bar or lounge is different.
reading this thread i'm not sure i know what a bar is anymore.
i guess if you are 30 and single and go to a bar with friends that's sad? do work happy hours count?
i think clubs maybe are not an older person scene, but that's all just people's bias. do whatever floats your boat, fuck opinions
"Goddamnit honey, looks like we're having ketchup sandwiches and mudpies again tonight."
My view of this is one sided, so what does ATOT think? Are people who are in their 30's that still go to the bar or nightclubs every week losers?
How old are you, 22? Have you ever lived outside of a college town?
But you just did comment on the post...
Haha. Oh, man. You must be a sad and bitter man. Tell you what though. I'm going to crack open a beer right now in your honor.
shadow9d9 also lets his supposed 3 year old daughter plan the family meals. Ignore the idiot.
Haha. Oh man. I just pity those that need to use a mind altering substance to survive.
You are a virgin. Sex is inevitable, but a pussy ass prude makes you the biggest virgin by choice there ever will be.
I don't think you understand why the majority of people drink. I pity your ignorance and complete detachment from reality.
If you're talking about an occasional stop for a beer, NO, but IMO, at any age, if your life revolves around the drinking establishment of your choice, then YES, you're a loser.
My brother-in-law who's about to turn 60 is just such a loser...and has been one his entire life.
They drink for many reasons. To alter their mind, get away from their troubles, feel "cool" or with the "in" crowd, peer pressure, to lower resistance to difficult actions(loosen up).
In the end, it doesn't matter. We allow the most damaging drug to society, the one that kills innocent bystanders in drunk driving accidents over and over, while demonizing every other drug. We are a hypocritical and pathetic society.
You're only a loser if you're at a bar that is not within your age. For example if you're 30 do not go to a college bar full of just 21yr olds.
Other than that I think it's perfectly fine.
I personally think its stupid to go to bars when I have a bar with beer on tap in my sweet ass basement, with a 120 inch projector, 2 thousand + movies, wine cellar, galaga, pacman, and a collection of music that makes most libraries cry...oh and a humidor filled with cigars from my trips to south america...
I could go out and sit in a shitty seat around people smoking shitty cigarettes, spending money they dont have trying to be cooler than they are.. or I can select the people I want to see....older wiser....
aww shit, im screwed then... im over 40 and most of my friends are 32-37, i hang with them at bars on occasion. not every weekend, but we do go out. i never considered that i may look like the old guy hanging out at a younger crowd bar. dammit.
They drink for many reasons. To alter their mind, get away from their troubles, feel "cool" or with the "in" crowd, peer pressure, to lower resistance to difficult actions(loosen up).
In the end, it doesn't matter. We allow the most damaging drug to society, the one that kills innocent bystanders in drunk driving accidents over and over, while demonizing every other drug. We are a hypocritical and pathetic society.
Can't wait until pot's legal and hookah bars become trendy.
I dig man caves.
This girl at a bar was talking to me for a little bit when I was ordering drinks. It was just a small conversation, but when I told her I was 24, she looked at me like I was a grandpa. She was 21 btw. I know that its unlikely that a 21 year old would think 24 is old, but it did happen to me, lol.
If your 40ish and your friends are mid 30's I think its fine. What might make you seem like a loser is if you go to bars where the majority are young college students. You'll feel like a crypt keeper if you go there.
Someone shove a beer bottle up your ass as a child?