*MAJOR UPDATE*
Met the realgirl. Went up to her work and hung out at the bar where she works. We were just going to leave and go to borders book store for coffee and hang out and chat, but she asked me to just come home with her instead. Not in a fvck me kinda way, just like we have nothing better to do, lets watch a movie..... very casual as if we had been friends for a while. anyways, SHE IS AWESOME. i just woke up to the best friday morning of my life, and im posting this from her pc. she just left for school, and told me she'd be back in about an hour, and i could make myself whatever I wanted to eat. We had the most wonderful time talking last night. it was a blast. dream girl who?
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edit: dreamgirl is 1 inch taller than me, which I find really sexy..... but the real girl is 4 inches shorter than me which means easier for me to handle physically...
well, i made that song at she loves me not for the "dream girl". i really like her, she really likes me, but something is missing. I fell head over heels for her, and got carried away. I know she likes me, as much as I want to make something happen, im starting to feel like somethings missing.
anyways dreamgirl says she wants me as a friend, and a bunch of other weird stuff. But I forwarded the emails to my friend Tori, who is good on relationships, and she says im a fool if I dont put 2 and 2 together that shes young, doesnt know how to handle me, and is testing me because of how forward I am being. She's already spilled her heart out to me about her entire life, in a very open and vulnerable way. (im talking pages upon pages of dialogue, not just "i want to be friends") shes young barely 18, gorgeous, smart, and we definately have a good connection.
so the day she tells me about her boyfriend, that isnt serious, but isnt about to dump because im so much older and she doesnt trust me enough yet no matter what a I say...., i get messaged from a girl via aol that found me on myspace. where as Im feeling like other girl is my "dream girl" and im confused about the whole thing, this girl's sn is something along the lines of flawwed_but_real23....
About 6 months ago I found a girl on match.com that I really liked(i mean liked the pics and profile), but i never sent anything to her, basically because I thought she was out of my league. I distinctly remembered her for some reason, and even saved a few of her pics because of how I felt. (stalker!)
So guess what? this girl that messages me is the girl I found on match..... weird eh? So we start talking, turns out she is good friends with the girlfriends of two of my good friends, so we actually said we thought it was weird that we hadn't met in real life yet. She didnt even realize I knew her friends until I saw a pic of her with them and said something. anyways, we spent all this past week talking onlin from about 9pm till 2am.... weve talked on the phone too and she basically tells me she wants me baddly, so considering everything, im going to meet her tomorrow at her work. she is working, but fortunately my buddy is the bartender, so we decided to play it like we've never met, and im in their to see my buddy. we have it set up so Im going to say something to my buddy about her, and shes going to say someting to her friend about me, and let our friends try and scramble to introduce us. haha.. Where I as telling dream girl she was my "dream girl" this "real girl" is telling me Im her dream guy... its a weird reversal of roles.....
im still torn though, because I just recently poured my heart out to the dream girl, and I feel weird jumping ship. im a loyal guy.... but then again, ive never had a serious girlfriend before. Ive kept my distance and just had flings when I really needed. My friend Tori seems to think that dream girl is still testing me (tori and her sister were both prom queens and such, and have had guys chasing them their entire life). I trust tori to tell me whats up. Several times she has told me to walk away from a girl cause she knew it wouldnt work, and it didnt, and when she told me to hang in and i gave up, i end up finding otu the girl wanted me. Tori says hang in with the dream girl...... Tori doesnt know about the other one yet.....
Im afraid im going to walk away from my dream girl for a girl thats just looking for someone to replace her ex... they split up for college.... but then again, i dont know any of the dream girls friends, and they are all young and Im not going to be partying with them.. but i know real girls friends, ive already gotten drunk many times with her so-called best friends, and its amazing to me that things aligned the way they did with her. I can remember not wanting to hang out with my boys because they were always with their girlfriends, and when they went out , id be alone. so with this girl, its like we plug perfectly into our existing circle of friends...
so here's how it stacks up
i am 25
dream girl:
dreamgirl1
dreamgirl2
dreamgirl3
dreamgirl4
stats
18
all star soccer player
in amazing shape
beautiful
incredibly smart and mature
we have a psychic connection we already discussed that Ive never found in anybody else before.....
never been in a long term relationship, which is why she says she doesnt know how to handle me.
never been on her own, seems very dependant still
has no idea what she wants to do with her life
real girl
realgirl1
realgirl2
realgirl3
realgirl4
realgirl5 yay boobs /w ex bf
realgirl having sex on tv
the butt
OMG THANK YOU GOD
20
not an athlete
good body
bigger boobs (lol)
thicker booty (not ghetto, just *nice*
seems to appreciate my traits more
seems to appreciate the traits I want appreciated
has been in a relationship with the same guy from 11-19 and recently split with him
incredibly independant, lives alone, pays all her bills
going to school to be an elementary teacher (awww)
what should I do?? I'm physically finding dream girl with the edge.... but this other girl, she's not shabby either. they are both beyond what I could ask for...... i dont want to miss out on them both because I couldnt decide..... And with dream girl, I thought I had it in the bag, but she is still giving me doubts, where as the older girl has already laid it all on the table which makes me feel more stable about her...
