RANT: What would you do.

[Buck Armstrong]

Originally posted by: kmrivers

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Why did you get married in the first place? Why is sex the only thing that matters? If you bugs you that much got to a sex therapist.

You are saying this is not an ideal situation, "its fvcking life". Then deal with it you pussy. You knocked her up, you married her and you have to work. Boo fvcking hoo.

If it is that bad then fix it. Get off the damn internet and have a talk. Not about sex. Get some counseling.

If you don't want to do that, then get a divorce. Either way get off your ass and do something. Posting your pathetic rant about how much your life sucks even though you are the dipshit that made it that way is not going to get you anywhere.

By the way.. marriage doesnt suck. You suck at marriage because you are too considered with your dick. Jump of a cliff and die.

You must either be completely "modernized" (ie, feminized and pussy-whipped) or not know any married women beside your wife (who, fortunately for you, sounds like one of the easier ones to live with). But don't act like its not a COMMON fvcking fact that ALOT of women act one way before they get married (sex all the time, having a job, etc.) to make the man think it'll be great to be married, and then change their tune as soon as the deal is sealed; first the sex dries up, then the money gets spent on frivolous bvllsh*t, and so on.

And "you are too considered with your dick"? You sound just like some women I know, trying to make their husband feel guilty for wanting to have sex with his wife on a regular basis, instead of just cheating on her like 75% of other men. One of the main reasons for most men to marry the woman they love is to have regular sex with her, and why is that so wrong? She liked it BEFORE marriage, so why not AFTER? Because it was a fvcking act, that's why.

Now I'm not implying that some men don't do the same thing (like hide the fact that they're heavy drinkers or something before the marriage), but if you've never heard this story before, you've been living in a bubble. Go ask a marriage counselor if I'm full of sh*t, and I promise you'll be surprised.

Of course I have heard this many times before. Take your useless assumptions somewhere else.

The fact it appears as an act is the problem. Have a damn partnership. Not a lets-fvck-all-the-time-ship. Obviously they have never had communication because if they did. This would not be happening. Even so...

So what if she doesn't want to have sex. Get a fvcking hobby. Go do something. Go out and do things together. Have a relationship that doesnt revolve around sex and complaining about one another.

You should feel guilty for wanting to have sex all the time. Obviously they aren't very responsible with sex, because from the sounds of it they didn't want to have a kid. Sex is great, but at some point your 24/7 need for it should go away. Sex is not the end all be all. If it is don't get married.

Cheating because of sex. Again, if sex is the only thing your wife can offer you and you need to go cheat to get it. You should not be married. NO excuse.

I am in no way shape or form, pussy whipped. Feminized, sure, i dont think women should be treated like objects. So yeah I guess so.

Get a hobby? Listen to yourself. You're already a neutered housecat with a broken spirit. Someone's done quite a job on you if you honestly believe that wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you love, the mother of your children, the recipient of every dime you bust your ass for, is "treating women like objects", or is wrong in any way.

Congratulations, you're a true woman of the 21st century.

 

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Why did you get married in the first place? Why is sex the only thing that matters? If you bugs you that much got to a sex therapist.

You are saying this is not an ideal situation, "its fvcking life". Then deal with it you pussy. You knocked her up, you married her and you have to work. Boo fvcking hoo.

If it is that bad then fix it. Get off the damn internet and have a talk. Not about sex. Get some counseling.

If you don't want to do that, then get a divorce. Either way get off your ass and do something. Posting your pathetic rant about how much your life sucks even though you are the dipshit that made it that way is not going to get you anywhere.

By the way.. marriage doesnt suck. You suck at marriage because you are too considered with your dick. Jump of a cliff and die.

You must either be completely "modernized" (ie, feminized and pussy-whipped) or not know any married women beside your wife (who, fortunately for you, sounds like one of the easier ones to live with). But don't act like its not a COMMON fvcking fact that ALOT of women act one way before they get married (sex all the time, having a job, etc.) to make the man think it'll be great to be married, and then change their tune as soon as the deal is sealed; first the sex dries up, then the money gets spent on frivolous bvllsh*t, and so on.

