Rant: I swear to god my mom is a brain dead SOB

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RedBeard

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Originally posted by: Lumathix
Uh yeh,
You're a dick.

Rodger that. Move out or stop b!itching. :roll:

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Philippine Mango

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Originally posted by: Babbles
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: Philippine Mango

Shes a freeloader if everybody around her helps out but she doesn't do jack squat, thats a definition of a freeloader. Why can't they be a 'family', this whole status crap because they're older is BS imo, where did we get this anyways?

Do you have any idea what Lupus and Arthritis are?

I don't think Mango Boy has a clue what either of them are.

I have osteoarthritis due to hip surgery as a kid, but I get by. But I tell you there are some days that aren't so fun. . .

Anyhow, a girl I dated for many years was diagnosed with Lupus, and I can scarcely think of anything that can be worse than Lupus. Hell my next door neighbor had lung cancer and bounced back from that - of course I realize that there are those that don't fare so well with cancer.
Regardless, I am not trying to make out one condition to be worse than another, but I merely wanted to make a comparison for those that have never lived with anybody that has Lupus that, yes indeed, Lupus can be an absolutely awful thing to live with at times.

Knowing that his mother has Lupus and he still treats her like crap is just simply inexcusable. Besides appearing to be a prick on this forum, his attitude toward his mother suffering from Lupus most literally makes the OP a bad person.

Well assuming it's as bad as you say it is (I already knew what both of those things were), then why doesn't mom call a maid? The kids already clean up around the house and she still bitches while she sits there on her ass? They're all busy apparently and the mom isn't doing anything, having a disease isn't an excuse to scold your kids for not doing a good enough job at cleaning. They have enough money so why not get a maid as well? There isn't an excuse here, sounds like to me mommy is using her disease as an excuse to not do anything.
 

mAdMaLuDaWg

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Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Originally posted by: Babbles
Originally posted by: BigJ
Originally posted by: Philippine Mango

Shes a freeloader if everybody around her helps out but she doesn't do jack squat, thats a definition of a freeloader. Why can't they be a 'family', this whole status crap because they're older is BS imo, where did we get this anyways?

Do you have any idea what Lupus and Arthritis are?

I don't think Mango Boy has a clue what either of them are.

I have osteoarthritis due to hip surgery as a kid, but I get by. But I tell you there are some days that aren't so fun. . .

Anyhow, a girl I dated for many years was diagnosed with Lupus, and I can scarcely think of anything that can be worse than Lupus. Hell my next door neighbor had lung cancer and bounced back from that - of course I realize that there are those that don't fare so well with cancer.
Regardless, I am not trying to make out one condition to be worse than another, but I merely wanted to make a comparison for those that have never lived with anybody that has Lupus that, yes indeed, Lupus can be an absolutely awful thing to live with at times.

Knowing that his mother has Lupus and he still treats her like crap is just simply inexcusable. Besides appearing to be a prick on this forum, his attitude toward his mother suffering from Lupus most literally makes the OP a bad person.

Well assuming it's as bad as you say it is (I already knew what both of those things were), then why doesn't mom call a maid? The kids already clean up around the house and she still bitches while she sits there on her ass? They're all busy apparently and the mom isn't doing anything, having a disease isn't an excuse to scold your kids for not doing a good enough job at cleaning. They have enough money so why not get a maid as well? There isn't an excuse here, sounds like to me mommy is using her disease as an excuse to not do anything.


Yeah, and I bet thats exactly how the OP ended up with such a disrespectful attitude towards his parents. Whenever there is a problem... he probably just got used to throwing money at it.
Its his parents money damn it, and they will spend it however well they please. If he wants to hire a maid then let him do it with his own damn earned money.

I moved out of the financial security of my home when I was 18. I paid myself through college and housing. I lived off $1 MickeyD meals most of the days and drove around in a 10 year old 3rd hand car EVEN though my parents were well off and if I had even asked them for money, they would have been more than happy to give me as much as I wanted. Why?? Because I didn't want anything to be given to me without earning it myself because I knew that I was an adult and it was time I started acting like one. I just graduated early this year and returned home for a long vacation... and my Mom tells me to do the same exact thing... it does get annoying but guess what, I suck it up and do it and don't call MY MOM, who raised and fed me, an SOB on a public forum.

