psycho jealous girlfriend rant

[AnyMal]

How in the world did you put up with that crap for 2 1/2 years???!!!!! I wouldn't stand it for 2 1/2 hours myself

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: AnyMal
How in the world did you put up with that crap for 2 1/2 years???!!!!! I wouldn't stand it for 2 1/2 hours myself

 

[tcsenter]

am 42 years old, divorced about 2 years ago, and have been dating this girl I like lot, for about 2 1/2 years now. She has 3 kids, by 2 different dads, lives in a tiny apartment, and is a raving jealous woman

Whoop, that's all I have to read, need not go any further.

Run, do not walk, run away from this woman. I don't care how much of a firecracker she is in the sack, run away. In fact, crazy women are especially adept at using sex to keep men 'wrapped' around their finger.

I should know, I spent more than six years with a crazy b-tch who did all of the things you describe. Why? Because I was young and didn't know the difference between love and lust. Man was she a firecracker in the sack, though.

But you're 42, not 18 like I was. You're old enough to know better.

 

[Kadarin]

I can't think of any redeeming qualities that this woman could possibly possess that would make up for this kind of behavior. Bail.

 

[T2T III]

Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0

Originally posted by: Rastus

divorced about 2 years ago, and have been dating this girl I like lot, for about 2 1/2 years now

Looks like her fears have some basis in fact.

Good point.

Maybe, Rastus was separated prior to his divorce. Dating while you are separated shouldn't be considered a sin.

However, like the others have indicated: BAIL out of your current relationship. Her behavior is not healthy - for you, nor herself.

 

[LaLaLand]

sounds like a real bltch, she must be hot

pic?

 

[Pliablemoose]

That kind of jealousy is really bad news, like killed by your GF in a fit of anger bad news, I suspect she's about to lose control, & doesn't want to hurt you any more.

Move on, @ your age you can scrape up something better/safer rather easily.

Extreme jealousy is one of those bad emotional states that's nearly impossible to deal with effectively, if you're the one who's jealous or the object of the jealousy, it's really thinly veiled hostility with another name.

Sorry about the ending of your relationship, sort of like someone dying, but without the final closure of death.

Might I humbly suggest what you want in a partner is something sort of like a mix of this woman & your ex-wife? Don't know what your ex-wife is like, but we (men & women) usually go for someone opposite of what we had, when what we need is someone sort of in between our last 2 relationships.

Maybe-a little jealous, but not psychotic, embarrass you in public jealous...

 

[isekii]

she doesn't drive a mercedes does she ?

becareful man~

AT cares for it's members~

 

[resinboy]

wow, this went for 2 pages- who'd a thought?
No Mercedes. Yes, great in the sack, but I keep wondering the same thing- is this all gonna end in a flash if we were to move in together.
Here's another great one: we were returning from lunch with a buddy of mine, and as we were walking into the front door of my shop, a car pulls in , and turns around in the lot and goes the other way. Innocent, right? NOOOOOOOOO, my girlfriend waits till my buddy leaves, and asks me who the blond was in the car, must be someone I was seeing, because she was pulling in until she saw me! ( girlfriend). Same deal getting a sandwich after a 'puter show a couple of weeks ago- she claims that when I was sitting there eating, and she was going to the restroom, that 2 chicks walked over to our table and were gonna sit down until they saw HER! Then, theyhad the audacity to look over my way once or twice! How dare they! I must have been meeting them there!
She acts like there are no coincidences, and everything revolves around her. Very weird. When she gets like this, I call her Shirley Holmes- really pisses her off. She takes the tiniest of things, and turns them into monumental ( notice the word mental) crap.

 

[StageLeft]

I have explained to her that she has alot on her plate ( 3 kids), and that alot of guys wouldn't even consider dating her because of that very reason

Nice way to score brownie points

Really it seems to me that if she's still like this after seeing a counsellor it's something you gotta live with forever or dump her because she won't change. Personally I'd not be able to put up with it, but then maybe other than this she is great. And of course you're not getting any younger :Q

When she gets like this, I call her Shirley Holmes

LOL

 

[lightpants]

Originally posted by: 3L33T32003
Life is too short to mess with crazy chicks.

 

[Geekbabe]

I already stated that I think you should end this relationship, you're only dating and her kids aren't attached to you. Your friend sounds like she got dealt a real lousy hand in the marriage dept and she needs some therapy.

All that said, I have to comment on a couple of remarks that you've made that might be fueling some of her reactions.You imply that since she's got 3 kids that you did her some sort of favor by going out with her. Sorry but that attitude,whether you spoke it aloud or not definately sets a tone in a relationship, as does the "she's got the had a few kids body" I can tell you from my own experience as a divorced mom of three myself that any dude who didn't consider himself lucky to have me had the door swinging on his ass so quick that he didn't know what hit him. Life is much too damn short to be with somebody who feels that he's done you some sort of favor by settling for you. She's obviously got issues not related to you but a check of yourself might also be in order here as well.

 

[resinboy]

well, it was said in the heat of an argument, I was basically saying that I was putting up with alot in the relationship as it is, dealing with 2 ex husbands, shuttling kids around to their dads houses every weekend, etc, and that acting like a whack job wasn't helping her case.

 

[acid16]

This will make you feel better

 

[resinboy]

linky no good.

OK, here is a pic of her, sitting next to Brian Thompson, from the X Files , getting a signed autograph, at last year's Chiller :HERE

(be nice you bastiges)

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: resinboy
well, it was said in the heat of an argument, I was basically saying that I was putting up with alot in the relationship as it is, dealing with 2 ex husbands, shuttling kids around to their dads houses every weekend, etc, and that acting like a whack job wasn't helping her case.

"Putting up with a lot" happens in ALL relationships and it usually happens in shifts.Do you seriously think that you never bring anything to the relationship table that's less than pleasant simply because you don't have pre-existing children? Seriously laughing here remembering a post divorce suitor or two of my own.

You're 42 yrs old,if you're going to date any woman remotely close to being an age peer chances are good she's already been married and has kids.Perhaps you need to sit down and decide what kind of life it is that *you* wish to have and then alter your dating life accordingly.

 

[Hammer]

this one is an easy call. get far far away as soon as you can.

 

[Cyco]

If you don't bail, you're going to end up psycho. You're at the point in your life where you should be living it the way that you want to. I think you already know what you want to do, you're just afraid to do it. Just keep in mind that you're sanity is at stake, and sometimes the best solution isn't the easy one.

 

[Ime]

Dump

the

B!tch!

Or does she have a vise-grip on your manhood?

 

[geno]

jealousy blows. lose her while you can. She'll probably say she can change when you tell her you're leaving, etc etc.... try to remain focused and remember all the sh!t she puts you through. Good luck.

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: resinboy

She realizes she has a problem, has tried seeing a counselor, and has ended up blowing so much smoke up this guys ass, he says I am addicted to porn, and should be on medication for it!!

Viagra?

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: resinboy

So, do I bail, wait patiently, or drink heavily and toga?

Resinboy

Is this a rhetorical question, or are you just that pathetic that you don't think you can find someone better?

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: Rastus

divorced about 2 years ago, and have been dating this girl I like lot, for about 2 1/2 years now

Looks like her fears have some basis in fact.

Oh good catch

 

[SagaLore]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Read Playboy while you do her.

:Q

 

[Richdog]

Get out of there if you value your sanity and your happiness. And be quick about it !!!!!!!:Q