Proms over...

[Gamingphreek]

Originally posted by: swtethan

Originally posted by: BlueFlamme
Gamingphreek please don't feed the asshats. They're just luring you out because a) they have never had sex and idolize it as the end all be all or b) have had sex and have no other purpose in life and idolize it as the end all be all, in either case they cannot comprehend any time spend with an attractive member of the opposite sex where the goal is not "put it in FTW"

Have you not been on atot before? Its either put it in or gtfo!

Most of the time it is just good natured joking.

-Kevin

 

[Gibson486]

sounds like a boring time to me.

 

[AdamSnow]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
Ok well not to disappoint all you guys but there are a couple things:

A. Were not going to have sex or anything like that. Both Christians, and we are good friends. Sorry.

B. She is only a sophomore. Neither her nor I drink (well not much in my case). I just dont need to be drunk to have a good time. But it is pretty amusing when at a party, my friends are stumbling around

C. While we are eating with a group we aren't going to the dance with that group. I washed and waxed the '03 Accord (EX V6), Armor Alled the leather seats, wiped down the glass. It looks very nice

-Kevin

:laugh: Never use Armor All on the seats, or the steering wheel... Especially if you put it on the leather seats... that will be funny! Both of you sliding all over the place!! :laugh:

 

[ngvepforever2]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Originally posted by: ngvepforever2

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
One question though, why are you going out with a sophmore?

Regards

ng

Well we aren't dating ( Maybe sometime in the future)

I am going with her because I wanted to. We are good friends, she is beautiful etc... you know the drill.

-Kevin

But...aren't you a senior?. So you have to go to college next fall and she will stay in hs. It just doesn't make sense to me to build hope for something that you know it won't happen (long distance relationships just don't work unless you put an incredible ammount of effort into it).

Regards

ng

Yes, i see your point. We probably wont end up dating, but she never regected and i still like her; so the door is open any time.

I also have strong reason to believe that it isn't her that isn't ready for a BF, rather her Dad isn't ready to give her up. He was very concerned about the driving and stuff; then she told i was taking her and he calmed down a little. I think as time goes on he will be more and more lenient.

Finally, for all of you who think that i am just some Church nut or something that is false (Though i am a very devout Christian, and i hope to grow in my faith). I feel really bad about this in some way but in others, for obvious reasons, i am happy. I was flirting with this girl for the past 6 months. When it came to ask her out for prom, the day before i was going to, she asked and agreed to go with another guy. Her PARENTS, and her friends somehow let it slip that i was going to ask and that they told me that they really wanted us to go together. To make a long story short she ended up leaving the other guy to go to prom with me. Hopefully now you can see why i am a little torn inside on the issue, and you can see that just because of what i stated, that i am not perfect by any means.

-Kevin

Oh well, OP forget about the people here who are making fun of you (at least you are going to prom, last time I checked 90% of people in ATOT didnt' go ).

Just have fun and be safe,

Regards

ng

 

[Gamingphreek]

Originally posted by: AdamSnow

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
Ok well not to disappoint all you guys but there are a couple things:

A. Were not going to have sex or anything like that. Both Christians, and we are good friends. Sorry.

B. She is only a sophomore. Neither her nor I drink (well not much in my case). I just dont need to be drunk to have a good time. But it is pretty amusing when at a party, my friends are stumbling around

C. While we are eating with a group we aren't going to the dance with that group. I washed and waxed the '03 Accord (EX V6), Armor Alled the leather seats, wiped down the glass. It looks very nice

-Kevin

:laugh: Never use Armor All on the seats, or the steering wheel... Especially if you put it on the leather seats... that will be funny! Both of you sliding all over the place!! :laugh:

Mark of a good cleaning though lol. It is the armor all for leather, not the armor all that makes it all slippery like that.

-Kevin

 

[Reel]

If you are going to do something after, make sure you pack something comfortable. You don't want to be in nice clothes for what could possibly become rowdy activities and personally I don't feel that comfortable in formal clothes. I remember I had changed out to khakis and a long sleeve casual button-down shirt. If you are renting a tux, you don't want to get it trashed or something by someone else's negligence. Try to have a good time. Smile and get the pictures. You will want to look at them a while later. You are a senior and won't get another chance to do this again. Remember, if you are going away to school and moving on with life, this may be the last time you really get to hang out with some of these people as the school year winds down. I haven't seen some of the people I considered friends in high school since prom. Thinking back to mine, I remember some people that I haven't even thought of in years.

