Yeah, but you realize that type of analysis "it's not their fault that they don't know any better," plays into the theory that they need some "superman" or anointed elite to fix everything for them. I agree that this is pretty much how they feel--this is exactly how fascists succeed and is the only explanation for a "superman" in their minds, like Donald Trump, to show up and promise to fix things with empty blabbering and "don't worry, just trust me that I know everything" messages.
It doesn't help.
They already distrust elites and the typical data-driven, analysis laden, social-experimentation policies that have pretty much defined the most recent generations of American progress. They are just sick of it. The solution isn't to replace the type of failed and vacuous superman that they trust with the type of superman "elite" that they are long conditioned to distrust.
I honestly think the only thing to do with the extreme minority of these people is to let their generational senescence put them into the pit where they have driven themselves, and simply wait for the kids that are just fed up with the bullshit being fed to them by their elders to crawl out and join the rest of the outside, advanced world. I think it's fair to air lift supplies or whatever so that these folks don't resort to cannibalism like they do in the hinterlands of the DPRNK (you know, basic healthcare, access to education and child care, subsidies for skill improvement and jobs, training and land grants to run small farms that support their local communities. I think you eally have to accept that enough of them, eventually, will figure out how to pull themselves up by the very bootstraps that they certainly believe exist. Support them with a minimum of effort so that they don't kill themselves or work to bring down the rest of humanity in the process.
Essentially, I don't think the victim acceptance and regime/superman replacement theory that you propose is in any way superior to the laissez faire victim blaming that I endorse.