And "you are too considered with your dick"? You sound just like some women I know, trying to make their husband feel guilty for wanting to have sex with his wife on a regular basis, instead of just cheating on her like 75% of other men. One of the main reasons for most men to marry the woman they love is to have regular sex with her, and why is that so wrong? She liked it BEFORE marriage, so why not AFTER? Because it was a fvcking act, that's why.

Now I'm not implying that some men don't do the same thing (like hide the fact that they're heavy drinkers or something before the marriage), but if you've never heard this story before, you've been living in a bubble. Go ask a marriage counselor if I'm full of sh*t, and I promise you'll be surprised.

Of course I have heard this many times before. Take your useless assumptions somewhere else.

The fact it appears as an act is the problem. Have a damn partnership. Not a lets-fvck-all-the-time-ship. Obviously they have never had communication because if they did. This would not be happening. Even so...

So what if she doesn't want to have sex. Get a fvcking hobby. Go do something. Go out and do things together. Have a relationship that doesnt revolve around sex and complaining about one another.

You should feel guilty for wanting to have sex all the time. Obviously they aren't very responsible with sex, because from the sounds of it they didn't want to have a kid. Sex is great, but at some point your 24/7 need for it should go away. Sex is not the end all be all. If it is don't get married.

Cheating because of sex. Again, if sex is the only thing your wife can offer you and you need to go cheat to get it. You should not be married. NO excuse.

I am in no way shape or form, pussy whipped. Feminized, sure, i dont think women should be treated like objects. So yeah I guess so.

Get a hobby? Listen to yourself. You're already a neutered housecat with a broken spirit. Someone's done quite a job on you if you honestly believe that wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you love, is "treating women like objects", or is wrong in any way.

Congratulations, you're a true woman of the 21st century.

Agreed

 

[kmrivers]

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Why did you get married in the first place? Why is sex the only thing that matters? If you bugs you that much got to a sex therapist.

You are saying this is not an ideal situation, "its fvcking life". Then deal with it you pussy. You knocked her up, you married her and you have to work. Boo fvcking hoo.

If it is that bad then fix it. Get off the damn internet and have a talk. Not about sex. Get some counseling.

If you don't want to do that, then get a divorce. Either way get off your ass and do something. Posting your pathetic rant about how much your life sucks even though you are the dipshit that made it that way is not going to get you anywhere.

By the way.. marriage doesnt suck. You suck at marriage because you are too considered with your dick. Jump of a cliff and die.

You must either be completely "modernized" (ie, feminized and pussy-whipped) or not know any married women beside your wife (who, fortunately for you, sounds like one of the easier ones to live with). But don't act like its not a COMMON fvcking fact that ALOT of women act one way before they get married (sex all the time, having a job, etc.) to make the man think it'll be great to be married, and then change their tune as soon as the deal is sealed; first the sex dries up, then the money gets spent on frivolous bvllsh*t, and so on.

And "you are too considered with your dick"? You sound just like some women I know, trying to make their husband feel guilty for wanting to have sex with his wife on a regular basis, instead of just cheating on her like 75% of other men. One of the main reasons for most men to marry the woman they love is to have regular sex with her, and why is that so wrong? She liked it BEFORE marriage, so why not AFTER? Because it was a fvcking act, that's why.

Now I'm not implying that some men don't do the same thing (like hide the fact that they're heavy drinkers or something before the marriage), but if you've never heard this story before, you've been living in a bubble. Go ask a marriage counselor if I'm full of sh*t, and I promise you'll be surprised.

Of course I have heard this many times before. Take your useless assumptions somewhere else.

The fact it appears as an act is the problem. Have a damn partnership. Not a lets-fvck-all-the-time-ship. Obviously they have never had communication because if they did. This would not be happening. Even so...

So what if she doesn't want to have sex. Get a fvcking hobby. Go do something. Go out and do things together. Have a relationship that doesnt revolve around sex and complaining about one another.

