RANT: What would you do.

[rasczak]

try ten before getting married.

seriously though, hatemywork, first thing you should really think about is, if this marriage is at all salvageable. if you think so in the least bit, go get some counseling for yourself. start with you first and work your way up to the both of you. and be honest with her that she's not helping things by beating around the bush with the sex issue. i'm sad for you that you are going through this, and I sincerely hope taht you can find a mangeable way to work this out, but in the end if the marriage isn't working, it's best to end it before it turns into another war of the roses.

good luck

joe

 

[ultimatebob]

Let this be a lesson to you kids.... Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Pacfanweb

Originally posted by: RagingBITCH
Seeing as how the OP is 30 but acts like he's 15, no wonder he's in this situation.

That's what I was thinking...he's getting pissed off by junior high stuff.

lol was just thinking the same thing.

 

[StinkyPinky]

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
EDIT: Changed this to rant. I don't even care to talk about it. I am fed up pretty much.



Well .... we are 30 and 26. I'm 30. We have sex probably 6 times a month. WAY bleow average. And the sex sucks. She could care to discuss "spicing things up"

I have a 16 month old kid. he is awesome.

I think about divorce, probably 2-3 times a week.

I am fed up and am at the point where I'd rather be at work than at home.

My wife just knows how to piss me off sometimes, even though she doesn't always intend it.

To clarify. my wife is a stay at home mom. I bust my ass and the place is a damned pig sty among other BS errands she claims she needs to do when I am home. Tonight ... Friday night. She wanted to go fvcking grocery shopping. I can not stand it when she attempts sh!t like this. She has all day to shop and when I get home ... she decides she thinks it's time to go shopping. And yes, I have told her that all of this BS pisses me off.

Thoughts ...

Heh, my wife does that grocery thing too. I work all day, she stays home all day...but when i get home it's the old "We need to get some groceries". Wtf? Why not do that during the day?? And we dont have a kid either. (she doesnt work coz she's waiting for work visa)

But that's probably the only thing that pisses me off sometimes. My wife is great.

 

[Journer]

call shalom in the home!!! i want to watch you on tv...lol

if that doesnt work watch american beauty then fallow his exact course

 

[Journer]

Originally posted by: shadow9d9

Originally posted by: Pacfanweb

Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004

Originally posted by: EatSpam
She's burnt out from dealing with a toddler all day. She gets a break when you are home.

I work 8 hours a day.
I drive 1 hours a day to/from work

I cut the grass
I shovel snow off our driveway.
I built the damned deck.
I landscap.
I remodeled the ****** bathroom.
I added a god damned bathroom in the basement (cutting holes in cement)
All I do is bust my ass for her.
She has to make sure the kid doesn't trip. Ohh boyyy.

I have as much right to complain about being tired as she does.

And I've watched the kid. It's not that hard.

From the posting you've done here, I'm confident in saying that YOU are about 90% of the problem.
So quit bitching about it here and go get some counseling. It's pretty obvious that you certainly aren't smart enough to figure this out on your own.

You must be one hell of a psychologist to make such a high percentage diagnosis(90%) over the internet in a forum... you should really work for the government or something and put those skills to work!

lmfao!

 

[LittleNemoNES]

IHateMyJob2004! So this is where you vent! Just wait till you get home! I'll give you what's coming to you! Divorce? U can have it --and take da kid wiff you!

 

[imported_surferdude]

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
You have to find a way to work things out, for the kid's sake.

BS!!!!!!

i stayed 2 years for the kids,was ready to commit murder.

the KIDS will pick up on the tension.

get a divorce and fight for the kid.

i was a single dad with 3 boys for 8 years and just remarried.

only thing about new wife is she wants it ALL the time

 

[stinkz]

Here's an idea: try practicing contentment, instead of dwelling on the faults of your wife. You made a commitment, do the right thing and keep your word, for everyone's sake.

 

[imported_ceefka]

Originally posted by: kmrivers
Why did you get married in the first place? Why is sex the only thing that matters? If you bugs you that much got to a sex therapist.

You are saying this is not an ideal situation, "its fvcking life". Then deal with it you pussy. You knocked her up, you married her and you have to work. Boo fvcking hoo.

If it is that bad then fix it. Get off the damn internet and have a talk. Not about sex. Get some counseling.

If you don't want to do that, then get a divorce. Either way get off your ass and do something. Posting your pathetic rant about how much your life sucks even though you are the dipshit that made it that way is not going to get you anywhere.

By the way.. marriage doesnt suck. You suck at marriage because you are too considered with your dick. Jump of a cliff and die.

Dead on! These problems don't revolve around sex. Your sex-life indicates the condition of your relation.

You do a lot of work but it just doesn't seem to be what she needs from you. A happy mom makes a happy home. She's not happy. I do hope you can make it work.

 

[newParadigm]

Originally posted by: bonkers325
sounds like your wife needs time away from the kid. if you can afford it, try a daycare center and find your wife a job. taking care of a kid all day is harder than it seems.

OMG!!!

Finally a responsible enough family that was at least ONE parent that takes care of their own child, and the advice you give him is to send the kid to daycare?

Children with limited parental contact is why we have incidents like columbine...(not sayin its the ONLY cause...but it certainly doesn't help).

 

[sandmanwake]

Staying together "for the kids" is the worse thing you can do to your children if you have an unhappy marriage.

 

[Patrick Wolf]

Wow, some of you, especially the OP, are major ******-ups. Unless you can find the best solution to your problem, just kill yourself and save the world the trouble of dealing with your stupidity.

 

[Reckoner]

Wahhhhh I only have sex 6 times in a month! That's around 6 more times than the average person on this board. Stop your bitching and be a man, instead of whining like a little school girl.

 

[greys2k]

hahhahaha 0wN3d

 

[Patrick Wolf]

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