Rant: Trouble with Red-Heads.

[BigFatCow]

blue didnt do anything that wrong (i agree wht he did was wrong but almost any non married man would have done the same). the person who did something wrong was the girl, shes the one thats married.

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: ZeroBurn
/me dawns flamesuite.

i'm going to have to play devil's advocate here.

if blue didn't hook up with her, she would have hooked up with someone else anyway. she approached him, this should clue you in on the type of personality she has. she's the one that damned herself here. homewrecker? how so, what exactly did he do besides be there? she would have gone with some other guy who you would then call a homewrecker.

she's the one at fault, the world is not an ethical place and once you realize that the better. so she's a whore, there are greater things to bitch and whine about than adultery which i'm willing to bet happens more often then a prepubscent teen posts on ATOT asking for advice on women. i'm not saying i would have schooped her, but i can certainly understand the position.

the woman would have committed adultery and the end result would be the same regardless of if blue had slept with her: her husband gets the shaft.

True Zero, but two wrongs don't make it right. Scum is scum no matter how ya slice it.

 

[ZeroBurn]

True Zero, but two wrongs don't make it right. Scum is scum no matter how ya slice it.

i don't see why anyone uses that quote. what does making a right have anything to do with it. the point isn't to fix their relationship, to make the world right, to make everything nice and sugar coated happy again. someone's getting the shaft in the end, and it's going to be the husband. you might as well reap the benefits.

another scenario: say you find a wallet (fat one at that!) while walking home with pure cash, no possible way to identify who it belongs to. it also contains a ticket stub for a plane trip to africa, one way, leaving 3 weeks ago. for the purpose of this scenario, the airlines have no possible way to pull up a list of that plane's passengers.

the end result is evident: some poor man has lost $50,000 usd.

the question is, do you take the money for yourself, or do you leave it there for someone else to find and take and spend? feel free to dissect the problem to absurd levels and avoid the question altogether if it makes you feel better to avoid the problem. the man who takes the money gets ahead, and the man who takes the woman simply gets head (ok, bad joke, but the point stands). i realize some have moral issues, whehter it be a belief in karma, or that all money should be hard-earned the old fashioned way, but these all have more or less to do with personal ideals. you may as well damn the man for not being a christian.

i would take the money. you may not- but a new 350z and the rest of my college tuition is going to add to my happiness scale significantly, which i personally feel is what this life is all about (i'm an existenialist more or less, if there's an afterlife then sweet deal, but i'm not going to depend on it). maybe the karma you believe you'll receive would be worth more to you, to each his own.

i went on a rant, but the main point was it's not his fault for taking advatange of an oppertunity IMHO. i reserve my judgement for a$$holes who rape young kids, who CAN be held responsible for the sh!t that you see in papers.

 

[IGBT]

Dangerous...and exciting. Life on the edge.

 

[xirtam]

...someone's getting the shaft in the end...

Was that intentional? :Q

 

[Bluefront]

Baah...this little thread started out as a rant on dangerous red-heads....turned into a discussion on the merits of Victorian morality. Ha.

Till you've actually been there children, there's no way you'll know in advance what your response will be in such a situation. I got picked up by a red-head to whom the marriage contract meant nothing..big deal. Happens all the time to people all over. Grow up. Now who's going to believe you when you declare "Not me, I'm too pure for that". Buster, at 3am, when a good-looking woman wants you, she'll get you....I don't care what you say.

Here's another one for you...A few months ago I met a woman, we talked awhile, she gave me her phone number...said "call me". So I did later on. A man answered the phone, and I hung up. Later I found out she was married. It was either a joke...or she was really stupid. I think she was just stupid. She could have easily said to me "I'm married". I don't purposely go after married women..too many complications. There's enough single women to go around.

Look guys, If you care for your wife, don't let them work in a bar as a bartender or waitress, and don't let them go to bars even with their girl-friends. It's an open invitation for trouble. I know they can make a lot of money in that occupation, but you risk/will lose your wife.

Put any single man in my shoes (size 14) at that stool, at the bar, at that time...he'd have done the exact same thing I did, and never regreted it afterwards either. Heh.

 

[xirtam]

Buster, at 3am, when a good-looking woman wants you, she'll get you....I don't care what you say.

How about "no"?

 

[Shockwave]

*L* No one mentioned the wife / girlfriend...Interesting. Actually, I dont have a g/f. I'm completely happy with the wife, she's a red head, and faithful as all hell. i love her to death. Wouldnt cheat on her, and she wouldnt cheat on me (I dont think.....Hmmm..... )
Anyways, no, the one to blame is BOTH parties. Granted, the "wife" who took him home is more to blame, she would have found someone else if not him. But! That doesnt make it right for HIM to go home with her. Its called morals, something todays society is HIGHLY lacking. Is it right for her to cheat on her husband? Of course not. But, its also not right for him to help her. Kinda like Accomplice to a crime, if that makes sense. Either way, both are to blame, the mojority of blame being with the wife.

 

[Brutuskend]

Every red head I've ever been with was WILD!!!

Still a very bad Idea to shag someone else's wife. Been there and done that, NEVER AGAIN!!!

Very very bad karma.

Ever read "Still life with woodpecker"?

Interesting ideas about redheads in there!

 

[Therapist928]

Bluefront:

So YOU'RE the asshole who cheated with my red-headed bartender wife! I am gonna f*ck you up, bitch!!!

Red-headed female bartender's husband
:|

 

[Bluefront]

He, he...no therapist, I'm not "the one", maybe the first one, maybe the last one, but not "the one".

Hey I got an idea guys. Dress that pretty red-headed wife of yours in a full-lenght black robe, with a veil like those Arab women wear. You won't have to worry about her ever again...far as I'm concerned anyway. Heh.

 

[DAPUNISHER]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: Stojakapimp
Redheads just don't really do it for me. Some are ok I suppose.

MORE FOR ME!!!!

oh wait

Hey! I'm tellin'

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: ZeroBurn

if your wife is going around sleeping with other men, why don't you spend your tongue to speak with your wife rather than threaten people?

Or use it for other things?

Shockwave - btw, nice post...