PSA for homophobic people...

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I get irritated by certain overly feminine men, it's so fucking obvious that they are acting and trying their hardest to overact.

However, I got to know a Captain in Kosovo (a paratrooper) who was a mans man back then and absolutely disgusted with gay sex, today he's a woman.
 

corwin

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Bullshit...Some people maybe but to try to paint the majority of the population that way is pure bullshit.

Exactly. Seems like quite often the most vocal opponents of something (homosexuality, pedophilia, etc.) end up being into it themselves. I think the psychology term for this is projective identification, it's one method of coping with unwanted feelings.

Seriously?!? WTF?!? You can't possibly think vocal opponents of pedophilia just want to molest children, nobody is that stupid are they?
 

Macamus Prime

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Does this logic apply to racism as well?

Well, when it comes to penis size envy, I would imagine yes. Or, are they pissed off because they won't ever bang that number of white women?
 

dpodblood

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I'm of the opinion that everyone has the capacity to be attracted to any gender, given the right person.

I would disagree with this. While I can certainly tell the difference between a hansom and an ugly guy, I am not sexually attracted to males.

Being bisexual maybe it's hard to understand, the same way it is hard for some straight people to understand how someone else can be attracted to the same sex.
 

Jeeebus

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It is apparently absurdly easy to be published and I need to start writing more. This guy finds an article from 1996, summarizes its conclusions, and voila, published in Psychology Today.

I only fantasize about gay sex on Tuesdays, so I'm not going to dispute the article's conclusions. That said, this is apparently a fairly well known article that has been heavily criticized/commented on in the fifteen years since originally published. For a PhD student, it's somewhat irresponsible (or demonstrative of an agenda) to simply present the article and not address any of the apparent criticism out there.
 
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Exactly. Seems like quite often the most vocal opponents of something (homosexuality, pedophilia, etc.) end up being into it themselves. I think the psychology term for this is projective identification, it's one method of coping with unwanted feelings.

Are you fucking kidding me? The most vocal opponents against pedophilia are parents, not pedophiles...

If you think that pedophilia is anything like homosexuality then you need to go kill yourself real fucking fast.

One is consensual sex and the other is by definition RAPE, if you think that consensual sex and rape is the same thing then you also need to go kill yourself real fucking fast.
 

frostedflakes

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Bullshit...Some people maybe but to try to paint the majority of the population that way is pure bullshit.



Seriously?!? WTF?!? You can't possibly think vocal opponents of pedophilia just want to molest children, nobody is that stupid are they?
I'm not talking about everyone opposed to certain behaviors, just the ones who go out of their way to make sure everybody knows how opposed to them they are. Seems like quite often they are into the behavior they vilify.

And John I have no clue how you got that from my post. Wasn't comparing the two.
 

sourceninja

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I've never hated gays. I don't give a shit either way. I do however have a hatred for people who's lifestyle adjusts things like lisps, pitch of voice, and the desire to act like complete 12 year old girls.
 

corwin

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I'm not talking about everyone opposed to certain behaviors, just the ones who go out of their way to make sure everybody knows how opposed to them they are. Seems like quite often they are into the behavior they vilify.

And John I have no clue how you got that from my post. Wasn't comparing the two.

I am seriously vocal about my opposition to pedophilia, as are just about everybody here I would guess...so what are you saying?
 

frostedflakes

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I am seriously vocal about my opposition to pedophilia, as are just about everybody here I would guess...so what are you saying?
Are you an activist for stricter laws protecting children from abuse, like former congressman Mark Foley, who was part of a sex scandal involving minors?

I thought it was pretty obvious, but I guess not. Those are the kind of people I was talking about.
 
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I'm not talking about everyone opposed to certain behaviors, just the ones who go out of their way to make sure everybody knows how opposed to them they are. Seems like quite often they are into the behavior they vilify.

And John I have no clue how you got that from my post. Wasn't comparing the two.

You were using them both in the same context and right next to each other as obvious related and both as bad as far as you were concerned.

Backing down and trying to say "i didn't say that" when you obviously did isn't going to do you much good, it's right there.

