kranky
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- Oct 9, 1999
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This is a very interesting problem. Why should someone get a multi-thousand dollar windfall because they lose their car keys? Is there any chance that he did this intentionally for the purpose of cashing in, considering it happened just three weeks after buying the car? Did he expect you to have the receipts, and produce them?
On the other hand, the car was sold, and you no longer have a financial interest in it. Splitting the "profit" sounds good at first, but then again you would both be profiting from the car being stolen which doesn't seem right. But withholding the receipts for no good reason doesn't seem right either.
I wonder how he would react if, instead of offering to split the profits, you told him you would track all the receipts down if he gives you all the money over and above what he paid for the car. That way he doesn't benefit from the car being stolen. You would be reimbursed for the money you voluntarily lost when you sold it for less than true value. If he is OK with that, then once he gives you the money you could "surprise" him by giving some of it back to help pay for higher insurance. But he wouldn't be expecting it, and the way he responds to that suggestion might tell you a lot about his motivation.
On the other hand, the car was sold, and you no longer have a financial interest in it. Splitting the "profit" sounds good at first, but then again you would both be profiting from the car being stolen which doesn't seem right. But withholding the receipts for no good reason doesn't seem right either.
I wonder how he would react if, instead of offering to split the profits, you told him you would track all the receipts down if he gives you all the money over and above what he paid for the car. That way he doesn't benefit from the car being stolen. You would be reimbursed for the money you voluntarily lost when you sold it for less than true value. If he is OK with that, then once he gives you the money you could "surprise" him by giving some of it back to help pay for higher insurance. But he wouldn't be expecting it, and the way he responds to that suggestion might tell you a lot about his motivation.