Met the realgirl. Went up to her work and hung out at the bar where she works. We were just going to leave and go to borders book store for coffee and hang out and chat, but she asked me to just come home with her instead. Not in a fvck me kinda way, just like we have nothing better to do, lets watch a movie..... very casual as if we had been friends for a while. anyways, SHE IS AWESOME. i just woke up to the best friday morning of my life, and im posting this from her pc. she just left for school, and told me she'd be back in about an hour, and i could make myself whatever I wanted to eat. We had the most wonderful time talking last night. it was a blast. dream girl who?
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edit: dreamgirl is 1 inch taller than me, which I find really sexy..... but the real girl is 4 inches shorter than me which means easier for me to handle physically...
well, i made that song at she loves me not for the "dream girl". i really like her, she really likes me, but something is missing. I fell head over heels for her, and got carried away. I know she likes me, as much as I want to make something happen, im starting to feel like somethings missing.
anyways dreamgirl says she wants me as a friend, and a bunch of other weird stuff. But I forwarded the emails to my friend Tori, who is good on relationships, and she says im a fool if I dont put 2 and 2 together that shes young, doesnt know how to handle me, and is testing me because of how forward I am being. She's already spilled her heart out to me about her entire life, in a very open and vulnerable way. (im talking pages upon pages of dialogue, not just "i want to be friends") shes young barely 18, gorgeous, smart, and we definately have a good connection.
so the day she tells me about her boyfriend, that isnt serious, but isnt about to dump because im so much older and she doesnt trust me enough yet no matter what a I say...., i get messaged from a girl via aol that found me on myspace. where as Im feeling like other girl is my "dream girl" and im confused about the whole thing, this girl's sn is something along the lines of flawwed_but_real23....
About 6 months ago I found a girl on match.com that I really liked(i mean liked the pics and profile), but i never sent anything to her, basically because I thought she was out of my league. I distinctly remembered her for some reason, and even saved a few of her pics because of how I felt. (stalker!)
So guess what? this girl that messages me is the girl I found on match..... weird eh? So we start talking, turns out she is good friends with the girlfriends of two of my good friends, so we actually said we thought it was weird that we hadn't met in real life yet. She didnt even realize I knew her friends until I saw a pic of her with them and said something. anyways, we spent all this past week talking onlin from about 9pm till 2am.... weve talked on the phone too and she basically tells me she wants me baddly, so considering everything, im going to meet her tomorrow at her work. she is working, but fortunately my buddy is the bartender, so we decided to play it like we've never met, and im in their to see my buddy. we have it set up so Im going to say something to my buddy about her, and shes going to say someting to her friend about me, and let our friends try and scramble to introduce us. haha.. Where I as telling dream girl she was my "dream girl" this "real girl" is telling me Im her dream guy... its a weird reversal of roles.....
im still torn though, because I just recently poured my heart out to the dream girl, and I feel weird jumping ship. im a loyal guy.... but then again, ive never had a serious girlfriend before. Ive kept my distance and just had flings when I really needed. My friend Tori seems to think that dream girl is still testing me (tori and her sister were both prom queens and such, and have had guys chasing them their entire life). I trust tori to tell me whats up. Several times she has told me to walk away from a girl cause she knew it wouldnt work, and it didnt, and when she told me to hang in and i gave up, i end up finding otu the girl wanted me. Tori says hang in with the dream girl...... Tori doesnt know about the other one yet.....
Im afraid im going to walk away from my dream girl for a girl thats just looking for someone to replace her ex... they split up for college.... but then again, i dont know any of the dream girls friends, and they are all young and Im not going to be partying with them.. but i know real girls friends, ive already gotten drunk many times with her so-called best friends, and its amazing to me that things aligned the way they did with her. I can remember not wanting to hang out with my boys because they were always with their girlfriends, and when they went out , id be alone. so with this girl, its like we plug perfectly into our existing circle of friends...
so here's how it stacks up
i am 25
dream girl:
dreamgirl1
dreamgirl2
dreamgirl3
dreamgirl4
stats
18
all star soccer player
in amazing shape
beautiful
incredibly smart and mature
we have a psychic connection we already discussed that Ive never found in anybody else before.....
never been in a long term relationship, which is why she says she doesnt know how to handle me.
never been on her own, seems very dependant still
has no idea what she wants to do with her life
real girl
realgirl1
realgirl2
realgirl3
realgirl4
realgirl5 yay boobs /w ex bf
realgirl having sex on tv
the butt
OMG THANK YOU GOD
20
not an athlete
good body
bigger boobs (lol)
thicker booty (not ghetto, just *nice*
seems to appreciate my traits more
seems to appreciate the traits I want appreciated
has been in a relationship with the same guy from 11-19 and recently split with him
incredibly independant, lives alone, pays all her bills
going to school to be an elementary teacher (awww)
what should I do?? I'm physically finding dream girl with the edge.... but this other girl, she's not shabby either. they are both beyond what I could ask for...... i dont want to miss out on them both because I couldnt decide..... And with dream girl, I thought I had it in the bag, but she is still giving me doubts, where as the older girl has already laid it all on the table which makes me feel more stable about her...