I'm sorry, but I'm just so pissed off on how someone could actually talk to their own mother like this. I've gotten pretty angry at my folks at times, BUT NEVER, have I stooped to the level of the OP. He needs to get banished from his home so he could see how the real world works ASAP.

You know, I wouldn't be saying anything if he just said he was annoyed at his mom... thats certainly understandable. But to hurl such derogatory insults at your own parents.... :| :|
 

MidNiteMysT

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Originally posted by: BoomerD
Originally posted by: MidNiteMysT
i agree with the OP. if the mom really is that way, she is a real big loser and shouldnt be bothering him like she does. She has nothing to do, thats why she obsessed over the neatness of the house and just complains. I hate that. I dont think anyone wants to understand, just want to point your finger at the op saying he is too lazy and to move out if he doesnt like it. wtf, thats how you solve problems. "then just dont live there". thats really not the point, he should be able to go to his own house without being harassed by a retard.

quick, someone bash me for what i said, you know you wanna.

But it's not HIS house, it's hers...Why don't some of you understand, that the house is owned by the parents? It's not a partnership, it's not "equal", the house belong so the parents...They have the right to set rules, and conditions to allow adult children to continue to live under their roof...The parents have NO obligation to provide their "ADULT offspring" room & board.


why do you have to say that she owns it. if you wanna get technical, actually the father owns it, she doesnt do anything cept complain, im guessing. but who cares who "owns" it. lets say she did own it, that means she can be a complete ass? i mean if it was a stranger or w/e, fine, its your house, do what you want, but this is a family, with family, you arent supposed to think of things as, i paid for it and you live under my roof, i hate that expression. so as long as you live under their roof, you gotta do everything they say? even though its not logical and for stupid reasons? you guys just dont understand and are quick take the other persons side just cause he is wealthy. if she had good reasons for what she does, then yea, i would disagree with the op, but otherwise, she is just annoying. dont think of everything as monetary especially when its family.
 

kasia00

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Hey you little B.....tch stop whinning..
If u wanna shut ur mom up... Well S..t Hire someone to do so... u smar @ss..
Stop complaning! Most ppl have gone or do go to college....
u r not the only A hole making 6 figs..... and yet whinning like someone who's making 10 figs..

Stop being a spoiled @ss.. I also went to Privt School, worked, lived out of home and YET HELPED in everything I had to HELP @ home....
AND YES....WE DONT HIRE NANNIES......... to clean my little dirty ROOM.....

Stop comparing urself w/ the ppl making Millions a yr.. TOO bad u r not.... They can afford 50 nannies per household w/ BMWs for each nannies.... BUT u r not!! so.. JUST clean ur S...T urself u little piece of .. Rat ******
 

JEDIYoda

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Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Originally posted by: JEDIYoda
Anyways, sounds like mom is just as much as a 'freeloader' as the OP is being made out to be.
Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Originally posted by: Philippine Mango
Haha, threads like these always bring out the trolls from underneath the bridge..
Wow, that's the EXACT same thing I was thinking...
as soon as I saw your post.. :roll:

It's funny that few people in this thread can't see where the OP is coming from, I don't see anything wrong with him venting out on a forum when hes got a mom like that.. Who cares if hes a freeloader, doesn't give her the right to be up in his face about things that don't concern her, seems like a busy body more than anything else.
No, we can't see where he's coming from, but that's because we're
not ungrateful little sh1t-stains, throwing a tantrum over nothing, and
calling our mothers obscene and disparaging remarks in a forum where she'll
never see them, like a cowardly little pussy who's had everything handed
to him on a silver platter, and has to deal with the "terrible burden" of a
disabled mother who expects him to do something once in while in his
useless and pathetic life.

Kinda funny how you found it so easy to relate to the OP, huh?

Ungreatful? Who says the OP is ungreatful? Just because he is complaining about something, doesn't make him ungreatful for living at home. Anyways, sounds like mom is just as much as a 'freeloader' as the OP is being made out to be. You're just one of many holier than thou type members on this forum who bitch at people who vent about their parent(s) for doing stupid ****** while you're more than likely a hypocrite in real life. The only difference is you don't express your anger and just keep it bottled up inside, because you know, if you don't express your thoughts, you're just *that much better than the guy who DID. Right, ok, how about you get off that perch of yours and come mingle with the cretins.

