Rape victim is coveted status - George Wills

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nehalem256

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They're responsible for the students. That's why they have security personnel. They need rules for the order, safety and welfare of the campus. They need criteria for evaluating when rules are broken, and penalties, independent of actual law enforcement. If they suspend students for underage drinking then why not rape?

Rape is a serious crime that should be handled by law enforcement. If a student reports a rape it should be handed over to the proper authorities who can make a determination if one occurred

If someone gets shot should the school be responsible for determining guilt?
 

Cozarkian

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I'm pretty sure the point of contention is that people are arguing that laying there and doing nothing equals consent. That's insane.

That is pretty insane. If a guy entered the room of some girl, randomly started undressing her and had sex with her, and she laid there and did nothing, on those facts alone, it would be insane to call that anything but rape.

Of course, that isn't what happened here. What happened here is that a girl hooked up with a guy for 3 months, allowed him into her room, allowed him to lie down on her bed, changed into pajamas in front of him and crawled into bed with him, made a single statement about not wanting to have sex with him, and then proceeded to let him have sex with her.

Consent doesn't require that she wants to have sex, it requires that she is willing to have sex. Under the above facts alone, it seems to me like she manifested a willingness to have sex.
 

Veliko

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Of course, that isn't what happened here. What happened here is that a girl hooked up with a guy for 3 months, allowed him into her room, allowed him to lie down on her bed, changed into pajamas in front of him and crawled into bed with him, made a single statement about not wanting to have sex with him, and then proceeded to let him have sex with her.

None of these details - other than the one about her telling him she didn't want to have sex - are actually relevant.
 

justoh

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Rape is a serious crime that should be handled by law enforcement. If a student reports a rape it should be handed over to the proper authorities who can make a determination if one occurred

If someone gets shot should the school be responsible for determining guilt?

They're not responsible for making final determination about whether students broke any state laws.

They're responsible for determining whether any campus rules or regs were broken.

They will obviously also turn them into the authorities if it's something violative of both, such as shooting someone or rape.

Since rape is hard to prosecute, the feds are pressuring the colleges to adopt lower standards for evaluating whether sexual misconduct was present, according to campus rules, not state law. They think if they can't get legal justice at least they can eliminate a potential threat. Also, deterrence.
 
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Cozarkian

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the law says its a man's responsibility to get verbal consent for any sexual interaction.

It does? If a girl walks up and kisses me and starts putting her hands inside my clothes, I have to make her verbally state her consent before I can engage in any sexual interaction?

Is it sexual assault to lean in to kiss a girl on a first date without first asking for permission? What about running a hand up her thigh or along her breasts?

I'm pretty sure the law only requires consent, which can be implied from things like an ongoing relationship, climbing into bed with someone, and even tiny actions like rolling onto one's back and/or spreading one's legs slightly while kind of just lying there.
 

nehalem256

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They're not responsible for making final determination about whether students broke any state laws.

They're responsible for determining whether any campus rules or regs were broken.

They will obviously also turn them into the authorities if it's something violative of both, such as shooting someone or rape.

Since rape is hard to prosecute, the feds are pressuring the colleges to adopt lower standards for evaluating whether sexual misconduct was present, according to campus rules, not state law. They think if they can't get legal justice at least they can eliminate a potential threat.

The point is to exercise power over men. See the post 2 pages back

The difficulty of defining incapacitation and consent was underscored last week when Dean Wasilolek took the stand. Rachel B. Hitch, a Raleigh attorney representing McLeod, asked Wasiolek what would happen if two students got drunk to the point of incapacity, and then had sex.
"They have raped each other and are subject to explusion?" Hitch asked.
"Assuming it is a male and female, it is the responsibility in the case of the male to gain consent before proceeding with sex," said Wasiolek.
http://forums.anandtech.com/showpost.php?p=36458772&postcount=598
 

nehalem256

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It does? If a girl walks up and kisses me and starts putting her hands inside my clothes, I have to make her verbally state her consent before I can engage in any sexual interaction?

Is it sexual assault to lean in to kiss a girl on a first date without first asking for permission? What about running a hand up her thigh or along her breasts?

I'm pretty sure the law only requires consent, which can be implied from things like an ongoing relationship, climbing into bed with someone, and even tiny actions like rolling onto one's back and/or spreading one's legs slightly while kind of just lying there.

Well considering a woman claimed she was raped when she was caught on video shoving his face into her crotch... maybe?
 

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It does? If a girl walks up and kisses me and starts putting her hands inside my clothes, I have to make her verbally state her consent before I can engage in any sexual interaction?

Is it sexual assault to lean in to kiss a girl on a first date without first asking for permission? What about running a hand up her thigh or along her breasts?

I'm pretty sure the law only requires consent, which can be implied from things like an ongoing relationship, climbing into bed with someone, and even tiny actions like rolling onto one's back and/or spreading one's legs slightly while kind of just lying there.

See this post: http://forums.anandtech.com/showpost.php?p=36458772&postcount=598

I don't live in the US and IANAL but based on the consensus here, pretty much the girl can do whatever she wants.

