POLL for 20 somethings: Would it bother you if the girl you're dating told you that she's been pregnant before, but

[CKent]

Nope, abortion wouldn't bother me either. If she'd been pregnant & had the kid - that would bother me. Especially if hitting that meant making friendly with a kid (I hate kids) (sorry ATOT).

 

[imported_hscorpio]

Originally posted by: RBachman
Nope, abortion wouldn't bother me either. If she'd been pregnant & had the kid - that would bother me. Especially if hitting that meant making friendly with a kid (I hate kids) (sorry ATOT).

I bet many men share your feelings just not your honesty.

 

[Siddhartha]

I would be more concerned if she told me she was a virgin. I would wonder about a 20 something virgin.

 

[Kadarin]

It would not bother me in the slightest if she had had either a miscarriage or an abortion. If she had kids, then it would depend on the situation with the kids (I have no desire whatsoever to be around babies or young kids at this time, but you never know).

On the other hand, I wouldn't want a virgin. I would want a woman who loves sex, and is both experienced and enthusiastic.

 

[monk3y]

I don't think it would bother me but you never know until you've been in the situation.

 

[bmacd]

yes and no. Hard to go into detail, but I think we've all fvcked up at some point in our lives. No sense in dwelling on it forever. Everybody deserves second chances.

-=bmacd=-

 

[JohnPaul]

Not at all. I've gone with a few girls who have had abortions, and that wouldn't bother me either, in fact, if I got some chick pregnant right now i'd probably encourage her to abort it.

Why would having a miscarriage have any bearing on anything, and why would it bother someone? Does a miscarriage mean you are a slut? Are you broken if you've had one?

 

[jlee]

Originally posted by: JohnPaul
Not at all. I've gone with a few girls who have had abortions, and that wouldn't bother me either, in fact, if I got some chick pregnant right now i'd probably encourage her to abort it.

Why would having a miscarriage have any bearing on anything, and why would it bother someone? Does a miscarriage mean you are a slut? Are you broken if you've had one?

In stark contrast to what your username would imply..

 

[Agaruvala]

Abortion = no

Miscarriage = No

BOTH means shes been preg and thats a no no in the 20's. Most of you said if she had kid thens no, but if both others then yes. WTF if she had the two other she was about to have a kid. Same thing in my mind.

She has high mileage and has been driven hard, buyer beware

 

[0roo0roo]

depends on hotness

 

[PokerGuy]

Yes it would bother me, but not because of a miscarriage (that's just a normal biological occurence). It would bother me because she was pregnant before, presumably not married, basically doing things that I don't find morally acceptable.

 

[edro]

Originally posted by: AmdEmAll
Yes but I don't know why

 

[OrganizedChaos]

if i was just dating her then
miscarriage=no
abortion=no

but if i wanted her to have my kids then
miscarriage=yes
proper abortion=no
abortion behind a 7-11 by a guy naked skinner=yes

 

[Stuxnet]

Originally posted by: AmdEmAll
Yes but I don't know why

It's human instinct. Your natural tendancy is to successfully breed; your mind and body will take actions to help you achieve that, including avoiding less-than-optimal-mates.

On that note, my wife miscarried our first pregnancy, and it was very very difficult to cope with. However, I thought no less of her because of it, because we were obviously very in love. But, if I was on a first date with someone who I learned to have pregnancy issues, it would probably have a profound effect on me.

 

[acemcmac]

Yes because it would have meant a lot of servere "lying by ommission" since we have talked about her previous relationships at legnth and would probably end the relationship

 

[hypn0tik]

Yes, it would bother me.

 

[Stuxnet]

Originally posted by: virtualgames0
Miscarriages are actually more common than most people think, just that no one really talks about them.

Not only that, but in a lot of instances the woman doesn't even realized that she a) was pregnant, and b) miscarried.

They typically happen very early.

 

[CKent]

Originally posted by: Agaruvala
Abortion = no

Miscarriage = No

BOTH means shes been preg and thats a no no in the 20's. Most of you said if she had kid thens no, but if both others then yes. WTF if she had the two other she was about to have a kid. Same thing in my mind.

She has high mileage and has been driven hard, buyer beware

:laugh: Yeah, that or failed one time to use a prophylactic (or had one fail on her). And you honestly don't see the difference between a corrected mistake and having to raise some other guy's kids?

But good luck finding a wealthy virginal supermodel who, once she experiences your 2" of love, will want only to have sex with you day and night. I love ATOT :laugh:

 

[DivideBYZero]

Originally posted by: Agaruvala
Abortion = no

Miscarriage = No

BOTH means shes been preg and thats a no no in the 20's. Most of you said if she had kid thens no, but if both others then yes. WTF if she had the two other she was about to have a kid. Same thing in my mind.

She has high mileage and has been driven hard, buyer beware

Wow. The virgins are out in force today.

 

[Acanthus]

nope

 

[Brutuskend]

no

Edit: But then I'm not 20 something....

 

[Ausm]

I think this thread is a miscarriage of justice.



Ausm

 

[Acanthus]

Originally posted by: DivideBYZero

Originally posted by: Agaruvala
Abortion = no

Miscarriage = No

BOTH means shes been preg and thats a no no in the 20's. Most of you said if she had kid thens no, but if both others then yes. WTF if she had the two other she was about to have a kid. Same thing in my mind.

She has high mileage and has been driven hard, buyer beware

Wow. The virgins are out in force today.

It would appear so. :thumbsdown:

 

[sygyzy]

Did she intend on keeping the baby if there was no miscarriage?

 

[gigapet]

why happened before me is nothing I care much about.