Poll: Ever Cybered?

[JonJon]

mmmmmmm baby stick in........

 

[Valhalla1]

its about actions.. its very intimate.

what do you do when you make love to a girl? you are simply expressing these actions in written form, and it allows the mind to imagine and fantasize the ideal moment. the human mind cannot distinguish between fantasy and reality. why not let your imagination take over and project a perfect lovemaking with someone you love?

I add that cybering with random people doesn't even shine a candle to doing it with someone you are in love with, someone who just the other night you were doing the actions you are describing with them in actual person. and knowing that when you see her again next week you will get to live out what you are doing right now.

 

[thebestMAX]

You need to add "I never lie" to some of the poll options.

 

[Valhalla1]

I'd like to hear Russ's input on this topic.

 

[JonJon]

Very nice Valhalla and i totally agree. sometimes fantasy can even be better than reality b/c we all know how we liked to be teased. as for doing it someone you love i find i have problems with that. i've never been able to do it the same with a girlfriend as i can with someone i don't know...the mystery just isn't there for me.

 

[JonJon]

i was just thinking the same thing Valhalla...
WHERE'S RUSS?

 

[BoberFett]

Viper

OK, this isn't a diss, but you've never had sex. For you to call cybersex "stupid" and "pointless" is just being a prude. I'll grant you that the typical vision one has of a pathetic geek going into a chat room and digitally drooling over anything claiming to be female and trying to get them in a private room is lame. But cybersex with your real-life lover is no different than phone sex or writing sexy letters. They all get the job done when you're not there in person.

 

[Valhalla1]

<< But cybersex with your real-life lover is no different than phone sex or writing sexy letters. They all get the job done when you're not there in person.
>>




well said, my man.. bravo

 

[Doodoo]

I'm with Viper on this one...and I get plenty of sex from my girlfriend. When she's away...which is rare, porn does it for me.

 

[JonJon]

i'm right there backin you up bobberfett...

 

[prodigy]

No, i've never cybered but the people that do are sane and reasonable

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Moi? Ummmm Er... I plead the fifth. heehee I will say that I used to think it was stupid and pointless, but my opinion has since changed. :Q

 

[HKSturboKID]

Than again, this is where you let your imagination goes wild. There are a lot of stuff that you can't do in real life, but in cyberworld, you can practically...no, you can do anything and everything your mind takes you.

 

[ratkil]

<<'m with Viper on this one...and I get plenty of sex from my girlfriend. When she's away...which is rare, porn does it for me. >>
Wait until you actually love someone, that opinion may change

 

[Viper GTS]

Wait until you actually love someone, that opinion may change

Does that go for me as well? 'Cause I'm very much in love, thank you.

Viper GTS

 

[StageLeft]

disagree with that ratkill.

 

[ratkil]

I did speak a little before thinking probably. Just seems like if you are really in love and she is not gone that often, why do you need/desire the porn? I do apologize though if I offended.

Also was hoping he would come back with a &quot;fvck you&quot; cause then I could have said he was cybering...

 

[Viper GTS]

OK, I agree with that...

I thought you were saying that if you were in love with someone then cyber sex suddenly had appeal.

Viper GTS

 

[JonJon]

it seems like the forum is pretty divided on this one. but we know where my vote lies...LOL keep this going it's good guys and thanx

 

[gUEvAra]

val you pussy (j/k)

i think its pretty stupid, but to each their own, some people get off on chicks with dicks, so who am i to judge...lol
why not phonesex? at least you get to hear their voice, and thats a plus, at least with my girlfriend. still...im not a big fan of either, call me old fashioned..

 

[Valhalla1]

oh yes, phonesex is good as well.

 

[JonJon]

yeah i'm feeling the phone sex thing...no pun intended

 

[Valhalla1]

<< yeah i'm feeling the phone sex thing >>



lol..

 

[Yeeny]

I never have. I don't see anything wrong with those who do, to each their own. But it just does not do anything for me, to have some guy tell me five minutes after meeting me that he wants to stick his tongue in various places.

 

[Valhalla1]

GF - see, he doesn't know what he's doing.

its not about knowing someone for 5 minutes and then straight to tongue-ing you up.

its about someone you love, and spending LOTS of TIME taking it very SLOWLY.

trust me, I get bored very easily, but deep down, everyone loves to be teased.