It's so funny, the minute you create a thread on this forum complaining about any family members, no matter how obvious it is that they're the idiots, not the OP, the OP will still get flamed and yelled at for disrespecting them. :laugh:

You also need to grow up. Mom`s are allowed to be anything they want including "freeloaders". Sounds like mom is home 24/7 she bore some ungrateful kids.
Mind you moms don`t have to do diddly!

If the Op would quit whinning and move totally out then maybe mom would get off her arse and be forced to clean the house!!

Are you sure about that? Mom doesn't have to do jack because she popped out a few kids? Tell that to all the moms in the ghetto like eminem's mom who didn't do jack half the time. Just because it's a mom, doesn't give her the right to be lazy, it should be equal in a family, everybody puts in their share and everyone is treated with respect..

Sure they're parents, but what makes them better than the kids? Age? Naaa... IMO everybody should be treated equally, problem is, our society preaches this and then takes out the 'Double Standard' stamp and stamps it on every little thing here and there.. :roll:

dood..you really need to grow up. Nowhere in the world civilized or not are children treated equally as adults!!

You have some major issues and if you honestly believe that children should be treated like adults thats just sad!
Children are children end of story!
Cgildren have no life experiences to base anything on let alone critique there parents.
Your argument --
Sure they're parents, but what makes them better than the kids? Age? Naaa... IMO everybody should be treated equally, problem is, our society preaches this and then takes out the 'Double Standard' stamp and stamps it on every little thing here and there.. :

This argument is one that shows how inmature you really are in your views!
The children have no bills to pay. Tey the parents take care of the children providing a home with food and medical care and clothing...or am I wrong in my assuming that these are things the parents do....and not the children?
You don`t want to have to live with your parents and do as they demand you do under there roof? Then move...plain and simple.

None of this bullcaca stuff about everybody should treat everybody equally thats just some punk ass childish crap.
Children don`t deserve to be treated equal..especially if they can move out and support themselves!!

You are way to funny dood!!
 

Maximilian

Lifer
Feb 8, 2004
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Originally posted by: mrchan
Move out you free loader. Only living there for 4 months is NOT an excuse.

I don't understand how people can disrespect their own parents. I don't care what they do, they are your PARENTS. They raised, fed, clothed, sheltered you.

How rude.

Yes they are HIS parents, he can say whatever he likes about them, treat them how he see's fit, hardly for any of you guys to tell the OP what to do.

OP what you have to understand is, that a large number of people here either are parents and will naturally see you as a spoiled douche since they dont know crap about your situation and for some reason they are/were golden children who always respected their parents and would come running whenever their name was called and ask polietely "what is it mother? can i fetch you somthing to drink? or a nice sandwich perhaps!" Or maybe theyve all had such harsh terrible lives compared to yours.. so harsh and terrible that theyve managed to accumulate 5000+ posts here in a short period of time... yeah... sounds like you guys had it tough.
 

cKGunslinger

Lifer
Nov 29, 1999
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Originally posted by: Soviet
Originally posted by: mrchan
Move out you free loader. Only living there for 4 months is NOT an excuse.

I don't understand how people can disrespect their own parents. I don't care what they do, they are your PARENTS. They raised, fed, clothed, sheltered you.

How rude.

Yes they are HIS parents, he can say whatever he likes about them, treat them how he see's fit, hardly for any of you guys to tell the OP what to do.

OP what you have to understand is, that a large number of people here either are parents and will naturally see you as a spoiled douche since they dont know crap about your situation and for some reason they are/were golden children who always respected their parents and would come running whenever their name was called and ask polietely "what is it mother? can i fetch you somthing to drink? or a nice sandwich perhaps!" Or maybe theyve all had such harsh terrible lives compared to yours.. so harsh and terrible that theyve managed to accumulate 5000+ posts here in a short period of time... yeah... sounds like you guys had it tough.

WTF is up will all the emo-kiddies popping up in this thread?

Yes, it's ok to hate your disabled mom that shelters your grown, adult (at least physically) ass and only asks that you help out around the house. That's perfectly reasonable - to spoiled douches, like you mentioned.
 

QED

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Dec 16, 2005
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Originally posted by: Soviet
Originally posted by: mrchan
Move out you free loader. Only living there for 4 months is NOT an excuse.

I don't understand how people can disrespect their own parents. I don't care what they do, they are your PARENTS. They raised, fed, clothed, sheltered you.

