Proms over...

[Gamingphreek]

We have more responsibilities than you think.

We both have AP Exams, Finals. She has SOL's. I have Track (etc...)

-Kevin

 

[InlineFour]

i'm not planning to go to prom. i'll probably just stay home and neff on AT.

you seem obsessed about this girl.

 

[Patrick Wolf]

Ten Tips for a Successful Prom

Oops, too late.

 

[Pepsi90919]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Advice for WHAT? For decades past, prom night was about (in no order) drinking, dancing, sex and general partiness-naughtiness. Not everyone does all of the above. But normal folks at least would do ONE.

Since when did i say that i wouldn't dance!?!?!?! Not only that if your view of prom is a giant orgie before, during and after, than you are sorely mistaken.

who said anything about an orgy?

You're going out with your GF.

Ok, once again, we are going as friends. She knows that i want to be more than that, but has said that she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. I respect her decision; maybe she will feel differently later.

lol, sorry but no.

You don't partake of the pleasures of the flesh b/c God might make your peepee shrivel up and die.

I dont recall that being in the bible. But at any rate, I have already said that i believe it should wait until after marriage; if you disagree thats fine, but please stop focusing on that point.

that's because you haven't read it, right?

You have no intentions of even holding her hand.

Where on earth did i say that!?!

you said you were going as friends.

 

[Suspicious-Teach8788]

No seriously. You're a guy. Stop talking about your girl problems ONLINE.

GO HANG OUT. GO LOOK AT THE AWESOME WEATHER OUT THERE.

Go clubbing. SHIZZZLESsssssssss dude. I had tons of drama after prom, but did I just sit at my desk and nef away? Hell no. I had APs, but I went out and did other things to get my mind off of g irls.

 

[Pepsi90919]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
Well i felt the need to update the thread one more time.

I had texted her earlier, and hadn't received one back. I just received it. It turns out that there was a reason she didn't actively pursue dancing or anything. She had to stay in bed today with the flu. SHe cant text, but i sent "I hope you feel better" back to her anyways.

That almost makes up for the no dancing and no hug thing (Now that i mention it she was really tired too).

I guess i should also say that at prom (I hate talking about this part) the all time low was when we ran into some guy she knew. Some how the words "When i kissed you" got brought up. I didn't say anything about it or do anything, but i felt like i just got punched in the stomach. I know i shouldn't feel that way since we aren't going out, but everytime i think about it i get pissed. Today driving i, for some God unknown reason remembered it and floored (Made the tires chirp).

I seriously wish girls would just come out and tell you everything. Ah well

-Kevin

OOOH YOU MADE YOUR ACCORD CHIRP ITS TIRES WAY TO GO BROTHER

 

[Schfifty Five]

Originally posted by: InlineFour
i'm not planning to go to prom. i'll probably just stay home and neff on AT.

you seem obsessed about this girl.

b/c he is

 

[Schfifty Five]

Kevin, did you really tell her how you felt about her?

Like you went up to her in person, said "hey, I like you more than a friend, I want to date you" and she said "no I'm not interested in a BF right now" ??

Or was this one of your "well I heard from a friend that talked w/ her friend about something and they mentioned me and she said she kinda likes someone but didn't say it was me, but I'm assumign it's me, etc etc"

 

[Gamingphreek]

Ok maybe you guys haven't noticed in the midst of you guys telling to go out and do stuff, i haven't posted for a long time. Im not sitting in front of the computer anxiously waiting replies lol. If, when i stop by my computer, i see that someone posted ill reply back.

OOOH YOU MADE YOUR ACCORD CHIRP ITS TIRES WAY TO GO BROTHER

No i did it in my pickup (Even easier lol). I did on the way there have the accord lose traction. Its tires are getting up there mileage wise, but no worries, traction control kicked in and everything was smooth.

Kevin, did you really tell her how you felt about her?

Like you went up to her in person, said "hey, I like you more than a friend, I want to date you" and she said "no I'm not interested in a BF right now" ??

Or was this one of your "well I heard from a friend that talked w/ her friend about something and they mentioned me and she said she kinda likes someone but didn't say it was me, but I'm assumign it's me, etc etc"

Ok i never went up to her and said I like you more than a friend. However, i have asked her out a couple of times (We went out too), we talk on the phone a lot, but she mentioned to my sister that she isn't interested in a BF. Yeah, lame, i know because she didn't tell it to me; so i guess that means that I should find out for sure and stop letting this sit.

