This girl is going to eventually give me an aneurysm.
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The question:
A friend of mines b/f goes out w/out her Friday night. Then on Saturday he contacts her around 12:30am to see if he can play Starcraft in her room b/c the network connection in his dorm is down. He can't b/c her roommate is trying to sleep. He says nevermind and goes to play in a different dorm for the rest of the night. He pulls this crap all the time. He spends time with her only when he finds it convenient but expects her to be ready to do something with him at the drop of a hat, not to mention leaving her shedule open for when he is ready. Am I the only one that finds this behavior appalling?
NO, she doesn't condone his behavior but she is too weak to say anything to him.
Relevent Background Info:
This girl just entered college this last fall. Never been kissed and never had a boyfriend. I had gone to high school with her. She doesn't like talking to people in person, very shy but once I got her to talk to me online we would talk forever. I talked her into trying to get a boyfriend and evently she succeeded. Around the time she was really liking this guy I figured out that I really liked her too. I let her know how I felt but stayed out of her and her new boyfriend's way. Now I only get to talk to her rarely but mostly when she is mad at him or something he has done. She has said that sometimes he makes her feel like sh!t but can't say anything to him about it. I have agreed with her that his behavior is wrong and recently I was going to have a chat with her in person about she shouldn't put up w/the stuff that bothers her and maybe she should break it off. She was going to come over when he was going to the gym but he decided not to go that day so she couldn't come see me. Isn't that just stupid?
I want to hurt this guy but it would solve nothing. Woe is me.
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The question:
A friend of mines b/f goes out w/out her Friday night. Then on Saturday he contacts her around 12:30am to see if he can play Starcraft in her room b/c the network connection in his dorm is down. He can't b/c her roommate is trying to sleep. He says nevermind and goes to play in a different dorm for the rest of the night. He pulls this crap all the time. He spends time with her only when he finds it convenient but expects her to be ready to do something with him at the drop of a hat, not to mention leaving her shedule open for when he is ready. Am I the only one that finds this behavior appalling?
NO, she doesn't condone his behavior but she is too weak to say anything to him.
Relevent Background Info:
This girl just entered college this last fall. Never been kissed and never had a boyfriend. I had gone to high school with her. She doesn't like talking to people in person, very shy but once I got her to talk to me online we would talk forever. I talked her into trying to get a boyfriend and evently she succeeded. Around the time she was really liking this guy I figured out that I really liked her too. I let her know how I felt but stayed out of her and her new boyfriend's way. Now I only get to talk to her rarely but mostly when she is mad at him or something he has done. She has said that sometimes he makes her feel like sh!t but can't say anything to him about it. I have agreed with her that his behavior is wrong and recently I was going to have a chat with her in person about she shouldn't put up w/the stuff that bothers her and maybe she should break it off. She was going to come over when he was going to the gym but he decided not to go that day so she couldn't come see me. Isn't that just stupid?
I want to hurt this guy but it would solve nothing. Woe is me.