TallBill
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- Apr 29, 2001
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Originally posted by: SlitheryDee
It's not something I would advise doing, but I don't see it as bad manners because it can happen sort of inadvertently. In a close hand of poker I might be so astonished at the cards I draw that the only thing I can do to keep my pokerface is lean back somewhat, lifting the front two legs of the chair without realizing what I'm doing. Someone might tell an extremely good joke, sending me into gales of laughter and causing me to rock backwards in my chair to catch my breath. It's something that can happen without you meaning to do it, which is why I don't think it's bad manners in a relaxed setting. Having everyone feeling like they should be watching everything they're doing takes away from the enjoyment of the occasion and should be avoided by any good host.
Well said. It's not like people make a concious decision to lean back.