I was going to call her tomorrow and ask if she is feeling better; so maybe ill ask her if she wants to go to a movie this friday or something (Im thinking Silent Hill...supposed to be really scary and all , but United 93 and MI:III also are options). Ill let you guys know one way or another.

-Kevin

 

[Suspicious-Teach8788]

Silent Hill sucks. Trust me. It's not even all TOO scary, but it's not that good of a movie. I think United 93 isn't that great of a film to take a girl too. Or you could wait for some better films to come out. But don't always do the whole dinner and a movie. Think of something more creative. Or just hang out in general.

 

[Gamingphreek]

Originally posted by: DLeRium
Silent Hill sucks. Trust me. It's not even all TOO scary, but it's not that good of a movie. I think United 93 isn't that great of a film to take a girl too. Or you could wait for some better films to come out. But don't always do the whole dinner and a movie. Think of something more creative. Or just hang out in general.

I also heard that it is really disgusting too though, so ill heed your advice.

I see your point on United 93. I heard it was a tear jerker; probably not the best, but i still want to see it.

I dunno, i have done A LOT to initiate this. A very reliable source, thinks that i should just wait for her to make the next move now (Which is what i was thinking). Im going to call her after school tomorrow to see if she is feeling any better. Im not going to ask her or anything, but if she says something like "[Movie Title] sounds really good"; im jumping on the opportunity.

Ill let you guys know if anything happens; thanks for all the advice

-Kevin

 

[Smartazz]

The point of prom is to get laid? :Q

 

[montanafan]

For movies, when does "Over the Hedge" come out? Looks like it would be a good one. Also, I haven't seen it, but friends who have said that "Thank You for Smoking" was funny.

 

[Gamingphreek]

So apparently she wanted to dance with me on the rap songs. (I hear this afterwards from one of her friends).

Now that i hear this, WHY IN THE WORLD did she not suggest it or make any hint toward it the entire time we were there??? If she would have said something, or even hinted i would have picked up on it! Well thats done and gone, i might mention that i would have danced on any song with her, but not a big deal now.

-Kevin

 

[Schfifty Five]

LOL @ Kevin.

I know you're young, but damn dude, all you talk about it how you "heard this or that from someone else"...what the crap is this?

Just go up to her and have a real person to person talk. Stop trying to drop hints and waiting for her to say she likes you, b/c she will never be the first one to say she likes you. She may really like you, but if you never man up and just tell her how you really feel, you're screwed (not in the good way either).

So do yourself a favor, stop waiting for her to make the first move, no more "i heard from's", and just be a man and go for it.

 

[PHiuR]

go over and make her give you the flu if you know what i mean...

I was sick as a dog once with the flu and i got this girl puking in a few days later...that was funny.

 

[Gamingphreek]

Well i would hear from her directly but the way the school is seperated Juniors and Seniors rarely, if ever, see Sophomores. My only real times to talk to her, aside from when we talk on the phone are Choir and on Sundays. Other than that we never get to see each other.

I made a bunch of first moves, i asked her out and everything.

Ok guys, so when i call her you think i should say, "Hey instead of constantly hearing from everyone else, i need to tell you something and straighten everything out. I really like you and (I have no idea what to say now after the 'and"; any suggestions.).

 

[OREOSpeedwagon]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
So apparently she wanted to dance with me on the rap songs. (I hear this afterwards from one of her friends).

Now that i hear this, WHY IN THE WORLD did she not suggest it or make any hint toward it the entire time we were there??? If she would have said something, or even hinted i would have picked up on it! Well thats done and gone, i might mention that i would have danced on any song with her, but not a big deal now.

-Kevin

you should have danced on EVERY song. maybe a break for punch here and there but man, i can't believe you guys didn't dance. my prom was on saturday and i'll be the first to tell you that rap is awful and shouldn't even be considered music, but me, my friends, and our dates danced our asses off the whole time and had a blast.

 

[Gamingphreek]

Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
So apparently she wanted to dance with me on the rap songs. (I hear this afterwards from one of her friends).

Now that i hear this, WHY IN THE WORLD did she not suggest it or make any hint toward it the entire time we were there??? If she would have said something, or even hinted i would have picked up on it! Well thats done and gone, i might mention that i would have danced on any song with her, but not a big deal now.

-Kevin

you should have danced on EVERY song. maybe a break for punch here and there but man, i can't believe you guys didn't dance. my prom was on saturday and i'll be the first to tell you that rap is awful and shouldn't even be considered music, but me, my friends, and our dates danced our asses off the whole time and had a blast.

