But our society doesn't, therefore people need to change.
Well, society isn't raising my kids. So they can take what they deem "acceptable" and shove it.
Sure, I believe in corporal punishment because I think it works and is a strong deterrent. The point of "whippings" isn't to do harm, but to prevent further bad behavior, and that does depend on the child.
So I agree that going overboard is clearly unacceptable...I don't need society to tell me that.