I didn't at all wish bodily harm on you, I'm condensing what you are saying. You can wish for a better world while protecting yourself from the current world.
I really enjoy your posts, I definitely don't want any harm to come to you, I'd like you to wear a helmet though
BTW: I went and watched a lot of bike crash videos last night on YouTube. Almost all of them a helmet would've helped. Most of the accidents with cars weren't high speed. Also lots of accidents without cars.
Where did I say I didn't wear a helmet? I mostly did (98% of the time) _when I cycled_. I just totally oppose making them legally-required, and really don't much care for their being promoted endlessly and cyclists being morally-blackmailed over wearing them, because it's a distraction from addressing the real cause of the problem.
I'm just against imposing laws or even just endless propaganda and moral pressure in the form of helmet-promotion and nagging. because it all just serves to make cycling (or walking) more inconvenient, and be perceived as more dangerous, and so just ends up encouraging more people to drive more instead (thus increasing death and injury and ill-health rates overall). It also probably encourages more aggressive behaviour by drivers, becuase it tells them that if a cyclist is injured it's probably the victim's fault.
It would be better to put effort into doing the politically-harder, but more useful, thing and fighting for (much) better road design, (much) higher fuel taxes, less lethal oversized vehicles, and more forceful policing of motorist behaviour so as to encourage more active travel.
When you do that, helmets are barely needed (as seen in the Netherlands - almost the only country that's actually done the right thing).
As it happens I've avoided the risk of hitting a pothole or being run down by a truck by giving up cycling. As, since suffering health problems due to a congenital condition, I haven't felt well enough to cope with the burden of 'keeping safe' in an environment that is designed to make doing that as difficult and stressful as possible.
"Not cycling" is the "solution" most people - particularly the disabled or elderly - end up going with, rather than coping with all the burdens of "keeping safe" that the promoters of PPE like to impose on them. Which is why we have such an unhealthy, physically-inactive, population.