You should feel guilty for wanting to have sex all the time. Obviously they aren't very responsible with sex, because from the sounds of it they didn't want to have a kid. Sex is great, but at some point your 24/7 need for it should go away. Sex is not the end all be all. If it is don't get married.

Cheating because of sex. Again, if sex is the only thing your wife can offer you and you need to go cheat to get it. You should not be married. NO excuse.

I am in no way shape or form, pussy whipped. Feminized, sure, i dont think women should be treated like objects. So yeah I guess so.

Get a hobby? Listen to yourself. You're already a neutered housecat with a broken spirit. Someone's done quite a job on you if you honestly believe that wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you love, is "treating women like objects", or is wrong in any way.

Congratulations, you're a true woman of the 21st century.

Ok douchebag. This guy, obviously does not love his wife. Otherwise instead of whining about getting laid, he would be trying to fix his marriage.

Also, When did i link wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you "love", with treating women like objects? Oh yeah, I didn't. You took that honor from me. Thank you wise master.

For the record. I am not married.

 

[miniMUNCH]

OP: Your life seems to suck...but I don't pity you. You kinda come off like an asshat.

 

[imported_Scourge]

Originally posted by: X-Man
Word. My niece is my wife. . .

:0


I apologise.

 

[Buck Armstrong]

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Ok douchebag. This guy, obviously does not love his wife. Otherwise instead of whining about getting laid, he would be trying to fix his marriage.

Also, When did i link wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you "love", with treating women like objects? Oh yeah, I didn't. You took that honor from me. Thank you wise master.

For the record. I am not married.

AHAHAHA! "I am not married". Now it all makes sense; you have no fvcking idea what you are talking about. :laugh:

I apologize If I said anything offensive to you in this thread or the other one, I thought you were married and just weren't being realistic. Every guy (and probably girl too) has this rosy view of what it will be like, and much of the time it is like that, which is exactly what makes it worth it during the bad times.

Speaking only for myself, the more I love someone, the more I want to have sex with them, and I'm not ashamed of that (in fact I think its natural). Anyway, hold on to those romantic ideals, you'll need them later.

 

[kmrivers]

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Ok douchebag. This guy, obviously does not love his wife. Otherwise instead of whining about getting laid, he would be trying to fix his marriage.

Also, When did i link wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you "love", with treating women like objects? Oh yeah, I didn't. You took that honor from me. Thank you wise master.

For the record. I am not married.

AHAHAHA! "I am not married". Now it all makes sense; you have no fvcking idea what you are talking about. :laugh:

I apologize If I said anything offensive to you in this thread or the other one, I thought you were married and just weren't being realistic. Every guy (and probably girl too) has this rosy view of what it will be like, and much of the time it is like that, which is exactly what makes it worth it during the bad times.

Speaking only for myself, the more I love someone, the more I want to have sex with them, and I'm not ashamed of that (in fact I think its natural). Anyway, hold on to those romantic ideals, you'll need them later.

So of course, you know more then me because you are married. Save your advice, you are the last person I will be taking it from. Thanks anyway.

 

[Nebor]

Marriage is a ridiculous idea, based on the idea of true love, which doesn't exist. So get a divorce, your kid will be fine, they all are.

 

[Buck Armstrong]

Originally posted by: kmrivers

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Ok douchebag. This guy, obviously does not love his wife. Otherwise instead of whining about getting laid, he would be trying to fix his marriage.

Also, When did i link wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you "love", with treating women like objects? Oh yeah, I didn't. You took that honor from me. Thank you wise master.

For the record. I am not married.

AHAHAHA! "I am not married". Now it all makes sense; you have no fvcking idea what you are talking about. :laugh:

I apologize If I said anything offensive to you in this thread or the other one, I thought you were married and just weren't being realistic. Every guy (and probably girl too) has this rosy view of what it will be like, and much of the time it is like that, which is exactly what makes it worth it during the bad times.

Speaking only for myself, the more I love someone, the more I want to have sex with them, and I'm not ashamed of that (in fact I think its natural). Anyway, hold on to those romantic ideals, you'll need them later.

