Poll: would you ever consider going to a swingers party?

[CPA]

Originally posted by: LongAce
Here is just another reason why America has the most divorces.

LOL, so misinformed. so sad.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I'd like to try it just to see how the husbands react when a ripped bodybuilder is doing their wife in a way she's never been done before... although I don't think my SO would approve, she's old fashioned :-/

Yeah riight, more like an Oompa Loompa Dwarf.

 

[The Stigenator]

duh yes!

 

[eakers]

absolutely not.

even if we had a 3some with my own clone i would have to scratch her eyes out.

 

[Geekbabe]

So once you start swinging, does that mean you're no longer obligated to fsck your spouse or is there some clause that obligates you to perform on major holidays or when there's nothing good on TV?

 

[Confused]

Swinging is not for everyone.

It is often done by couples who are totally happy with each other, and want to get more from sex.

Many of those who swing regularly are totally in love with their partners, and as such, know that anything that happens at a swingers party is purely fun, and not emotional. When it starts getting emotional with someone else, that's when there are problems. However, many couples are able to see it as just an evening out, no more, no less.

As has been said, some couples who swing are some of the most rock-solid couples you will know, because they trust each other enough, and are happy enough with each other to be able to do it. For many, it can also make their own sex lives with each other better, as each partner learns new ideas/techniques from others.

I've not done it before, but if I was with a woman who was faithful enough in the trust and bond we have to be able to do it without emotional attachment, then I would, providing I did not get emotionally attached myself.

As i said, swinging is not for everyone, and it is more often than not not a good solution for a failing relationship.


Confused

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Confused
Swinging is not for everyone.

It is often done by couples who are totally happy with each other, and want to get more from sex.

Many of those who swing regularly are totally in love with their partners, and as such, know that anything that happens at a swingers party is purely fun, and not emotional. When it starts getting emotional with someone else, that's when there are problems. However, many couples are able to see it as just an evening out, no more, no less.

As has been said, some couples who swing are some of the most rock-solid couples you will know, because they trust each other enough, and are happy enough with each other to be able to do it. For many, it can also make their own sex lives with each other better, as each partner learns new ideas/techniques from others.

I've not done it before, but if I was with a woman who was faithful enough in the trust and bond we have to be able to do it without emotional attachment, then I would, providing I did not get emotionally attached myself.

As i said, swinging is not for everyone, and it is more often than not not a good solution for a failing relationship.


Confused

Yeah right, couples that swing more often than not do it because the Man in the relationship is looking to get some strange nookie and the woman is just a door mat and will do what ever he says.

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Confused
Swinging is not for everyone.

It is often done by couples who are totally happy with each other, and want to get more from sex.

Many of those who swing regularly are totally in love with their partners, and as such, know that anything that happens at a swingers party is purely fun, and not emotional. When it starts getting emotional with someone else, that's when there are problems. However, many couples are able to see it as just an evening out, no more, no less.

As has been said, some couples who swing are some of the most rock-solid couples you will know, because they trust each other enough, and are happy enough with each other to be able to do it. For many, it can also make their own sex lives with each other better, as each partner learns new ideas/techniques from others.

I've not done it before, but if I was with a woman who was faithful enough in the trust and bond we have to be able to do it without emotional attachment, then I would, providing I did not get emotionally attached myself.

As i said, swinging is not for everyone, and it is more often than not not a good solution for a failing relationship.


Confused

Yeah right, couples that swing more often than not do it because the Man in the relationship is looking to get some strange nookie and the woman is just a door mat and will do what ever he says.

You keep on thinking that women are naive little angels.

 

[CPA]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Confused
Swinging is not for everyone.

It is often done by couples who are totally happy with each other, and want to get more from sex.

Many of those who swing regularly are totally in love with their partners, and as such, know that anything that happens at a swingers party is purely fun, and not emotional. When it starts getting emotional with someone else, that's when there are problems. However, many couples are able to see it as just an evening out, no more, no less.

As has been said, some couples who swing are some of the most rock-solid couples you will know, because they trust each other enough, and are happy enough with each other to be able to do it. For many, it can also make their own sex lives with each other better, as each partner learns new ideas/techniques from others.

I've not done it before, but if I was with a woman who was faithful enough in the trust and bond we have to be able to do it without emotional attachment, then I would, providing I did not get emotionally attached myself.

As i said, swinging is not for everyone, and it is more often than not not a good solution for a failing relationship.


Confused

Yeah right, couples that swing more often than not do it because the Man in the relationship is looking to get some strange nookie and the woman is just a door mat and will do what ever he says.

c'mon Red, you don't really believe that do you? My wife like's women, that's the reason we got into it. Many times we don't even swap, we just let the girls play.

 

[CPA]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
So once you start swinging, does that mean you're no longer obligated to fsck your spouse or is there some clause that obligates you to perform on major holidays or when there's nothing good on TV?

sigh....

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: CPA

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
So once you start swinging, does that mean you're no longer obligated to fsck your spouse or is there some clause that obligates you to perform on major holidays or when there's nothing good on TV?

sigh....

What are you sighing for ? the real live people I've met that admitted to swinging did so only after intense pressure from a sexually bored spouse.

If you enjoy it good for you but I'm wired in such a way that loving the person I'm with is what makes sex a great experience for me. Swapping partners like I'm trading a dvd would not do anything at all for me.

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Confused
Swinging is not for everyone.