I'd change my "oh i don't know what you are talking about" to "my apologies, i'm a fucking pedo" if that is true or "my apologies, i shouldn't even have mentioned that in the same context" whichever you prefer.

If it's the former, my advice still applies, pedophiles have no right to life. None what so ever.
 
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I am seriously vocal about my opposition to pedophilia, as are just about everybody here I would guess...so what are you saying?

They deserve death, only death, the lot of them.

I didn't even think about them at all before i had kids and now i have a grandchild.

One thing that fucks with me is that i've seen it happen as a method of warfare used by Christians and Muslims, i think the defilement was their way of extra punishment before they injured them in a way that would take days to die from.
 
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PSA:
Homophobia means being afraid of the same thing.

Fear of gays is called fagophobia.

No, that would be the fear of cigarettes.

What are women who fear inadequate lovers phobias called? Shortylickenphobia of course.

Ever get that penis extension to go beyond that one inch or did you decide to sit down to piss instead?
 
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Are you an activist for stricter laws protecting children from abuse, like former congressman Mark Foley, who was part of a sex scandal involving minors?

I thought it was pretty obvious, but I guess not. Those are the kind of people I was talking about.
That may have been your intention, but when you put the two directly next to each other in the argument you're making, it does conflate them. For example, if I were to make a statement: "I may not agree with the actions of a leader, like Bush or Hitler, but I can generally find some area where they also had a positive impact." From that, it looks like I am directly comparing Bush and Hitler. That may not have been my intention, but because I used those two as examples, they are now linked in the minds of anyone who is listening to my argument. While you may have thought you were making a cogent point, as soon as you appeared to conflate homosexuality with pedophilia, everyone reading is going to turn defensive, because while it may be easy to get behind defending homosexuality, defending pedophilia is a completely different story, regardless of any biological cause for the behavior.
 

sourceninja

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Why? What's it to you?

Because I'm forced to interact with them. You can do whatever the hell you want as long as I'm not forced to interact with you.

Also, this topic falls under more then just flamboyant people. I hate people for all sorts of reasons. For example, I'm not your son, honey, dog, bro, etc.
 
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That may have been your intention, but when you put the two directly next to each other in the argument you're making, it does conflate them. For example, if I were to make a statement: "I may not agree with the actions of a leader, like Bush or Hitler, but I can generally find some area where they also had a positive impact." From that, it looks like I am directly comparing Bush and Hitler. That may not have been my intention, but because I used those two as examples, they are now linked in the minds of anyone who is listening to my argument. While you may have thought you were making a cogent point, as soon as you appeared to conflate homosexuality with pedophilia, everyone reading is going to turn defensive, because while it may be easy to get behind defending homosexuality, defending pedophilia is a completely different story, regardless of any biological cause for the behavior.

Aye. I got the same impression for the same reason.
 
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Why? What's it to you?

I think you are being dishonest, some people and their overacting will get to you too, or perhaps you are a bigger man than me.

I get fucking irritated on those who overact, whether it's feminine men or it's twats trying to reinforce whatever they think they are.

I'm sure you are not immune to it either, are you?
 

Mike Gayner

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Because I'm forced to interact with them. You can do whatever the hell you want as long as I'm not forced to interact with you.

Also, this topic falls under more then just flamboyant people. I hate people for all sorts of reasons. For example, I'm not your son, honey, dog, bro, etc.

How are you FORCED to interact with anyone?
 

Atreus21

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I guess then I'm secretly attracted to ugly chicks too...
 
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Mike Gayner

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I think you are being dishonest, some people and their overacting will get to you too, or perhaps you are a bigger man than me.

I get fucking irritated on those who overact, whether it's feminine men or it's twats trying to reinforce whatever they think they are.

I'm sure you are not immune to it either, are you?

There's a difference between "becoming irritated" and having a "deep hatred".
 

sourceninja

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How are you FORCED to interact with anyone?

Seriously? You can't work this one out yourself?

Banks, Jobs, Store clerks, family, random people approaching you and asking questions.

I guess I could try screaming "Leave me the fuck alone you crazy bitch" at a crazy co-worker, but I don't think that's going to just make them go away.

Stupid people are everywhere, there is no way to avoid interaction with all of them.
 
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