Poll: bi-sexuality

[Soybomb]

note: Mods I'd appreciate if you could let this try to stay open as long as it remains a mature discussion. Everyone behave now!

In another thread someone mentioned bi-sexuality and it was then mentioned how most guys like the idea of two women together. Why is that? I personally wouldn't want to share my g/f with anyone! Insights?

Bi-sexuality also seems to be a bit of a trend right now. Is it really just be part of a trend or are people just more comfortable with themselves? There also seems to be a double standard, its okay for girls but not for guys? Why is that? Enlighten me in this area that I dont understand

 

[Regine]

Maybe you should add "Haven't yet, but would like to try" to your poll.

 

[StageLeft]

I havne't, but I don't think its wrong, so really I can't answer any of those questions.

 

[Soybomb]

Ohhhh forgot that! Got it! Wrong was'nt really supposed to have that implication but I added another option then too...its early gimme some slack

 

[StageLeft]

OK there ya go

 

[JenniZ]

There are four types of bisexuals:

True-Bi: Someone who always has been and always will be attracted
completely equal to both genders, has little hangups, just looking for
their "mister or misses right". There seems to be an equal ammount of
males and females who are true-bi

Developed-Bi: Someone who DEVELOPED bisexuality for whatever obsecure
reason. Maybe a bad relationship with one gender. Perhaps an undying
curiocity, etc. Usually they start out in a stage called "bi-curious",
and develop their bisexuality. There also seems to be and equal ammount
of males and females who are this.

Sexual-Bi: Comprised mostly of men. Men who love sex, and are addicted
to sex, they get it any way they can from anyone they can. They have no
sexual hang ups usually. They dont usually care for a realationship, just
sex. These individuals have always been sexual individuals. While it is
mostly comprised of men, there are some women who fit this, and I would sy
my cousion is one of them.

Trendy-Bi: With the typical male fantasy this day and age being two
women at once, or two watch two women for sexual thrills. Along comes
trendy-bisexual. Unlike sexual-bi these individuals are comprised of
mostly young women. With soceity saying its ok for women to like women
more and more, it makes it easier. A trendy-bi-female is usually not even
bi, and hardly attracted to women at all. They are bi for their
boyfriend/husband, or use it as a means of getting one. While that seems
cold and harsh, its a considerable factor. I wouldnt really call them bi,
but people who take part in bi-sexuality because its "Trendy". Chances are
these people usually are in with "trends". When this trend dies off, so
will their bisexuality. Society views male-bis equal to that of
homosexual men, and this is NOT a good thing in our society, as a result,
its not really "trendy" to be a bi male, and hence there are few
trendy-bi-males. Although there are always exceptions to the rule.

 

[Regine]

LOL
Sounds like we need a new poll: What type of bi are you?

 

[Soybomb]

Wow jenni, nice post, imformative
Lol i'm not editing the choices again though

 

[FlashG]

I've said buy to sex ever since my 53rd birthday.

 

[rocmonster]

tattoos, piercings, bisexual curiousity, ahh the rites of being young and without a mortgage...

 

[Regine]

What do piercings and tattoos have to do with sexual orientation?

 

[Isla]

Well, I'm not going to get too personal here, but I will say this:

Some people are more androgynous than others, and for those who are, love and sex are not limited to encounters with the opposite sex.

To me, this isn't good/bad/right or wrong... It just is. As long as no one is being exploited/abused/ manipulated, it shouldn't be a major issue.

 

[Electric Amish]

TG- I think he's just lumping them into the "luxuries" of being young.

As for me, I'll be blunt. Guys don't give me anything even resembling wood.

Watching two girls, on the other hand.....WHOA!! Down boy!

amish

 

[rocmonster]

thank Electric Amish, that's what I was lamenting

 

[SSP]

Nah.. I wouldn't share like that. Not my cup of tea.

 

[StageLeft]

Amish is right. Its not our fault, the vast majority of guys like that.

 

[Electric Amish]

Unfortunately, I'm not entirely sure why guys like the 2-girl thing.

The only thing I can think of is that guys like T&A so, double the T&A can't be all bad, eh??




(as long as at least one of them leaves when it's over. )


amish

 

[Wangel]

The reason watching 2 females together is so popular is because:

1) Men can see more female than just watching one female
2) Men can see what females like, since who would know better than another female.
3) Every man believes that he can satisfy 2 females at the same time, even though it usually doesn't quite work. Logically would be 2 or more men to one female.
4) And the number 4 reason - Anything is better than watching our wife asleep snooring!

 

[Adul]

oh sure, take my idea and post it.
Well this is a good read anyways.

here my opinion, because women are beautiful creatures in more than just looks. And guys are well, just guys. We burp, fart, make rude noises etc...

 

[Theslowone]

HELL YEAH, wangel..








Sorry for the outburst.

 

[toph99]

<< What do piercings and tattoos have to do with sexual orientation? >>



i'd like to know as well i think JenniZ did a good job at explaining it

 

[Farbio]

some of why guys find 2 girls together so attractive may have to do with the way that society says its something that should be attractive or whatever, so conditioning could have alot to do with our response

whatever the reason though, hubba hubba for two girls

 

[BoberFett]

It's simple really. Two girls is twice as much of a good thing.

 

[celery550]

well you're right
two women together sounds good, especially if I'm there
two men together sounds down right ICKY

I suppose both are actually ok, if you're into that two guy thing, I prefer only to be involved if it's a two girl + one guy thing

 

[Czar]

My ex GF is Bisexual, its fine, very fine.
My friend is bisexual, not good at all, not when he is drunk