Rant: I swear to god my mom is a brain dead SOB

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
I don't see why you are all complaining about the OP. If the mother does nothing around the house and expects the kid to do everything, then you could have problems. The OP should do stuff around the house, but not everything. Also, the whole neat-freak attitude described may be over the top from the mom. Finally, the waking up to being yelled at about his car/paycheck, you shouldn't have to be yelled at for that, maybe a casual reminder would suffice.

Dude, that's what kids are for. Throughout history families bore children so that they could help out with all the work it took just to survive. I'm sure she must do something around the house if it is as clean as the OP claims it is.

The fact that the parents could afford a maid isn't the point. It's not his decision to make or to criticize. He doesn't have to like it but he definitely should have kept the things he said here to himself...he came to the wrong place looking for pity that's for sure.

 

[bluestrobe]

Too many spoiled rich kids on this forum.

 

[Philippine Mango]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
I don't see why you are all complaining about the OP. If the mother does nothing around the house and expects the kid to do everything, then you could have problems. The OP should do stuff around the house, but not everything. Also, the whole neat-freak attitude described may be over the top from the mom. Finally, the waking up to being yelled at about his car/paycheck, you shouldn't have to be yelled at for that, maybe a casual reminder would suffice.

Dude, that's what kids are for. Throughout history families bore children so that they could help out with all the work it took just to survive. I'm sure she must do something around the house if it is as clean as the OP claims it is.

The fact that the parents could afford a maid isn't the point. It's not his decision to make or to criticize. He doesn't have to like it but he definitely should have kept the things he said here to himself...he came to the wrong place looking for pity that's for sure.

If you read the OP carefully, you would have noticed that he said it's clean cause the family cleans up and she does nothing but complain. He thinks it's clean enough, she doesn't, in the OP's opinion, if she wants it my lover and span, she needs to get a maid as there apparently is nothing more he can do.

I'm sure the OP cleans and I'm sure the mom is overexaggerating, I don't see the OP lying about any of this, IMO you can really tell if someone is 'bending the truth' or something of the sort.

 

[yhelothar]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
I don't see why you are all complaining about the OP. If the mother does nothing around the house and expects the kid to do everything, then you could have problems. The OP should do stuff around the house, but not everything. Also, the whole neat-freak attitude described may be over the top from the mom. Finally, the waking up to being yelled at about his car/paycheck, you shouldn't have to be yelled at for that, maybe a casual reminder would suffice.

Dude, that's what kids are for. Throughout history families bore children so that they could help out with all the work it took just to survive. I'm sure she must do something around the house if it is as clean as the OP claims it is.

The fact that the parents could afford a maid isn't the point. It's not his decision to make or to criticize. He doesn't have to like it but he definitely should have kept the things he said here to himself...he came to the wrong place looking for pity that's for sure.

You're a moron. I feel sorry for your kids if you think the main purpose of having them is for doing your work.
You should have them taken away from you.

Parents that justify their sh!tty parenting by saying that they're feeding and sheltering their kids should not have children.
Parenting is a lot more than just putting food on the table. If that's all you can do, then you shouldn't be a parent.

 

[ShotgunSteven]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
I don't see why you are all complaining about the OP. If the mother does nothing around the house and expects the kid to do everything, then you could have problems. The OP should do stuff around the house, but not everything. Also, the whole neat-freak attitude described may be over the top from the mom. Finally, the waking up to being yelled at about his car/paycheck, you shouldn't have to be yelled at for that, maybe a casual reminder would suffice.

Perspective...

Try to remember that you are only getting one side of the story here... and that side is being presented by someone who has a habit of making himself out to be the victim in every single situation he posts about.

Regardless... He has NO room to complain here.

That's the amusing part. People will usually paint themselves in the best light that they can in a "me vs. them" story. If we think the OP is this much of an asshat based on his side of the story as related by him, imagine how big of an asshat he really is. :laugh:

 

[alocurto]

Originally posted by: oddyager

Originally posted by: MrChad
Grow up and move out.

I bet you have all your expenses paid for too, don't you. If you are paying your tution, just get a place off campus you can stay at all year round. Then you don't have to go home in the summers and whine about how tough you have it.

 

[theprodigalrebel]

If the OP knew anything about women, he would know that most of them like to have immaculately maintained homes. Remember that Liv Tyler movie 'One Night at McCool's?' It had a line something like, "Everyone deserves a home that belongs in a magazine"

A lot of women do think like that and there is nothing really wrong with that as long as they aren't screaming for more stuff that they can't even afford. OP's mom just wants her existing home clean and tidy: WTF is wrong with that?

And what I really want to know is where he disappeared. He could have just edited his post and added something like, "LOL, I was drunk silly when I made this thread" and put an end to this ownage a long time ago.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

I'm not reading the whole thread because my mind is a little fuzzy from muscle relaxers and fibromyaligia fog. That being said, Lupus is really bad. I've heard that it's closely related to fibromyalgia. I have fibro and it's nasty. Most days all I can do is sit on the freakin' couch and lie down. I have good days, too, but they're few and far between. I think anyone that criticizes someone for an illness they can't can't control really has no grasp on it at all. You may live with her and see how she is, but do you have it? Do you know what it feels like?

