Poll: Would you date a tough girl?

[monk3y]

<< Would you date a tough girl? >>

That would be an emphatic NO! My lack of attraction towards them parallels my lack of interest in men.

 

[bacillus]

do tough girls wash up??

 

[Schadenfreude]

Now, are we talking "I'll mess you up if you look at me weird" tough, or "I won't do anything, but I can kill you five times in three seconds" tough? I'd opt for the second - I've been looking for a girl like that my whole life! Well, not really. It'd be a nice diversion, though.

 

[Elledan]

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<< No.. it's not... the Catholic 'way' is that any form of anti-conception is forbidden >>



Contraceptives are verboten as a result of the catholic (and Christian, in general) concept that "Sex is for PROcreation not REcreation." The two go hand-in-hand of course, but the reasoning behind it is that if you're using a contraceptive, you're obviously in it for fun, which is "wrong."

Which is exactly what you said before....I was just commenting on the fact that, at least in the words you originally used, it's something taught in western religions, but you don't follow those religions.

As you explain it further, it fits more in with your MO. >>


The element I've added, however, is that mating is to be used only when offspring is necessary. Only a number of offspring can be produced in a certain period of time. Any additional offspring can not be allowed.

Also, the parents must be genetically 'fit' before they get permission to procreate.

More or less, mating is an irrelevant issue, a mere annoyance necessary to compensate for the fact that we, like every other lifeform, are mortal.

 

[Nitemare]

<< Now, are we talking "I'll mess you up if you look at me weird" tough, or "I won't do anything, but I can kill you five times in three seconds" tough? I'd opt for the second - I've been looking for a girl like that my whole life! Well, not really. It'd be a nice diversion, though. >>



I'm talking about the second. I really don't think any of us would like a girl who routinely threatens to kick our assets.

I'm talking like a james bond type girl or one like Laila Ali, or Chun-Li from Street Fighter...a girl tough and dangerous,yet non-manly looking.

 

[Servanya]

Are you talking about mating? I don't feel any need for it , so no, I don't pay for it either.

Spoken like a true virgin (not that that's a bad thing).
I just think that if you actually got into some sweeet poontang, you'd change your mind. Don't you get a tingle in your pants when you see naked girls on tv or the Internet?

I have considered "not dating", but then I think about how fun it is to share experiences with someone you care about - and how fun sex is....I just don't wanna give it up!

 

[kami]

Elledan, have you ever had sex? I guarantee your opinion will change when you do.
Your life will be boring if you keep this attitude. Just IMO anyway. Are you ever going to get a girlfriend or get married? Or are you going to spend the remaining years of your life alone?

 

[yllus]

<< That's a big NEGATIVE there, Nitemare. I don't go for that whole "Tomboy-Butch-Gang-girl" look/mindset. I like my women feminine, dainty, wearing makeup and wearing a dress. Jeans are great, but nothing turns me on like a woman in a fairly short miniskirt/business suit getup. Here in south Texas, we have lots of girls under 25 who would be pretty if they cleaned up, but choose to wear the "Gang-girl Look" I.E. Baggy men's jeans/big t-shirt not tucked in, baseball cap sideways, big Mr. T gold chain. You know, the Hispanic gang-banger, South Central LA Snoop Dog Fan, White Trailer Trash look.

And no, I won't apologize for saying any of it. So there. >>

Thank you.

 

[Elledan]

<< Elledan, have you ever had sex? I guarantee your opinion will change when you do. >>

I've heard that many times, but quite frankly, I don't think it will.

Mating will give me a pleasurable feeling, I know that, I can even simulate it. But it would never satisfy me.


<< Your life will be boring if you keep this attitude. >>

Can you read my mind? Do you know what I feel?

Not to sound harsh, but you're in no position to say what I'll like and what not.


<< Just IMO anyway. >>

Exactly.


<< Are you ever going to get a girlfriend or get married? >>

I consider marriage to be a relic from different times. It's a pretty silly concept.

Any relationship I'll have will be based on a mutual symbiosis of knowledge. That's a Platonic relationship for those who didn't understand it.


<< Or are you going to spend the remaining years of your life alone? >>

Alone?

Sorry, but I enjoy being alone, simply because of my personality, the person I am. I can think of no words which can describe what I feel at this moment, but this should give you a crude impression: It feels as though I've a complete multiverse inside of my mind. I live the lifes of countless people, feel and think everything they do, see what they see.

