My mom is a freak.
Lets precipitate that statement with the facts:
My mom lives in a 6 figure household, that being said we have no cleaning lady, no nanny, no nothing. I have no complaints about this. The house itself is fairly immaculate, maintained by all of us.
She, however, feels this is not good enough and must be as clean as the people that have full time nannies and house cleaners. She's a fvcking freak.
She always bitches to us about how the house is a mess, and that with her lupus and arthritis she shouldn't have to work around the house.
Are you just dumb, retarded, or conceited or all of the above?
YOU HAVE A FVCKING FREE LIFE, you don't work, you don't do ******, you read books, watch tv, walk the dog and clean the ****** house.
We all do our work. You just feel that you shouldn't have to do ******, and when you lift a god damned finger you guilt trip us about how you have no time for yourself blah blah blah blah bah, and you're always so tired because you're sick.
If you want to keep a house this clean, get a ****** nanny, it's not like we can't afford it. End of story leave me the ****** alone.
Seriously, this is what a stay at home mom does. I go to university, my dad manages his own business, my brother is in highschool and plays baseball 24/7 for the city AAA baseball team. We're never around.
Today
I wake up for the second time this week (yes it's tuesday and the only other day this week is monday) being yelled AGAIN.
This morning it's, did you call about your pay check that they lost. No? Get on the fvcking phone right now and do it.
Fvck off, If I don't get paid its my problem it's not like you pay for any of my ****** to start off with.
Second, Have you called your mechanic back yet? No? Why the hell haven't you deal with it yet are you stupid?
HOLY ****** I've been awake for 10 minuets and you're yelling at me again and talking to me like I'm stupid.
Hello you stupid blonde, who never finished her bachelors. Shut the hell up.
I can't call the mechanic if I have nothing to say, I have to figure out how much I can get my parts for before we can compare costs.
Argh.
This is followed by, 'don't think you're coming home for your extra semester of college if this is the mess you're going to create'.
Woman, you're crazy! DIAF. Get some perspective, because b*tch, you crazy!
Since none of you geeks can read through those thick glasses you're wearing, I have moved out for 8 months/12 months of the year because I go away to college.
Edit
I still fail to see how I'm spoiled.
I help around the house, I work for myself, I have no qualms about having a cleaning lady or anything. I just think it's unrealistic for my mom to want to maintain the house like her friends whos husbands make millions of dollars a year, have cleaning ladies 4 days a week, buy their nannies cars so they can pick up the kids.
This is all about her not losing face amongst her friends, her friends all have immaculate houses so why can't she?
We're not in the same situation as they are, they have the kind of money where they can get extra help to maintain and do these things, we aren't because we're very conservative with where we spend our money.
Lets precipitate that statement with the facts:
My mom lives in a 6 figure household, that being said we have no cleaning lady, no nanny, no nothing. I have no complaints about this. The house itself is fairly immaculate, maintained by all of us.
She, however, feels this is not good enough and must be as clean as the people that have full time nannies and house cleaners. She's a fvcking freak.
She always bitches to us about how the house is a mess, and that with her lupus and arthritis she shouldn't have to work around the house.
Are you just dumb, retarded, or conceited or all of the above?
YOU HAVE A FVCKING FREE LIFE, you don't work, you don't do ******, you read books, watch tv, walk the dog and clean the ****** house.
We all do our work. You just feel that you shouldn't have to do ******, and when you lift a god damned finger you guilt trip us about how you have no time for yourself blah blah blah blah bah, and you're always so tired because you're sick.
If you want to keep a house this clean, get a ****** nanny, it's not like we can't afford it. End of story leave me the ****** alone.
Seriously, this is what a stay at home mom does. I go to university, my dad manages his own business, my brother is in highschool and plays baseball 24/7 for the city AAA baseball team. We're never around.
Today
I wake up for the second time this week (yes it's tuesday and the only other day this week is monday) being yelled AGAIN.
This morning it's, did you call about your pay check that they lost. No? Get on the fvcking phone right now and do it.
Fvck off, If I don't get paid its my problem it's not like you pay for any of my ****** to start off with.
Second, Have you called your mechanic back yet? No? Why the hell haven't you deal with it yet are you stupid?
HOLY ****** I've been awake for 10 minuets and you're yelling at me again and talking to me like I'm stupid.
Hello you stupid blonde, who never finished her bachelors. Shut the hell up.
I can't call the mechanic if I have nothing to say, I have to figure out how much I can get my parts for before we can compare costs.
Argh.
This is followed by, 'don't think you're coming home for your extra semester of college if this is the mess you're going to create'.
Woman, you're crazy! DIAF. Get some perspective, because b*tch, you crazy!
Since none of you geeks can read through those thick glasses you're wearing, I have moved out for 8 months/12 months of the year because I go away to college.
Edit
I still fail to see how I'm spoiled.
I help around the house, I work for myself, I have no qualms about having a cleaning lady or anything. I just think it's unrealistic for my mom to want to maintain the house like her friends whos husbands make millions of dollars a year, have cleaning ladies 4 days a week, buy their nannies cars so they can pick up the kids.
This is all about her not losing face amongst her friends, her friends all have immaculate houses so why can't she?
We're not in the same situation as they are, they have the kind of money where they can get extra help to maintain and do these things, we aren't because we're very conservative with where we spend our money.