This is the old stereotype. There are a multitude of gamers out there who don't fit this mold.
For instance, I'm a gamer. I'm also a Captain in the US Army, I teach Philosophy at the US Military Academy at West Point, and I enjoy participating in Mixed Martial Arts.
Thanks to you and BoberFett for sharing.
I identify as a gamer as well.
I'm an engineer, animator, kravmaga punching-bag and gun accessory nutjob. I've lived in 3 different continents for more than 6 years each and I've met some of my best friends in life through video games, a lot of them previously or currently in the US army and air force. These are people with whom I can't ever see myself even agreeing on a beer brand but I'd gladly take a bullet for.
I cringe when I see people obliviously defending these awful editors circling the wagon because the rest of the world has started to realize that they have made themselves comfortable parasiting off the very nerd culture that allows them to have a job and hope to get away with their crass contempt for criticism by deflecting with the most obvious specimen of red herring I've seen professionals ever blatantly use, 'misogyny.'
Video games are finally getting a tiny bit of respect as an art form and people at large are starting to realize that despite being one of the most flourishing and profitable medium this decade (surpassing motion pictures by a good margin), it's still the only field where outright frauds can get away by hiding behind the pretense of moral outrage and intellectual dishonesty. These people fear scrutiny and that's exactly why, even though I never really gave two shits about her before, taking a stand against people like Sarkeesian is important to me now.