So of course, you know more then me because you are married. Save your advice, you are the last person I will be taking it from. Thanks anyway.

No, I don't know more than you because I'm married...I just know more about marriage than you because I'm married.

 

[kinev]

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Ok douchebag. This guy, obviously does not love his wife. Otherwise instead of whining about getting laid, he would be trying to fix his marriage.

Also, When did i link wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you "love", with treating women like objects? Oh yeah, I didn't. You took that honor from me. Thank you wise master.

For the record. I am not married.

AHAHAHA! "I am not married". Now it all makes sense; you have no fvcking idea what you are talking about. :laugh:

I apologize If I said anything offensive to you in this thread or the other one, I thought you were married and just weren't being realistic. Every guy (and probably girl too) has this rosy view of what it will be like, and much of the time it is like that, which is exactly what makes it worth it during the bad times.

Speaking only for myself, the more I love someone, the more I want to have sex with them, and I'm not ashamed of that (in fact I think its natural). Anyway, hold on to those romantic ideals, you'll need them later.

So of course, you know more then me because you are married. Save your advice, you are the last person I will be taking it from. Thanks anyway.

No, I don't know more than you because I'm married...I just know more about marriage than you because I'm married.

Buck Armstrong: 1
kmrivers: 0

 

[kmrivers]

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers

Originally posted by: Buck Armstrong

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Ok douchebag. This guy, obviously does not love his wife. Otherwise instead of whining about getting laid, he would be trying to fix his marriage.

Also, When did i link wanting to have sex with your wife, the woman you "love", with treating women like objects? Oh yeah, I didn't. You took that honor from me. Thank you wise master.

For the record. I am not married.

AHAHAHA! "I am not married". Now it all makes sense; you have no fvcking idea what you are talking about. :laugh:

I apologize If I said anything offensive to you in this thread or the other one, I thought you were married and just weren't being realistic. Every guy (and probably girl too) has this rosy view of what it will be like, and much of the time it is like that, which is exactly what makes it worth it during the bad times.

Speaking only for myself, the more I love someone, the more I want to have sex with them, and I'm not ashamed of that (in fact I think its natural). Anyway, hold on to those romantic ideals, you'll need them later.

So of course, you know more then me because you are married. Save your advice, you are the last person I will be taking it from. Thanks anyway.

No, I don't know more than you because I'm married...I just know more about marriage than you because I'm married.

And you think your ideas/experiences of marriage extend to all marriages?

If you want to get married and be unhappy. Then claim they changed. Have at it buddy. I guarantee the problem extends far beyond what you are willing to accept or acknowledge for that matter.

Lesson: Grow up before you get married. Or procreate for that matter.

/end thread

 

[HardcoreRobot]

it sounds like you have a lot of hate, and no real problems

 

[Conky]

I haven't looked thru the responses but your username speaks volumes... you have a lot of hate in you... at some point in your life you will have to address this... hopefully before you distance yourself from loved ones. Good luck.

 

[DAGTA]

Well, this thread is full of femanized men.

So, let's get this straight....

In the USA the woman gets:
the wedding day she wants
the overpriced rock on her finger she wants
the house she wants
the kid she wants
and doesn't have to work a job

while the man gets:
to pay for all of the above by busting his ass 8 to 12 hours a day
a messy house to come home to
his 'turn' to watch the kid in the evening because she did it all day (so then why isn't it her turn to work 8 to 12 hours at a job at night?)
a wife that doesn't want to be intimate with him
nagging.


Welcome to modern day marriage and the reason the number of men willing to get married has been declining for over a decade in the USA.

www.nomarriage.com

Best wishes to you. I hope you can make things work better... but I think you have an uphill battle on that.

 

[Nocturnal]

It really seems that the only thing keeping you two together is the sex every so often. That's what I got from reading your post. You guys don't have a relationship based on just being togther and enjoying each other's companionship I guess. My wife and I are like that, even if we don't have sex everyday, we enjoy talking about our day, ranting about our work place horrors and various other things. I like to make her laugh, I enjoy making playful trouble to her as well. We've been together for seven years now and we've been married for less than six months.