How rude.

Yes they are HIS parents, he can say whatever he likes about them, treat them how he see's fit, hardly for any of you guys to tell the OP what to do.

OP what you have to understand is, that a large number of people here either are parents and will naturally see you as a spoiled douche since they dont know crap about your situation and for some reason they are/were golden children who always respected their parents and would come running whenever their name was called and ask polietely "what is it mother? can i fetch you somthing to drink? or a nice sandwich perhaps!" Or maybe theyve all had such harsh terrible lives compared to yours.. so harsh and terrible that theyve managed to accumulate 5000+ posts here in a short period of time... yeah... sounds like you guys had it tough.

BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

I'd wager than less than 20% of the posters here have kids of their own.

I'd further wager than about 99.99% of the posters here have had arguements, fights, disagreements, or out-and-out disdain for our parents.

So your argument doesn't hold much water.

But none of that changes the fact that the OP is still a spoiled rotten douche bag.
 

DaShen

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Dec 1, 2000
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Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Originally posted by: Soviet
Originally posted by: mrchan
Move out you free loader. Only living there for 4 months is NOT an excuse.

I don't understand how people can disrespect their own parents. I don't care what they do, they are your PARENTS. They raised, fed, clothed, sheltered you.

How rude.

Yes they are HIS parents, he can say whatever he likes about them, treat them how he see's fit, hardly for any of you guys to tell the OP what to do.

OP what you have to understand is, that a large number of people here either are parents and will naturally see you as a spoiled douche since they dont know crap about your situation and for some reason they are/were golden children who always respected their parents and would come running whenever their name was called and ask polietely "what is it mother? can i fetch you somthing to drink? or a nice sandwich perhaps!" Or maybe theyve all had such harsh terrible lives compared to yours.. so harsh and terrible that theyve managed to accumulate 5000+ posts here in a short period of time... yeah... sounds like you guys had it tough.

WTF is up will all the emo-kiddies popping up in this thread?

Yes, it's ok to hate your disabled mom that shelters your grown, adult (at least physically) ass and only asks that you help out around the house. That's perfectly reasonable - to spoiled douches, like you mentioned.

QFT... kids nowadays really need to get a beat down by their parents, to knock some sense into them. It is ridiculous.
 

Ninjja

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wow. i feel like she is only asking you about your pay check and mechanic because she cares about you. It may be your pay check, but the beauty of it is that your mum doesn't want you to be cheated out of it for your sake, not hers.

your rant is OTT.
 

DaShen

Lifer
Dec 1, 2000
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Originally posted by: QED
Originally posted by: Soviet
Originally posted by: mrchan
Move out you free loader. Only living there for 4 months is NOT an excuse.

I don't understand how people can disrespect their own parents. I don't care what they do, they are your PARENTS. They raised, fed, clothed, sheltered you.

How rude.

Yes they are HIS parents, he can say whatever he likes about them, treat them how he see's fit, hardly for any of you guys to tell the OP what to do.

OP what you have to understand is, that a large number of people here either are parents and will naturally see you as a spoiled douche since they dont know crap about your situation and for some reason they are/were golden children who always respected their parents and would come running whenever their name was called and ask polietely "what is it mother? can i fetch you somthing to drink? or a nice sandwich perhaps!" Or maybe theyve all had such harsh terrible lives compared to yours.. so harsh and terrible that theyve managed to accumulate 5000+ posts here in a short period of time... yeah... sounds like you guys had it tough.

BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

I'd wager than less than 20% of the posters here have kids of their own.

I'd further wager than about 99.99% of the posters here have had arguements, fights, disagreements, or out-and-out disdain for our parents.

So your argument doesn't hold much water.

But none of that changes the fact that the OP is still a spoiled rotten douche bag.

QFT...

Everyone here has clashed with their parents as they got older and more independant. The issue here is that we dealt with it like men/women and didn't go emo'ing it up to the rest of the world like the OP did. And judging by his history and the way he writes about his mom, the OP is a SPOILED ROTTEN DOUCHE BAG. Anyone who feels the need to defend him probably feels the need to defend him because they act the same way to their parents (i.e. - They are spoiled and unappreciative too)
 

mAdMaLuDaWg

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Originally posted by: QED
Originally posted by: Soviet
Originally posted by: mrchan
Move out you free loader. Only living there for 4 months is NOT an excuse.

