Poll: <EDIT/> Tell me what I should do. Dump her, Get THEM BOTH IN BED, Stay with her until I get the other girl, or Turn into a MONK???? </EDIT> :)

[Fearlss1]

Ok heres the story.. I am in a relationship with a girl that I have been with for 2 1/2 years.. We have been fighting alot recently. I know the fighting is because of me and my roaming eyes. I think I may be gettign sick of her. Also my parents dont like her that much either because they think she has no incentive and that I coudl do so much better.. This girl is a beautiful girl and very smart, but she doesnt want to finish going to school anytime soon.. (Sorry I have no pics but she looks exactly like the link at the bottom) Well this weekend we went out to eat at a local Steak House, and there is this girl there who is unbelieavble looking, she began flirting with me right in front of my gf, however she didnt catch on to her flirting.. That nite when I laid in bed and the last 2 nights all I have doen is thought about her.. That makes me feel horrible but I cant help thinkign of her. Also I am a 23 yr old and a Senior in College, graduationg in May.. I am going to eat lunch at this Steak house again so I can show my co-worker/good friend who she is... But this interest in other girls is killing our relationship.. I really dont know why I posted this but just looking for any TYPE of input possible..... Sometimes I feel like I want to be with her forever sometimes I just want her to leave me alone so I can do my own thing.. I knwo this girl would do anythign in the world for me but my quetion is, WHY IS IT THAT I FEEL LIKE I WANT TO BE WITH HER ONE DAY AND NOT THE NEXT????
HELP CONFUSED NATE... Look Alike

 

[warcleric]

Dump her, I didnt even read what you said, that is just the right answer for any woman problem.

 

[Total Refected Power]

Because you want a sure thing but also something new and exciting.

If she doesn't interest you now, then get out. Its not fair to her. We all like shiny new things but if you love her then the other women while interesting don't really matter.

Get out.

 

[Tauren]

Sounds like denial. You really don't want to be with her if you are interested in other girls and this is causing a dilemna. Get out now and get on with your life with someone you really do want to be with.

 

[classy]

You aren't ready for any relationship. So just move on.

 

[Passions]

Hump and dump.

 

[bigbootydaddy]

sometimes space will tell you what you truly want.

take it from the girl problem freak. moi.

 

[Fearlss1]

Lol Bigbooty..... You and me both...

 

[amb#cog]

Your poll has a &quot;try and get them both&quot; option.

I think you made a mistake.

You meant &quot;try and get them both in bed together&quot; right?

 

[warcleric]

The best advice I ever heard was &quot;Other women are always more attractive than your wife or long-time girlfriend, because they are just a fantasy, they are always wearing sexy lingerie and always want sex, while the wife is just wearing plain old &quot;comfortable&quot; underwear and never wants sex. But once that fantasy becomes a reality, you always see that they have the same old &quot;comfortable&quot; underwear, and that you were usually better off with the one you had.&quot;

 

[ArkAoss]

hey i voted monk !!if you really don't like girl a, but you've been leadin her on for 2 yrs just for booty, shame.

My girl, is nice, a little rough sometimes, around the edges, but underneath she's nice, and I like her, and my folks are ok, but she oughta work out her rough edges they say, but i wouldn't try to lead her on for 2 yrs, if i wasn't sure.... (ok maybe I would she is kinda hot) but I'm already extremely sure that I really really like this girl deep down. not just for looks, so I'm not worrying.

 

[iamwiz82]

i think you would make an excellent monk.

 

[Fearlss1]

Yeah War you are correct, But I thought whne you TRULY love someone you stop looking at other people all the time.. At least that what she says to me all the time.. I dont ask her, hey do you ever look at other people.. LOL and as for the answer about be apart for a while we have been she moved to another state and then came back 6 moths later saying she couldnt live without me. SO you see how difficult this situation is...

 

[warcleric]

Fearlss: hahaha guess I have never truly loved anyone then....I cant help but look. Hell even when I was a baby I was looking for a new mom, just in case I could find a better one.

 

[bigbootydaddy]

<< But I thought whne you TRULY love someone you stop looking at other people all the time >>



says who?? there are NO set rules, its supposed to be different for all. You gotta find out what it means to you.

 

[Fearlss1]

Yeah me neither evertytime I think I have the perfect chick damn I start new classes and all I can do is think about them.. I guess I am just a jerk.. I cant help it. &quot;The grass ios always greener on the other side&quot;
But do you think I will ever be able to commit to any ONE person...????
What to do What to do???
Also she gets pissed all the time, cuz I am a addicted TRIBES player and the O. captain of my team. So i have to stay on top of things not to mention I work 42 hours a week and goto to school for 2 classes..
Keep the comments coming,, LOL

<edit/> Big Booty do you have a woman now??? </edit>

 

[cipher00]

Hey, Fearlss1:

&quot;Enjoy yourself. These are the good old days you're going to miss in the years ahead.&quot;....


Couldn't have said it better myself.

Anyway: of course you look around, even in a relationship. If it alters your mood, it's probably over, now or whenever you finally get annoyed enough. It's your time, but I'd move on. (Sure wish I did years ago before I up and married the woman I wasn't that sure of, mainly 'cuz she kept coming back, couldn't live without me, etc., etc. Divorce is expensive....)

Good luck.

 

[ForeverSilky]

<< This girl is a beautiful girl and very smart, but she doesnt want to finish going to school.. >>



Bad decision. Don't date either of them.

 

[Fearlss1]

cipher00

You sound like you are in the EXact same situation I am in. I have tried to break up 5 or 6 times, but she does keep coming back.. She also as I said moved to a complete different state , and STILL CAME BAck.. wtf.. I know I am a stud in bed but DOh LOL jk... But what brings her back to me. What is it that I can do to make her interested in someone else???

 

[Fearlss1]

Forever Silky
The girl who doesnt want to finish school is the one I am with now..

 

[sandmanwake]

Confuscious says, &quot;Man who can't be with two women at once has scheduling problem.&quot; j/k

 

[Fearlss1]

Ahahahah Sandman... Lmao@You.. Omg I thought Confuious said &quot; Man who walk around with hands in pocket feel cocky all day&quot;???

 

[Emulex]

post jpegs of the two, for us to compare.

 

[Fearlss1]

I guess once again.. My post dies early.. Damn I am goning to have to bring up better topics... Anyway. I am still wanting to hear a few more solutions. Where are my plas, windogg and girlfriday. They always have great opinions..

UPDATE, The STEAK HOUSE IS CLOSED FROM 2-5 RIGHT DURING MY LUNCH BREAK.. Damn I wanted to see her today!!!!

 

[bigbootydaddy]

no, i dont have a chick at the moment. we will be going to school together in the fall...after being seperated for 2 years....shudder