Good luck and enjoy yourself.

 

[Schfifty Five]

Is this the same girl that you made a YAGT about? The one where you and her are in choir and she said that she wanted to just be friends, yet you continue to look for the smallest glimmer of hope and kid yourself that there really is a chance?

or am I thinking of something else...

 

[CVSiN]

Wrap it up.[/quote]

why bother we all know ATOT teens never really get any =P

 

[Tobolo]

Wrap it before you slap it

 

[Adam8281]

Man, MichaelD, you are an absolute bastard.

OP, a word of advice - Don't be noisy and obnoxious in the restaurant, there's nothing worse than having a nice meal spoiled by a bunch of tuxedod prom-kids at the next table who are chucking food at each other, laughing like hyeenas, and being general a$$es. But, of course, I am sure you are not like that

 

[Motek]

So you got three hours....

I guess you're just gonna spend that time looking up this thread

 

[essasin]

Don't forgot to compliment her on how good she looks in her dress! Thank the parents before you leave for lettiner her go out!

 

[mflacy]

When in Doubt, Whip It Out.

/end thread

 

[astrocase]

We're all just messing with you but I still think you'd have a better time if you went with a girl who likes you.

I didn't get laid at prom but I got some action and had a good time. No matter what happens, avoid a curfew. An early curfew is just lame.

 

[Gamingphreek]

Originally posted by: Schfifty Five
Is this the same girl that you made a YAGT about? The one where you and her are in choir and she said that she wanted to just be friends, yet you continue to look for the smallest glimmer of hope and kid yourself that there really is a chance?

or am I thinking of something else...

Yeah thats the girl. And as you can see she has feelings for me, just doesn't (Or her father doesn't) want a BF right now.

As for the 3 hours (Now 2), actually im doing laundry (Found out that i ran out of nice undershirts), occasionally typing here, and watching "Friends"/Sports Highlights.

-Kevin

 

[Gamingphreek]

We're all just messing with you but I still think you'd have a better time if you went with a girl who likes you.

I know, its all good

But as for a girl that likes me....well wouldn't you say that a girl who completely ditches another guy to go with me, and then says that she likes me but just isn't ready for a BF right now is a girl who likes me. Not only that remember, im still not sure whether it is her that isn't ready for a BF, or her father that isn't ready to let her have a BF.

-Kevin

 

[Suspicious-Teach8788]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

We're all just messing with you but I still think you'd have a better time if you went with a girl who likes you.

I know, its all good

But as for a girl that likes me....well wouldn't you say that a girl who completely ditches another guy to go with me, and then says that she likes me but just isn't ready for a BF right now is a girl who likes me. Not only that remember, im still not sure whether it is her that isn't ready for a BF, or her father that isn't ready to let her have a BF.

-Kevin

Heh. It's ok. The point of prom is to have fun whether it's with the girl of your dreams or a good friend.

Oh, but seriously... SERIOUSLY... do your business before you go to prom. It's important.

 

[astrocase]

ROFL! That's probably good advice

 

[sourceninja]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Originally posted by: sourceninja
Your going to a prom with a friend, you dont drink, you dont have sex, and you need advice? I'll give you advice if you answer why you are going to prom? It doesnt' sound like you plan on doing anything but sitting at prom and then going home and saying you had been to prom. Prom was ment for one thing, to help the last few guys loose their virginity.

I never said i dont drink. I said i dont like to get drunk. I also never said that would "sit at prom and then [go] home". I plan on having a fun time at prom, and then its up to her where we go for Afterprom/Party.

Even my friends, who have lost their virginity are perfectly able to accept that i believe sex should wait until your married. If you think that way ninja, then you are basing your opinion off of movies like American Pie.

Now if we could move away from Sex, Drugs, and Alcohol, can anyone give me some all around tips (I am trying to be more than friends with this girl (Yes she knows that i like her). So in otherwords anything to tip the scales in my favor?).

-Kevin

Actually, I look at it like this. Why would I want to spend my money on a tux, car, etc just to take out a girl who is not even my girlfriend to dance? That sounds like a boring night. I would never take someone out and spend all that money just to 'dance and have fun'. And I went to prom well before american pie.

My point is what advice do you need???? She is just a friend. Ok here's some advice, dont step on her toes. Girls hate that. Oh and smile for your picture. This is not any different then taking her out bowling.

 

[swtethan]

rofl at flogging the dolphin

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Originally posted by: astrocase
I don't understand why you picked this girl as a date for prom. What a waste. You could have at least picked a girl that likes you. You're getting everything wrong for prom.