I don't understand how people can disrespect their own parents. I don't care what they do, they are your PARENTS. They raised, fed, clothed, sheltered you.

How rude.

Yes they are HIS parents, he can say whatever he likes about them, treat them how he see's fit, hardly for any of you guys to tell the OP what to do.

OP what you have to understand is, that a large number of people here either are parents and will naturally see you as a spoiled douche since they dont know crap about your situation and for some reason they are/were golden children who always respected their parents and would come running whenever their name was called and ask polietely "what is it mother? can i fetch you somthing to drink? or a nice sandwich perhaps!" Or maybe theyve all had such harsh terrible lives compared to yours.. so harsh and terrible that theyve managed to accumulate 5000+ posts here in a short period of time... yeah... sounds like you guys had it tough.

BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

I'd wager than less than 20% of the posters here have kids of their own.

I'd further wager than about 99.99% of the posters here have had arguements, fights, disagreements, or out-and-out disdain for our parents.

So your argument doesn't hold much water.

But none of that changes the fact that the OP is still a spoiled rotten douche bag.


I think whats mostly ticking everybody off is the way the OP is calling out his parents. I've had fights and disagreements with my parents, but the worst I've said is probably something along the lines of :"I hate you!" (and that too like when I was 15 or so). If I had even tried to call my parents what the OP is calling his, I would have been kicked out of the house. The OP is 18+, to have sissy-fits like this just shows how immature he is.

I guess I sort of understand the OP's frustration... but, geez, to resort to these derogatory insults is just plain horrible just shows what kind of person the OP is and how he has been raised. Being an adult, he needs to start acting like one.
 

Ninjja

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Originally posted by: jbourne77
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
As for whether my parents or I pay for school, it's a joint venture.

Joint venture my asshole. What do they get out of it besides getting rid of you?

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
School has nothing to do with this though.

Nothing to do with it my asshole. It has everything to do with it. They help you with school and expect something in return. Whether you agree with the arrangement is another story, but it IS relevant.

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
I'd like to put her in a household making $50,000 a year where they can't afford all the extra ammenities she enjoys.

Then you'd have to pay for 100% of your schooling.

lol :-D
 

Isla

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Just chiming in with a note to the OP...


Um, Lupus is a very serious disease, and more often than not is the eventual cause of death.

And your mom is smarter than you think. You need to learn to wipe your own ass. Just because your parents are currently (and only currently) able to afford luxuries, you may not be able to afford to have someone wipe your ass for you. In fact, with the way the world is going, you probably WON'T be able to live like your parents have lived, and I don't care what college you are going to or how awesome you think your future will be.

Learn to survive on your own and quit whining. My children are GLAD I am teaching them how to live without hired help!!!! They take pride in what they have and what they can accomplish, because it is something THEY achieved.
 

QED

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Originally posted by: MidNiteMysT



why do you have to say that she owns it. if you wanna get technical, actually the father owns it, she doesnt do anything cept complain, im guessing. but who cares who "owns" it.

Actually, if you want to get technical, she and the father own it jointly by virtue of their being married and by Canandian Law (namely the Family Relations Act).

WTF is up with these dumb ass posters who think just because the father works (and the mother doesn't), he "owns" everything?

BTW-- Can I come live at your house, contribute nothing at all, and whine and complain on ATOT about what an SOB you are when you ask me to do something?
 

mrizvi66

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Move out.

I have ******, I don't live there for 8 months of the year because I go away to school.

Read the whole ****** post next time.
So don't live there the other 4 months of the year.



You guys don't get it, I shouldn't come home to expect to get yelled at by a moron who has lost all perspective on the universe.

As for whether my parents or I pay for school, it's a joint venture.

School has nothing to do with this though.

She has unrealistic expectations and needs to be grounded.

I'd like to put her in a household making $50,000 a year where they can't afford all the extra ammenities she enjoys.

what we get is that your a whinny little ******...that doesn't respect his mother....if you don't want to have her yell at you...move the f out....
 

DannyLove

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Oct 17, 2000
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LOL This is the best thread ever. Thanks everyone for the laughs.... to the OP. You are a fvcken idiot. Spoiled biatch.
 

Babbles

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It would be nice if somebody could find his father's email address and send a link to this thread!
 
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