Porn Star Commits Suicide

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Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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Tragic waste of hotness

However, we don't know exactly why she killed herself, the article just makes the assumption it was because of taunting from former classmates.
 

destrekor

Lifer
Nov 18, 2005
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Has this turned into "why masturbation will make you go blind" thread?

Either you have someone in your life fulfilling your needs or you don't. Maybe you have someone and they aren't. The means to relieve your biological need isn't the source of the addictive behavior, your biology is the source of it. You are born to do this.

This whole notion of shaming sex is what killed this girl in the first place.

It's not really that simple.

Porn addiction isn't the same as "I must have sex, even if that means being adulterous, whenever I feel like it".

Having an unhealthy porn addiction is probably more damaging, to your psychological self, than being a slut or an adulterous slut.

You are not born to become a porn addict. You may have a high libido, but that doesn't lead to porn addiction. A high libido, an urge, and no partner to be had, can be settled with masturbation without porn.

Now, one might be born to become an addict. I'd argue I have an addictive personality. Having a high libido and an addictive personality could lead to such a porn addiction, but there's a billion paths that combination could lead to, many not even involving sex or sexual release in any fashion.


However, I feel a need to treat this subject like gambling.
It is not in the best interest of everyone to totally ban, get rid of, or otherwise trash the porn and adult entertainment industry due to addicts and issues with the entertainers.
Most can be responsible adults about these things.
 

destrekor

Lifer
Nov 18, 2005
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I thought females didn't use guns for suicide.

statistically low number.

It's really the only sure-fire way for it to be done with your own hands: a shotgun in the mouth.

It's also a strong sign that it was probably thought about, she wanted no chances of failure, and didn't want the chance for anyone to save her after discovering her. She wanted it done, end of story. Actually, a very non-cowardice approach to suicide. (I hesitate to use the word brave... but it is applicable)

Pill users and cutters, more often than not, reverse their decision immediately after.
 

Imp

Lifer
Feb 8, 2000
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Tragic waste of hotness

However, we don't know exactly why she killed herself, the article just makes the assumption it was because of taunting from former classmates.

I agree... That's the most recent event but the Duke one and a few other Miss <state> outings haven't caused the same reaction (yet?).

Story says daddy was in and out of prison her whole life. There are obits (or copies of the original) online, I think one said she is survived by 9-ish siblings. Clues you in slightly on home life.

Stupid waste, regardless.
 

rh71

No Lifer
Aug 28, 2001
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should not take to twitter and the like if you can't handle it
 

BladeVenom

Lifer
Jun 2, 2005
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She killed herself only two weeks after the video came out. Seems she already had plenty of mental problems and porn is the scapegoat.
 

desura

Diamond Member
Mar 22, 2013
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I hope this ends up being like a Trayvon Martin moment and causes a crackdown on these guys.

I really do.

Since I also don't give two shits about porn.
 

LTC8K6

Lifer
Mar 10, 2004
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She killed herself only two weeks after the video came out. Seems she already had plenty of mental problems and porn is the scapegoat.

Yep. This story is an attempt to make a link that probably isn't there.

It's an attempt to use her death to make political hay against pornography.
 

Bateluer

Lifer
Jun 23, 2001
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She killed herself only two weeks after the video came out. Seems she already had plenty of mental problems and porn is the scapegoat.

She was probably being bulled and taunted before doing the video. :/

Disheartening, she was a good looking girl. Wtf is wrong with her fellow students that they'd tease someone that physically attractive anyway?
 

desura

Diamond Member
Mar 22, 2013
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Yep. This story is an attempt to make a link that probably isn't there.

It's an attempt to use her death to make political hay against pornography.

No, two weeks is close enough.

Two years, no. Two weeks, definitely yes.
 

tcsenter

Lifer
Sep 7, 2001
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No evidence she committed suicide because of bullying or embarrassment. Rather, doing porn may have just been an indication that pre-existing mental/psychological problems were not being effectively managed/treated and were getting worse, causing her to do more dramatic things.
 

Jaskalas

Lifer
Jun 23, 2004
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It's not really that simple.

I'm missing why you make a distinction for it. Porn is just a means to an end, you'd get there without it.

*Edit
I get the impression that, due to the path of least resistance, disorders are disproportionately associated with it. Least for users.

For the producers, the internet is making it so widely and permanently available that the capacity to make money off of it... is surely being eliminated. Situations where women are abused into participating might self correct when there is no longer a significant monetary incentive. Perhaps after some generations pass the stigma can be properly addressed.
 
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mikeford

Diamond Member
Jan 27, 2001
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Plenty of women in porn are being pimped by some useless boyfriend, who met them with the intention of putting them in the trade. That kind of abusive relationship has to make a person feel like nothing, worse when it ends.
 

Soundmanred

Lifer
Oct 26, 2006
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Plenty of women in porn are being pimped by some useless boyfriend, who met them with the intention of putting them in the trade. That kind of abusive relationship has to make a person feel like nothing, worse when it ends.

LOL, no.
Where do people get these ideas?
 

norseamd

Lifer
Dec 13, 2013
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sad

never been to that high school although i have seen it and it is a huge building

not sure why it is so huge for a more rural area

maybe they draw kids from a wider district or something
 
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