relationship that ended before it starts[updated]

[littlegohan]

Well it all started like this. A girl was asking me for help on a project, I gladly gave her help. Then I find myself attarcted to her, and wishing that she will be my girlfriend. (happend 6 days ago) Well today I see her(she sits infront of me in a class) and I dont have much intreset in her anymore. anybody has similar experience?
(I am 17 btw)

 

[Ionizer86]

Well, sometimes you become physically attracted to somebody, but it goes away really quickly. That's normal; it means you don't really like her, it's simply an infatuation that lasts <1 week. Nothing unique.

 

[ILikeSprite]

what if it lasts a month?

 

[Drew1082]

well little dood.....

if you dont have interest in her anymore then i think the safe route would be to trust yerself........ its not like aliens abducted you and are now only making you THINK you aren't attracted to her..... if you want to give it a shot though regardless of you're change of heart i guess it couldn't hurt....

but personally i think the initial attraction is just man's way of supporting the art of chasing tail trust me, every good looking girl could be your next gf

 

[littlegohan]

<< well little dood.....


but personally i think the initial attraction is just man's way of supporting the art of chasing tail trust me, every good looking girl could be your next gf >>


I must agree with you, i think is has to do with some hormonal inbalances (release of testerone)

anyways I think all man are attarcted to good looking girls right? (unless they are homosexual)

The problem of asking her out is that i dont want be embarassed for the rest of the year cus I have her in my class every other day

 

[ShadowHunter]

Dont even bother man. It's just a little one week crush. There's plenty of women man, dont fret over one that you dont know if you like her or not.

 

[viper007]

Umm..an interesting behaviour...Maybe u felt sorta special that she wanted u to help her with something and now that's gone, your feeling is gone. However its all part of hormones etc, u will probably like another girl in 3 days time..

 

[littlegohan]

<< Umm..an interesting behaviour...Maybe u felt sorta special that she wanted u to help her with something and now that's gone, your feeling is gone. However its all part of hormones etc, u will probably like another girl in 3 days time.. >>



true ture , I guess I fel special when I helped her.

3 months ago I like this girl that sat beside be. but she pissed me off becuase she was always at something (not me) is really irratating to have to sit with a grumpy person.

When did you guys grow out of this behavior? (or is it just part of our male instinct)

 

[littlegohan]

today, i was wallking home from school. On the way home, i saw her with this guy walking toward the school.
what suprised me is that she actually skip her last block,. (there are also indication that was at the guy's house during the last block)
anyways i was just suprised, not jealous or envy
thus this proves that i am totally out of the infatuation, woohoo

however, i must say i am quite shock to see her with this guy, i mean i never though that she would actually goto that person's house(my guess)
i didnt know she was so "opened"

 

[Ameesh]

<< today, i was wallking home from school. On the way home, i saw her with this guy walking toward the school.
what suprised me is that she actually skip her last block,. (there are also indication that was at the guy's house during the last block)
anyways i was just suprised, not jealous or envy
thus this proves that i am totally out of the infatuation, woohoo

however, i must say i am quite shock to see her with this guy, i mean i never though that she would actually goto that person's house(my guess)
i didnt know she was so "opened" >>



r u saying shes easy?

 

[littlegohan]

not really

"i didnt thinik she was such a sl*t""
she looks quite tradtional to me

 

[Presence]

....or you could be gay.... :Q