Hopefully my previous post answered that.

Thanks for the advice BlueFlamme. It is overcast, and is supposed to rain a little tonight so ill definitely keep that in mind. However, it will probably be an umbrella rather than a jacket because it is ~82F here.

As for the dance, i have never really slow danced before. My friends just said to put my hands on her hips and she will put hers around my neck; from that point just sort of shift weight, and move around and enjoy the time

As for curfew, i dont really have one, but i remember her mentioning a curfew at like Midnight for her; ill findn out soon though.

-Kevin

Be sure to slide those hands down to her ass and "test her". Women love that stuff.

 

[Gamingphreek]

Originally posted by: sourceninja

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Originally posted by: sourceninja
Your going to a prom with a friend, you dont drink, you dont have sex, and you need advice? I'll give you advice if you answer why you are going to prom? It doesnt' sound like you plan on doing anything but sitting at prom and then going home and saying you had been to prom. Prom was ment for one thing, to help the last few guys loose their virginity.

I never said i dont drink. I said i dont like to get drunk. I also never said that would "sit at prom and then [go] home". I plan on having a fun time at prom, and then its up to her where we go for Afterprom/Party.

Even my friends, who have lost their virginity are perfectly able to accept that i believe sex should wait until your married. If you think that way ninja, then you are basing your opinion off of movies like American Pie.

Now if we could move away from Sex, Drugs, and Alcohol, can anyone give me some all around tips (I am trying to be more than friends with this girl (Yes she knows that i like her). So in otherwords anything to tip the scales in my favor?).

-Kevin

Actually, I look at it like this. Why would I want to spend my money on a tux, car, etc just to take out a girl who is not even my girlfriend to dance? That sounds like a boring night. I would never take someone out and spend all that money just to 'dance and have fun'. And I went to prom well before american pie.

My point is what advice do you need???? She is just a friend. Ok here's some advice, dont step on her toes. Girls hate that. Oh and smile for your picture. This is not any different then taking her out bowling.

Ill remember to mention to her that her $200 dress and all that time getting dressed up is no different than us going bowling -_-.

I seriously dont know what kind of advice you are trying to give, you are wrong. Since when was prom reserved for:
A. GF and BF
B. People who want to only Get Drunk and Have Sex

Alright guys, i have to start getting ready. When i get back, whenever that maybe, ill let you know how it went. Thanks for all the advice; Im so excited

-Kevin

 

[swtethan]

gl, have a boring night

 

[m1ke101]

Originally posted by: sourceninja

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Originally posted by: sourceninja
Your going to a prom with a friend, you dont drink, you dont have sex, and you need advice? I'll give you advice if you answer why you are going to prom? It doesnt' sound like you plan on doing anything but sitting at prom and then going home and saying you had been to prom. Prom was ment for one thing, to help the last few guys loose their virginity.

I never said i dont drink. I said i dont like to get drunk. I also never said that would "sit at prom and then [go] home". I plan on having a fun time at prom, and then its up to her where we go for Afterprom/Party.

Even my friends, who have lost their virginity are perfectly able to accept that i believe sex should wait until your married. If you think that way ninja, then you are basing your opinion off of movies like American Pie.

Now if we could move away from Sex, Drugs, and Alcohol, can anyone give me some all around tips (I am trying to be more than friends with this girl (Yes she knows that i like her). So in otherwords anything to tip the scales in my favor?).

-Kevin

Actually, I look at it like this. Why would I want to spend my money on a tux, car, etc just to take out a girl who is not even my girlfriend to dance? That sounds like a boring night. I would never take someone out and spend all that money just to 'dance and have fun'. And I went to prom well before american pie.

My point is what advice do you need???? She is just a friend. Ok here's some advice, dont step on her toes. Girls hate that. Oh and smile for your picture. This is not any different then taking her out bowling.

Good god relax man, it's prom! Whether he gets laid or not really isn't a big deal. He obviously has no intentions of trying to "get any" anyway, but this is his senior prom. Its sort of a big deal. Sure we're probably socialized to think its more important than it really is, but this is probably one of the highlights of a hopefully great high school experience.

 

[montanafan]

Don't forget to take a camera and get lots of photos with friends posing and dancing. Be sure to compliment her on how beautiful she looks in her gown. Talk and joke with her like normal when you're slow dancing to make her feel comfortable. Just be yourself, after all that's the guy she chucked the other one to go with. Have fun!