Anyway, my $.02.

 

[Blazin Trav]

Originally posted by: virtualgames0

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
I don't see why you are all complaining about the OP. If the mother does nothing around the house and expects the kid to do everything, then you could have problems. The OP should do stuff around the house, but not everything. Also, the whole neat-freak attitude described may be over the top from the mom. Finally, the waking up to being yelled at about his car/paycheck, you shouldn't have to be yelled at for that, maybe a casual reminder would suffice.

Dude, that's what kids are for. Throughout history families bore children so that they could help out with all the work it took just to survive. I'm sure she must do something around the house if it is as clean as the OP claims it is.

The fact that the parents could afford a maid isn't the point. It's not his decision to make or to criticize. He doesn't have to like it but he definitely should have kept the things he said here to himself...he came to the wrong place looking for pity that's for sure.

You're a moron. I feel sorry for your kids if you think the main purpose of having them is for doing your work.
You should have them taken away from you.

Parents that justify their sh!tty parenting by saying that they're feeding and sheltering their kids should not have children.
Parenting is a lot more than just putting food on the table. If that's all you can do, then you shouldn't be a parent.

:thumbsup:

 

[keldog7]

Lupus is not closely related to fibromyalgia... *One* of those diseases really exists....
lol...not entirely serious above...

I have the perfect solution to the OP problem... Can anyone provide a print out of this thread (or at least the first post) to his Mom? I'm sure that would expedite a measured resolution. (which would presumably involve his tuition funds being taken, and his summertime lodging option showing "no vacancy")
dear OP,
you are a loser. I hope your kids treat you with the same fvcking contempt, during your supervised weekend visits (because your ex-to-be will surely have full custody)
-a

 

[datalink7]

I love these threads. Part of the reason I keep coming back to ATOT

 

[Blazin Trav]

yeah its quite a good read.

 

[Brainonska511]

What is wrong with you people that keep suggesting printouts of this thread and the fowarding of it to his parents? Are you all that hell-bent on f***ing up his life more than he already thinks it is? He may have a point with everything, he may just be spoiled. Personally, I see it as the mother is a little bit of a neat-freak so she is a little overboard with the cleaning issue, but the OP may also be overreacting to everything going on in the house.

 

[LegendKiller]

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
What is wrong with you people that keep suggesting printouts of this thread and the fowarding of it to his parents? Are you all that hell-bent on f***ing up his life more than he already thinks it is? He may have a point with everything, he may just be spoiled. Personally, I see it as the mother is a little bit of a neat-freak so she is a little overboard with the cleaning issue, but the OP may also be overreacting to everything going on in the house.

Maybe it would wake his arse up. If I had a kid (and I will in the near future) and they posted something like this on the net, after I clothed and fed them throughout the years, I'd kick their ungreatful idiotic arse to the curb and let them see how easy it is to whipe the noses of punk kids who couldn't care less about how lucky they are.

When I was a kid I woke up at 6am every weekend day to clean, mow the lawn, and take care of the house.

 

[Blazin Trav]

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
What is wrong with you people that keep suggesting printouts of this thread and the fowarding of it to his parents? Are you all that hell-bent on f***ing up his life more than he already thinks it is? He may have a point with everything, he may just be spoiled. Personally, I see it as the mother is a little bit of a neat-freak so she is a little overboard with the cleaning issue, but the OP may also be overreacting to everything going on in the house.

His life isn't ****** up... wow are you serious? His parents bail him out of thousands of dollars worth of gambling dept, pay for just about everything, and his mom yells at him for the what, 3-4 months he is actually at home? Wahh wahh go back to mommy is his life really that bad?

 

[maximus maximus]

Originally posted by: LegendKiller

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
What is wrong with you people that keep suggesting printouts of this thread and the fowarding of it to his parents? Are you all that hell-bent on f***ing up his life more than he already thinks it is? He may have a point with everything, he may just be spoiled. Personally, I see it as the mother is a little bit of a neat-freak so she is a little overboard with the cleaning issue, but the OP may also be overreacting to everything going on in the house.

Maybe it would wake his arse up. If I had a kid (and I will in the near future) and they posted something like this on the net, after I clothed and fed them throughout the years, I'd kick their ungreatful idiotic arse to the curb and let them see how easy it is to whipe the noses of punk kids who couldn't care less about how lucky they are.

When I was a kid I woke up at 6am every weekend day to clean, mow the lawn, and take care of the house.

well said. :thumbsup:

 

[Brainonska511]

Originally posted by: Blazin Trav

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
What is wrong with you people that keep suggesting printouts of this thread and the fowarding of it to his parents? Are you all that hell-bent on f***ing up his life more than he already thinks it is? He may have a point with everything, he may just be spoiled. Personally, I see it as the mother is a little bit of a neat-freak so she is a little overboard with the cleaning issue, but the OP may also be overreacting to everything going on in the house.

His life isn't ****** up... wow are you serious? His parents bail him out of thousands of dollars worth of gambling dept, pay for just about everything, and his mom yells at him for the what, 3-4 months he is actually at home? Wahh wahh go back to mommy is his life really that bad?