Sometimes things calm down and I'll be nearly alone, only faintly I can 'hear' the multiverse and everything in it. But these moments don't last very long.


I"ve yet to reach a better understanding of myself, but it's fascinating.

 

[MichaelD]

<< It feels as though I've a complete multiverse inside of my mind. I live the lifes of countless people, feel and think everything they do, see what they see.

Sometimes things calm down and I'll be nearly alone, only faintly I can 'hear' the multiverse and everything in it. But these moments don't last very long. >>




Uh-oh. Prozac can help you. Lithium may be an option. I hope you and your people find peace.

 

[Masas]

there's nothing wrong with a "tough" girl....so what if she can defend herself in times of need...only better
she can take care of herself...great....
maybe you won't get to support/provide/help/etc...etc... for her as much as a "feminine" woman but nothing wrong
tough girls are still girls and nothing wrong with them unless they start acting like thug-gangsta-bishes....

 

[Elledan]

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<< It feels as though I've a complete multiverse inside of my mind. I live the lifes of countless people, feel and think everything they do, see what they see.

Sometimes things calm down and I'll be nearly alone, only faintly I can 'hear' the multiverse and everything in it. But these moments don't last very long. >>




Uh-oh. Prozac can help you. Lithium may be an option. I hope you and your people find peace. >>


Haha

 

[Schadenfreude]

Y'know, let me just clarify my vote - my view on a girl is that she doesn't have to be in three martial arts styles, like me for instance, but isn't very "girlie" either - y'know? I wouldn't exactly go to "tough" but "rugged" (but "tough" is a bonus!)

And if she's in a style, all the better for me - we'll have something in common (which, by the way, I've been looking around my area and no girls seem to want to join martial arts, much to my chagrin.)

 

[Atlantean]

Yeah I would date someone stronger than me if I was at all attracted to her.

 

[techweenie]

Normally I'ld like them to be a real woman, but it's been a while so I'ld settle for a tough girl. Also, I'ld be willing to trade looks for a morally casual attitude.

 

[kami]

Elledan: You are, bar none, the strangest person I've ever "met."

BTW i don't mean that in a bad way. It's kind of interesting and amusing to me at the same time.

 

[notfred]

hmm, I get the feeling that Elledan actually owns a borg costume. And that he wears it to star trek conventions. And that all the girls at his high school know this.

I could be wrong, but that's the impression I'm getting.

 

[afropick]

<< Mating will give me a pleasurable feeling, I know that, I can even simulate it. But it would never satisfy me. >>



LOL!!!

Sorry, this line just cracked me up.

 

[BD2003]

Still sounds like some major cognitive dissonance to me.

"I cant get it, so I'll tell myself I dont want or need it! There!"


Don't try to deny your instincts. Bears and raccoons dont hump to procreate. They hump because they have their little orgasms. I dont know a damn person other than a priest that will go through life not having any sex BY CHOICE.

 

[monk3y]

<< hmm, I get the feeling that Elledan actually owns a borg costume. And that he wears it to star trek conventions. And that all the girls at his high school know this. >>

I'm getting a similar picture in my mind...

 

[MichaelD]

<< hmm, I get the feeling that Elledan actually owns a borg costume. And that he wears it to star trek conventions. And that all the girls at his high school know this. >>



Sorry to have to bite a line from a club I'm not yet a member of, but:


OMG! Noooo! Aaiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

 

[Elledan]

<< Elledan: You are, bar none, the strangest person I've ever "met."

BTW i don't mean that in a bad way. It's kind of interesting and amusing to me at the same time. >>


Thank you =)

Actually, I hardly know myself, so you're not the only one who is 'amused'.

 

[Elledan]

<< hmm, I get the feeling that Elledan actually owns a borg costume. And that he wears it to star trek conventions. And that all the girls at his high school know this.

I could be wrong, but that's the impression I'm getting. >>


You're wrong.

I only own a Bat'leth, but that's because I'm interested in such weapons.

 

[Elledan]

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<< Mating will give me a pleasurable feeling, I know that, I can even simulate it. But it would never satisfy me. >>



LOL!!!

Sorry, this line just cracked me up. >>


I can simulate the experience, yes, but not in the way you obviously think of. I was talking about the emotional experience, the stimulation of the pleasure centra in the brain by an increased amount of serotonine.

Get your mind out of the gutter.

 

[ILikeSprite]

hell ya!