Pie: How to get some. [some good loving] **wink wink**

[BruinEd03]

<< if you're a nice guy, is it even WORTH it to go for the types of girls that long for a 'bad boy'? Hell, are they even worth it? >>



Problem is that it's not the minority of girls...it's the majority that figure that way...like seriously they all seek out the bad boys like if not intentionally then subconsciously. I like other nice guys have been told so many times &quot;oh...you're a nice guy...you'll find a girl&quot; or &quot;nice guys are what girls are looking for...really!&quot; or &quot;that girl doesn't know what she's missing out on!&quot;

We also can't tell which gals are gonna be the ones that reject the nice guys or which ones goes after the nice guys :|

-Nice Guy Who's Been Rejected Way Too Many Times Cuz He's Not a Meanie (a.k.a. Ed)

 

[PMFleXXX]

&quot;My friend&quot; just ordered 3!!! Can someone say HOT Deal???? J/K

 

[Thegonagle]

I didn't even read the thread yet. I can't stop laughing at that link. As always, the FAQ is a must read.

 

[ThisIsMatt]

I'm gonna use my 1000th post now just to say...

girls is suck

 

[Thegonagle]

<< when she asks to borrow some $ say, 'sure'

give her a buck, tell her to go get you a coke and she can keep the change. >>

Troglidytis, LOL (yes, really)

ViperGTS, ouch, man! I've been there too, too many times.

 

[Caliboy]

After reading all these posts it seems like most of you guys are still in high school. Don't worry about girls now because in college all you nice guys will meet girls who will like you for who you are. Don't try to be a 'bad boy' if you're not one because you'll end up feeling uncomfortably fake.

I have to disagree with what a couple of you guys said. I don't think girls like getting hurt. Some girls like to mess with a guy's head or just have a short fling, but I don't think they want to get their feelings hurt.

 

[OS]

<< Don't worry about girls now because in college all you nice guys will meet girls who will like you for who you are. >>



I want to go to the college you are at. I have a friend who some girls at first wouldn't give him the time of day, but after he bought a mercedes, the same girls are like &quot;oh, call me up&quot; Yes, this in university

But then again, I do go to school in LA/socal, which is like superficial capital of the nation. I don't remember girls being this superficial/messing with your head when I went to school in the Bay. I guess it all depends.

 

[Drekce]

Seriously guys, if you are in high school it is so much different. I had my share of girlfreinds in high school, but most of the girls I knew then were superficial and immature (including a couple I went out with). College was completely different. Sure there are still the superficial girls (pretty much anyone in a sorority), but a lot more of them are real. I'm getting married in a month, and I can honestly say that I didnt have to do anything to woo her into liking me. When you find a girl that really is going to love you, and not lose interest after a month, you shouldn't have to be fake. Just try not to fall for two girls at the same time. that is bad.

...Another social commentary by me...

 

[Slappy5]

I think some of you may be somewhat mislead. Just because you aren't &quot;getting any&quot; doesn't necessarily mean your personality is flawed. It may simply be that you have not yet met the person you are looking for. I consider myself a nice guy, as does my wife. Albeit I am human and am equally prone to a diversity of emotions (ie short temper, impatience, etc..) but I will attest to the fact that physical attraction is simply benefical to drawing ones attention more quickly than through less obvious attributes. Really now, do you truly want to waste your time with someone you know does not suit you beyond gratifying some primitive sexual urge when you could just as easily umm... gratify yourself? The only theing you gain out of someone doing that for you on a strictly physical level is that you may think they somehow affirm your self assuredness (or likely, lack thereof.) Trust me when I tell you there is nothing like being with the one person in the world who you prefer and cherish over everything else; taking the time to know eachother intimately, is intensely more fulfilling and all levels. Case in point if I haven't already lost you, be yourself, be comfortable with yourself, and the person you will eventually find will for the rest of your life make it worthwhile.

$.02? Perhaps, but it works for me.

John

 

[Yeeny]

Nice guys are great as friends, but they've never really been able to peak my interest as anything more than that...

Well I prefer a man who is my friend first. It makes it better when you have someone you can share more than just sex with, it makes the relationship deeper, and gives you something to hold on to when things get rough.

Pie: How to get some. [some good loving] **wink wink**

First off, start by not calling it pie.

 

[Slappy5]

NOw that I think about, you may simply be young in which case you can't exactly control those urges anyways; the &quot;p&quot; wordthat always pissed me off when I was that age?

 

[Suki]

Some of it true. I know 2 guys you might want to consider as nice guys and already on their mid 30's and still single.

I have a story to tell you , one of the nice guy asked me to go along with him on a blind date. By the end of the date I got 2 phone numbers and you know the rest.

 

[warcleric]

This stuff only works on 14 year old girls. When they grow up they realize those &quot;bad&quot; guys are losers and hard to get==conceited ass.

 

[Slappy5]

Very true Mr Warlcleric. Aptly put.