Well i knew that. And we didn't because she was sick and didn't want to make it apparent. How bad do you guys think i screwed up?

As i said earlier, how do i just say everything without freaking her out?

-Kevin

 

[duragezic]

Of course she wanted to.. what teenage girl isn't obsessed with "thug"/club songs?! They love that garbage and even more they love to dance to it, even moreso with alcohol involved.

Anyway, sounded lame, nor did it sound like she had a good time (not that you sound like you did either). Waste of money as well. What a biatch. 11pm?? WTF?? Then she pulls some crap about the flu. Yah ok..

You're obsessing over the dance (which is never that good anywhere) and how it sucked but you still didn't dance to ANYTHING for that whole time? Anyway who cares about the stupid dance, the before prom/dinner is usually good times with other couples, then the parties afterward is where people relax, get fvcked up, and have good times. If that little girl didn't have to be home by friggin' 11pm it could've turned the night at least decent.

 

[Gamingphreek]

She said that she had a good time and was worried if i had a good time or not though. As for the curfew that wasn't entirely her fault. SHe didn't want to let on the she wasn't feeling good so she didn't argue with her Dad's 11PM. I can get over that, especially since she said that she really wanted to go to after prom, but she just wasn't feeling well. (YES i know she wasn't lying, she was really really sick).

Well what do i do. Apparently i have to suddenly do damage control here. I wish this guessing game would just end; and everything would go one way or the other!!

-Kevin

 

[drinkmorejava]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Ok i never went up to her and said I like you more than a friend. However, i have asked her out a couple of times (We went out too), we talk on the phone a lot, but she mentioned to my sister that she isn't interested in a BF. Yeah, lame, i know because she didn't tell it to me; so i guess that means that I should find out for sure and stop letting this sit.

-Kevin

Ohhhh, you're that guy, lol, haven't you had like three threads about this girl

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Ok guys, so when i call her you think i should say, "Hey instead of constantly hearing from everyone else, i need to tell you something and straighten everything out. I really like you and (I have no idea what to say now after the 'and"; any suggestions.).

meh, the first part sounds like you're pissed off or something. try

Hey, I've been hearing a lot of stuff from your friends, and I wanted to just make sure we're going the same direction here...I really like you and enjoy spending time with you, but it seems like I've been the one initiating everything and I need to know if you really are interested in me.

You're going to have to be blunt at some point, but whatever you say, make sure it's in a happy tone, and keep it from sounding long-winded.

 

[eakers]

did you call her yet or what?

 

[Henrythewound]

Kevin, seriously take a step back and look at some of the comments you have made throughout this lengthy thread. You are so completely scared of everything because of your religion it's pathetic. Having come from a Christian home myself (and having since decided much of it makes no sense whatsoever), I can see where much of your fear and doubt stems from as you are still interested in "growing stronger in your faith" and making more time to read the bible. Have you ever considered all the things you are afraid to do stem from the sunday school teachings you have been subjected to all these years? Do you honestly think all these teaching make sense? I'm not saying to go out and shoot heroin while taking the lord's name in vain while engaging in premarital sex, but for crying out loud don't be afraid to live a little! You got freaked out when your tires squealed. Most young women (which is who you should be trying to meet instead of 16 year old girls) will not be attracted to someone so straight laced and non-confrontational as yourself unless they have been religiously brainwashed themselves.

Try to make your own decisions based on what YOU think makes sense, not what your parents/ pastor say you should think.

 

[Gamingphreek]

Hey, I've been hearing a lot of stuff from your friends, and I wanted to just make sure we're going the same direction here...I really like you and enjoy spending time with you, but it seems like I've been the one initiating everything and I need to know if you really are interested in me.

OOOH that sounds good. Not too serious and all (No i had one other thread about this girl, this one just sort of turned into one of those)

No i probably wont end up calling her today, but i will definitely find time tomorrow (Its hard to get a hold of her until the new month starts on the cell phone plan).

Should i apologize for not being more direct at prom. I wanted and would have loved to dance with her; regardless of the song.

-Kevin

Edit:

ou got freaked out when your tires squealed.

Umm no i didn't.

I think you misinterpreted. I dont believe in pre marital sex, that doesn't mean that i dont want to have fun. Im not the perfect Christian boy you are making me out to be. Not that im proud of this by any stretch, but i never read the bible; In fact, i dont even know what happened to it