Missed the gambling thing. It is really bad for him to bitch if that's the case. I still stand by the mom being a little off her rocker, but he should just deal with it if that's the case.

 

[Blazin Trav]

I still fail to see how I'm spoiled. I still fail to see how I'm spoiled.

I help around the house, I work for myself, I have no qualms about having a cleaning lady or anything. I just think it's unrealistic for my mom to want to maintain the house like her friends whos husbands make millions of dollars a year, have cleaning ladies 4 days a week, buy their nannies cars so they can pick up the kids.

This is all about her not losing face amongst her friends, her friends all have immaculate houses so why can't she?

We're not in the same situation as they are, they have the kind of money where they can get extra help to maintain and do these things, we aren't because we're very conservative with where we spend our money.

You spend your money conservatively? Proof of other threads where you complain about enormous dept shows us otherwise. How are we to believe you clean the house when your mom complains about it not being clean? I want you to take pictures of you cleaning your house, so we can see how big of a house you live in. You have a cush cush life with a millionaire dad... again, what do you have to complain about? Does your mom really need to be told to DIAF?

I know I thank my mom everyday for the things she does for me. I'm nice to her as much as possible because I realize that one day I will be a father (okay not exactly the same but close enough) and I will have to deal with a lot of the stuff she goes through everyday.

 

[Blazin Trav]

bump.

 

[krotchy]

Am I the only one bothered by this thread having just now passing the israeli soldiers being captured thread in replies. Whats more important, the ravings of a spoiled kid, or a war that may spill over to us very soon. Course, ATOT isnt exactly the must sane place in the universe

 

[darkamulets]

Shut up and put up or don't come back to home, move out!

 

[Ricemarine]

Originally posted by: maximus maximus

Originally posted by: LegendKiller

Originally posted by: Brainonska511
What is wrong with you people that keep suggesting printouts of this thread and the fowarding of it to his parents? Are you all that hell-bent on f***ing up his life more than he already thinks it is? He may have a point with everything, he may just be spoiled. Personally, I see it as the mother is a little bit of a neat-freak so she is a little overboard with the cleaning issue, but the OP may also be overreacting to everything going on in the house.

Maybe it would wake his arse up. If I had a kid (and I will in the near future) and they posted something like this on the net, after I clothed and fed them throughout the years, I'd kick their ungreatful idiotic arse to the curb and let them see how easy it is to whipe the noses of punk kids who couldn't care less about how lucky they are.

When I was a kid I woke up at 6am every weekend day to clean, mow the lawn, and take care of the house.

well said. :thumbsup:

That must be one fast growing lawn you got there :laugh:

 

[LegendKiller]

Originally posted by: Ricemarine

well said. :thumbsup:

That must be one fast growing lawn you got there :laugh:

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rofl, it was .

The funny thing about it, now that I live in the city and haven't mowed a lawn in 6 years or had to clean a large house in just as many years, I actually miss it quite a bit. I find myself asking people if they need help when they discuss doing landscaping themselves. I work in finance but I find myself craving some manual labor and the smell of freshly cut grass.

I didn't always like it at the time, I wanted to be watching Sat. Morning cartoons, but my dad worked his arse off and I did what he told me. I might not have always liked what he did (he is an alcoholic), but he fed and sheltered me and sometimes gave me some very good advice. He wasn't always the nicest person, but he tried his hardest 90% of the time.

You may not like your parents all of the time, I didn't like my dad at times, but when it comes down to it, they brought you here, they fed and raised you, and they tried. Kids don't come with manuals and it's a dang hard job. Even the best parents fail at times.

You may not recognize it now and you may never recognize it, but you owe them a huge debt, regardless of your short-term problems with them. You should attempt to repay that debt, even if it's something as small as not posting disrespectful trash online to make yourself look big on a forum.

I didn't talk to my dad for 5 months after he called my wife and "effin B*&^@" when he was drunk 5 months ago. However, he came here with my mom to visit and I was very nice to him, he stayed sober and didn't start stuff with me. I showed them around DC and we went to all of the monuments. I am still mad at him, but he's had 3 heart attacks and probably won't be around for more than 2-3 more years.

Imagine if I didn't talk to him all of that time and ignored him every time he was around and he died. Despite him being a jerk 10% of the time, he's nice the rest, if I missed that because of my own anger, I'd be an idiot.

Every time you get pissed at your mom, take 2 days, then think how crappy your life would be if she died tomorrow and you still posted this crap online.

I didn't realize how this stuff could change your life until we found out my wife had cancer. She's only 26. Suddenly, all of my problems with her, all of our fights, disagreements, and issues over the past 7.5 years become nothing with the realization that she could have died less than 6 months after we got married.

You may think I am an old windbag (27) and that I am full of crap but I hope you never have to find out what I mean.

 

[bennylong]

you should be ashamed of yourself. Reading this thread makes me not want to have any kids. How can anyone be this spoiled??

 

[BoomerD]

Anyone else notice that the whiny spoiled be-yotch hasn't bothered to post since the start of the thread? Could it be? Is he just a troll? Or has his mommy taken away his internet priviledges?