well, the soapdish exposes himself...
I've had sex with two women, and a separate time with one woman and three men.
So, what do you call that? I'd call it a consentual version of fun.
I don't hold it against anyone, personally.
Let me tell you abit about myself. I was a rootin, tootin, country western bartender! I had an opportunity once to have sex with two women who were up to it, and I did it! Granted, it isn't all that it is craked up to be. I got tired real quick, and they didn't.
After a couple years of marriage, well, me and the missus talked different tales and she had a sex fantasy thing about a tryst with 2 guys. Well, I wasn't up to it at first, but a trip to cozumel changed that. I found it exciting to consent to letting another guy (in this case two) have there way with her as long as I got to participate. And this lead to other adventures. Now, we are having the best sex we could ever have asked for, and all as a result of loosing up. We don't fight anymore, or anything. Sex is sex, and is fun. But we are the only two making love to each other. It is a trust that can't be broken.
But, there will people to find fault in us. No doubt. We are easy targets. But oh well. At least our lives won't be spent in denial! (And yea, she does women too )