It is often done by couples who are totally happy with each other, and want to get more from sex.

Many of those who swing regularly are totally in love with their partners, and as such, know that anything that happens at a swingers party is purely fun, and not emotional. When it starts getting emotional with someone else, that's when there are problems. However, many couples are able to see it as just an evening out, no more, no less.

As has been said, some couples who swing are some of the most rock-solid couples you will know, because they trust each other enough, and are happy enough with each other to be able to do it. For many, it can also make their own sex lives with each other better, as each partner learns new ideas/techniques from others.

I've not done it before, but if I was with a woman who was faithful enough in the trust and bond we have to be able to do it without emotional attachment, then I would, providing I did not get emotionally attached myself.

As i said, swinging is not for everyone, and it is more often than not not a good solution for a failing relationship.


Confused

Yeah right, couples that swing more often than not do it because the Man in the relationship is looking to get some strange nookie and the woman is just a door mat and will do what ever he says.

dude, if you ever went to a swingers party, you would see that the women there are wanting some strange nookie too.

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: CPA

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Confused
Swinging is not for everyone.

It is often done by couples who are totally happy with each other, and want to get more from sex.

Many of those who swing regularly are totally in love with their partners, and as such, know that anything that happens at a swingers party is purely fun, and not emotional. When it starts getting emotional with someone else, that's when there are problems. However, many couples are able to see it as just an evening out, no more, no less.

As has been said, some couples who swing are some of the most rock-solid couples you will know, because they trust each other enough, and are happy enough with each other to be able to do it. For many, it can also make their own sex lives with each other better, as each partner learns new ideas/techniques from others.

I've not done it before, but if I was with a woman who was faithful enough in the trust and bond we have to be able to do it without emotional attachment, then I would, providing I did not get emotionally attached myself.

As i said, swinging is not for everyone, and it is more often than not not a good solution for a failing relationship.


Confused

Yeah right, couples that swing more often than not do it because the Man in the relationship is looking to get some strange nookie and the woman is just a door mat and will do what ever he says.

c'mon Red, you don't really believe that do you? My wife like's women, that's the reason we got into it. Many times we don't even swap, we just let the girls play.

sounds like my friday night adventure.

 

[jyates]

I'm betting more relationships can't stand the pressure of swinging than those who can.

Jealousy is a big built in emotion and not easily turned off by man or woman.

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: jyates
I'm betting more relationships can't stand the pressure of swinging than those who can.

Jealousy is a big built in emotion and not easily turned off by man or woman.

Most relationships can't handle a relationship period. Look at the divorce rate. To say that swinging caused a break up is foolish considering there was only a 50% chance they would make it anyway. They may have tried to use swinging as a patch an it has already been said that won't work.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: jyates
I'm betting more relationships can't stand the pressure of swinging than those who can.

Jealousy is a big built in emotion and not easily turned off by man or woman.

The lie beneath it all would bother the hell out of me. You aren't satisfied by our sexual relationship well either have the stones to work on the issue with me or divorce me.Hell even being cheated on would be better than being handed what I consider to be a load of BS.

 

[jyates]

Originally posted by: fredtam

Originally posted by: jyates
I'm betting more relationships can't stand the pressure of swinging than those who can.

Jealousy is a big built in emotion and not easily turned off by man or woman.

Most relationships can't handle a relationship period. Look at the divorce rate. To say that swinging caused a break up is foolish considering there was only a 50% chance they would make it anyway. They may have tried to use swinging as a patch an it has already been said that won't work.

It's pretty foolish to believe that sharing your wife/husband with someone else is
going to enhance your relationship.

It's a lot like dodging traffic on a 6 lane.....You may do it for a while but eventually
you are going to get hurt.

 

[jjones]

I have to agree with CPA on this in all regards, and to those of you who find swinging distasteful or outrageous, well, it's just not for you.

 

[StormRider]

Is anyone else shocked by the number of people here who say they've tried it? I mean, this is a computer forum -- I wouldn't expect this many have tried it. I'm just really surprised. If this was a porno forum, then maybe I would understand -- but a computer forum?

 

[CQuinn]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
So once you start swinging, does that mean you're no longer obligated to fsck your spouse or is there some clause that obligates you to perform on major holidays or when there's nothing good on TV?

You think that marriage

obligates

you to have sex?

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: StormRider
Is anyone else shocked by the number of people here who say they've tried it? I mean, this is a computer forum -- I wouldn't expect this many have tried it. I'm just really surprised. If this was a porno forum, then maybe I would understand -- but a computer forum?

Since i started this thread i have to say im very suprised on the poll results. I was thinking that the numbers were going to far less for the "yes" vote. and the "maybe" vote blows my mind.

 

[SP33Demon]

People are too scared to admit they would try it, but the poll accurately reflects their true intentions.

 

[MainframeGuy]

My suspicion is the "maybe's" are all people that could fantasize and idealised version and would have to have their partner suggest it.... they're probably really NO's and then you probably see the sort of stats you might have imagined - if you'd made the poll with no maybe.

And I speak as a "maybe"

 

[NesuD]

Not for me. I Don't like other people walking on my lawn.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: CQuinn

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
So once you start swinging, does that mean you're no longer obligated to fsck your spouse or is there some clause that obligates you to perform on major holidays or when there's nothing good on TV?

You think that marriage

obligates

you to have sex?

Since you can get a divorce based on on lack of it I'd say so.