I think your only saving grace is marriage and we all know sex stops them, so its a moot point as you wouldn't engage in the activity any way.

I'd definitely want verbal consent from a woman on a date if I do anything you describe. Thats just reckless, this is not the 1950s any more and you are just asking for a world of hurt. Its a man's responsibility to ask. Apparently women lose agency in the present of a penis and can't take responsibility for themselves. Unless your Brad Pitt I'd doubt women lose all control in your presence.

Heck she can be hot and heavy with you, but if you want to do anything sexual with her you need her verbal consent. Lest she regrets it later and gets you charged for rape or sexual assault.

I am led to believe the letter of the law tends to favor women which is done to address any power imbalance men have over women.

Simply put, a woman can do what ever the hell she wants to you and she doesn't need to get your verbal consent. If you want to do anything sexual with her regardless of what she is doing to you, you need her verbal consent before you can proceed.

It sounds unfair, though imagine if this was reality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4UWxlVvT1A.

Things like this might of been widespread in the (distant) past so women needed laws to protect them.
 
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Jaskalas

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Pengoau, verbal consent can not be proven in a court of law. So even if you go to such lengths, your efforts will not count for anything.
 

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What defence does a man have? Just hope she doesn't regret it after the fact and talk to the cops?
 
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shira

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Pengoau, verbal consent can not be proven in a court of law. So even if you go to such lengths, your efforts will not count for anything.
In a court of law, the burden of proof in cases likes these is on the prosecution to prove that there was no consent.

But most of these cases aren't going to court. They're the product of new anti-sexual-assault policies by universities, and are adjudicated by the schools themselves, with a lower standard of evidence than for criminal proceedings.
 

Cozarkian

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are adjudicated by the schools themselves, with a lower standard of evidence than for criminal proceedings.

... and with relaxed rules of evidence and procedure compared to civil proceedings. They are more along the lines of binding arbitrations where the arbiter is selected by one side rather than through a neutral process.
 

momeNt

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Let's also not judge people too hastily. Let's also not use verbs instead of possessive pronouns where appropriate.

Huh? I used the word correctly.

You ignore the substance of my post in order to point out, incorrectly, a grammatical error?

The fact of the matter is the Pennsylvania adores rape, specifically child rape, but also adult rape.
 

justoh

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Let's not forget that Pennsylvania reveres it's famed child rapist Jerry Sandusky and famed child rape facilitator and who knows, maybe a rapist and molester in his own right, Joe Paterno.

So we should take this rape law with a grain of salt, and not vindicate the man's actions in the Swarthmore incident too hastily.

Huh? I used the word correctly.

You ignore the substance of my post in order to point out, incorrectly, a grammatical error?

The fact of the matter is the Pennsylvania adores rape, specifically child rape, but also adult rape.

Or did you?
 

nehalem256

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What planet are you living on anyways ?

The one where this thread happened. Where multiple liberals claimed a woman would rather be viciously raped than *gasp* say no a second time.

Doesn't seem like a very positive opinion of women to me.
 

jackstar7

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The one where this thread happened. Where multiple liberals claimed a woman would rather be viciously raped than *gasp* say no a second time.

Doesn't seem like a very positive opinion of women to me.

You haven't gone and fucked yourself, but your really ought to get on with it.

You've trolled these boards long enough.
 

nehalem256

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You haven't gone and fucked yourself, but your really ought to get on with it.

You've trolled these boards long enough.

Pointing out the logical result of what you say isn't "trolling".

If you are saying that women would rather be viciously raped than *gasp* say no a second time to make their intent clear; after engaging in behavior that implies openness to sex. They you are in fact say that women are massive retards.

Of course you have no argument against the obvious observation so you have to resort to telling me to "fuck off" and calling me a troll.
 

fskimospy

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The one where this thread happened. Where multiple liberals claimed a woman would rather be viciously raped than *gasp* say no a second time.

Doesn't seem like a very positive opinion of women to me.

Isn't the far more likely answer that liberals think women are just fine and instead we think that you're the retarded one?

It's your mental illness and inability to grasp basic logic that leads you to these retarded conclusions.
 

nehalem256

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Isn't the far more likely answer that liberals think women are just fine and instead we think that you're the retarded one?

It's your mental illness and inability to grasp basic logic that leads you to these retarded conclusions.

Basic logic like thinking that saying no a *gasp* second time is better than being viciously "raped"?
 

jackstar7

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Pointing out the logical result of what you say isn't "trolling".

If you are saying that women would rather be viciously raped than *gasp* say no a second time to make their intent clear; after engaging in behavior that implies openness to sex. They you are in fact say that women are massive retards.

Of course you have no argument against the obvious observation so you have to resort to telling me to "fuck off" and calling me a troll.

You're terrible at drawing conclusions. The fact that you call your distortions "obvious" reveals that you are either trolling and/or you need to go fuck yourself. Not off. Yourself.

Also, take a little time with your next troll. Read it over before you post.
 

fleshconsumed

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How about we create an anonymous poll whether this was rape or not? I'm curious which way the public opinion sways.
 
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