Over a year ago, I dated someone whom I loved very much(Jane). She dumped me and has had multiple boyfriends since then. I met her best friend(Jill) over the weekend. She and I hit it off very well, and ended up being affectionate towards one another.
Now today, I'm told that she broke a "friend code" by getting involved with her best friend's ex. Friend code, ex, me?... what the @$!@#$? I can't be interested in Jill because I'm the former dumpee of Jane? Jill and I had our moment, and we both decided a long distance relationship would not work at all, so nothing will come of the weekend. The problems all come from the fact that I'm an "ex" and I'm off limits to any of Jane's friends.
Personally, I feel the whole thing is absurd. I had a genuine interest in Jill, and she in me. Why does Jane's opinion matter at all?... She dumped me a long time ago.
Now today, I'm told that she broke a "friend code" by getting involved with her best friend's ex. Friend code, ex, me?... what the @$!@#$? I can't be interested in Jill because I'm the former dumpee of Jane? Jill and I had our moment, and we both decided a long distance relationship would not work at all, so nothing will come of the weekend. The problems all come from the fact that I'm an "ex" and I'm off limits to any of Jane's friends.
Personally, I feel the whole thing is absurd. I had a genuine interest in Jill, and she in me. Why does Jane's opinion matter at all?... She dumped me a long time ago.