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

have you tried to spice up your sex life, or is it all about you getting your rocks off?

She doesn't want me touching her AT ALL. She says she has to "get used to the idea". Well ... it's been a year of her stall tactic BS.

I WANT HER TO HAVE AN ORGASM. It's not about me at all. She is the one that could care less and it's frustrating as hell.

Clearly you need counseling, because it's pretty obvious that the two of you no longer commuicate, if you ever did. How long has she not wanted sex? Was it just after your kid was born or has it been that way for a while, and you just overlooked it? When was the last time she had more than a day off from the kid?
Hey, you get vacation from your job, maybe she needs a break too. It sounds like your job is just 8-9 hours a day, but hers is at least double that, and I bet you get 1 day off from yours at minium.

Your biggest problem though is that you are steadfast against the one thing that would get you pointed back in the right direction, and thats counseling. It's clear to me that you have no clue on how to talk to your wife. You have no clue on what a week for her is like.
I'm sure you have had plenty of weekends with just you and the kid, right?:roll: You claim it's not all about you at all, but I beg to differ. You want her to change, but obviously you don't think you have to. Surely you must see that's wrong, because your way aint working. You need help, my friend. Seek it, or seek divorce, it's your choice.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: Brazen
Every wife sucks. Deal with it. I find yelling at mine, mixed in with some tongue-down-below action later, does wonders.

Remember the original post. THE SEX SUCKS. We have discussed this. She hates sex even though she won't admit it.

Maybe your a lousy lay or you penis is too small!

 

[compuwiz1]

Could you maybe imagine that a 16 month old kid is alot of work?

Maybe she is just spent. We have a 17 month old grandson. When he is here, it is all my wife can do, keeping up with him and his antics. That little devil can absolutely trash the house in about 15 minutes. When she has him over for a full day, she has zero left to anything with.

Just trying to see the other side. Women, especially those who are mothers or grandmothers, work hard...very hard!

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Could you maybe imagine that a 16 month old kid is alot of work?

Maybe she is just spent. We have a 17 month old grandson. When he is here, it is all my wife can do, keeping up with him and his antics. That little devil can absolutely trash the house in about 15 minutes. When she has him over for a full day, she has zero left to anything with.

Just trying to see the other side. Women, especially those who are mothers or grandmothers, work hard...very hard!

Children suck, just look at all the little assholes in this forum!

 

[compuwiz1]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: compuwiz1
Could you maybe imagine that a 16 month old kid is alot of work?

Maybe she is just spent. We have a 17 month old grandson. When he is here, it is all my wife can do, keeping up with him and his antics. That little devil can absolutely trash the house in about 15 minutes. When she has him over for a full day, she has zero left to anything with.

Just trying to see the other side. Women, especially those who are mothers or grandmothers, work hard...very hard!

Children suck, just look at all the little assholes in this forum!

No arguement about that!:thumbsup:

 

[Koing]

Babies/ children aren't that bad to look after. Discipline them properly.

When I was 11 my youngest bro was born. He was a tear away at times but he was disciplined. I guess my parents have had experience with bringing up two other kids so the 3rd was easier? Well I'll see myself one day

A lot of mothers get post natal depression and feel just plain crap/ suicidel post birth. I'm not a mother so I can't say what that feels like but a lot of women get it bad.

Koing

 

[Taggart]

Wow, this thread is GREAT...

 

[BigRigDriver]

Been in your shoes Bro. Get out now & enjoy life as best as you can. You will have to pay thru the nose for child support & alimony.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: BigRigDriver
Been in your shoes Bro. Get out now & enjoy life as best as you can. You will have to pay thru the nose for child support & alimony.

Better yet beome a Truck Driver. Your on the road most of the time, high on meth and you get your pick of hookers at truck stops!

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: BigRigDriver
Been in your shoes Bro. Get out now & enjoy life as best as you can. You will have to pay thru the nose for child support & alimony.

Better yet beome a Truck Driver. Your on the road most of the time, high on meth and you get your pick of hookers at truck stops!

WHERE do I sign up

:Q