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Originally posted by: psydancerqt
i get along great with my dad. he's ready and willing to do anything for me! he just wants me to be happy in life.
Same here.
Originally posted by: psydancerqt
i get along great with my dad. he's ready and willing to do anything for me! he just wants me to be happy in life.
Originally posted by: ATLien247
My father was never really there growing up. I mean, he was there physically, but it seemed to me that he always had something better to do than to spend time with his family. Honestly, I don't really know the man all that well. And what I do know of him rubs me the wrong way. He only lives about 5 miles away, but I haven't talked to him in at least a year. If he had anything going for him it was that he was there financially, even if he had to work two jobs.
Unfortunately, I sometimes find myself tending to behave like him towards my own children. It scares me to death, because I want to be a great father, like the one I never had.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
This thread is depressing me...
Son,life isn't like it is portrayed on holiday tv commercials for the vast majority of people.
The thing to celebrate is how many folks manage to rise above less than optium family backgrouds and go on to make decent lives for themselves.
I have a husband and a son who love me very much, grown daughters and grandkids,even a friend or two and co-workers who value me..oh and our cat
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
This thread is depressing me...
Son,life isn't like it is portrayed on holiday tv commercials for the vast majority of people.
The thing to celebrate is how many folks manage to rise above less than optium family backgrouds and go on to make decent lives for themselves.
I have a husband and a son who love me very much, grown daughters and grandkids,even a friend or two and co-workers who value me..oh and our cat
Oh believe me, I know that. I said that because this thread made me reflect on my relationship with my Father.
I have a loving wife and a son of my own and we have a good life despite the messed up childhood I endured. I could tell you some stories about my Mom's second husband but there's no need to go into that nutball's impact on my childhood. Probably make an interesting made for TV movie though. He was a drunk and prone to suicidal tendancies and violence...
Great, now I'm depressed again...:roll:
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I was asking a friend about his mom and dad yesterday, and I asked him to tell me one good thing about his father. His reply was that there was only one good thing about him. That he will be dead one day. He was being very serious.
Anyone else have this type of hateful view on their dad?
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
This thread is depressing me...
Son,life isn't like it is portrayed on holiday tv commercials for the vast majority of people.
The thing to celebrate is how many folks manage to rise above less than optium family backgrouds and go on to make decent lives for themselves.
I have a husband and a son who love me very much, grown daughters and grandkids,even a friend or two and co-workers who value me..oh and our cat
Oh believe me, I know that. I said that because this thread made me reflect on my relationship with my Father.
I have a loving wife and a son of my own and we have a good life despite the messed up childhood I endured. I could tell you some stories about my Mom's second husband but there's no need to go into that nutball's impact on my childhood. Probably make an interesting made for TV movie though. He was a drunk and prone to suicidal tendancies and violence...
Great, now I'm depressed again...:roll:
I was fortunate enough to have a convo or 2 with my mother is which she was able to rise above her own turmoil long enough to share a bit about her childhood.The woman was beaten within an inch of her life and she and her 3 sisters were placed in foster care.Now, my grandfather was a professional man..to have 3 kids taken out of the home of a medical professional in NYC in the 1940's? her life had to have been hell on earth.
She did the best she could as a parent with what she had availble to her in terms of her emotional resources.I don't hate her anymore, I can even think up a good memory or two but that doesn't translate into a desire for closeness,just a desire to forgive and move forward.
I had many,many failings as a parent but I did let my own kids know that without a doubt they were the smartest,kindest,funnierst,best looking children on the planet and that if there was fault it was mine.
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I was asking a friend about his mom and dad yesterday, and I asked him to tell me one good thing about his father. His reply was that there was only one good thing about him. That he will be dead one day. He was being very serious.
Anyone else have this type of hateful view on their dad?
I dont have a good relationship with my father. In fact, every bad characteristic about myself Id say I got from him. In short, he ruined our family with his controlling, stubborn, and unreasonable personality. He doesnt know a thing about me, and although he always supported the family financially, he never really grasped the concept of family; to this day, Im embarressed to say that other that meeting them a few times briefly, I know none of my outside family (cousins, grandparents, uncles, neices, nephews, etc).
The only good thing I got from my father was his strong will.
Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
me and my dad don't agree on a lot of things, but he's always there to give me solid advice.
my dad's a cool guy. he's my fav. sports buddy.
and please...no jokes... u know who u are