Mixolydian
Lifer
that is one good thing about living near your parents - you can dump the kid off for a week or so to go on a trip.
Now that's smart planning!
that is one good thing about living near your parents - you can dump the kid off for a week or so to go on a trip.
Vdub said "don't plan on taking trips for the next 5-7 years". Just responding to that.
Vdub said "don't plan on taking trips for the next 5-7 years". Just responding to that.
Wouldn't mind something like relaxing in a cabin near a lake, or a quiet beach somewhere. Any ideas? We don't want to be too far away from civilization, but as long as there is a town nearby were comfortable with it.
does not compute
<--- father to 23 mo/old
when my wife and i have a kid we don't plan to take the kid with us on vacation until he/she is like 4-5 years old, unless it is within driving distance. but if it's out of the country or requires a flight, they aren't going to come. they won't remember it anyways and it seems like it would be a hassle to take a kid that young on a flight and traveling in general. that is one good thing about living near your parents - you can dump the kid off for a week or so to go on a trip.
The only vacation that is relaxing, while having a baby, is to have someone else watch the baby and go away.
when my wife and i have a kid we don't plan to take the kid with us on vacation until he/she is like 4-5 years old, unless it is within driving distance. but if it's out of the country or requires a flight, they aren't going to come. they won't remember it anyways and it seems like it would be a hassle to take a kid that young on a flight and traveling in general. that is one good thing about living near your parents - you can dump the kid off for a week or so to go on a trip.
The only vacation that is relaxing, while having a baby, is to have someone else watch the baby and go away.
As a father of two, THIS IS THE CORRECT ADVICE.
I think the "two" is the operative word. Couple posters above only had one. One kid is cool you can focus entirely on them and do the parent hand off thing to keep one fresh.
Two kids changes things and skews the dynamic. We rarely traveled anywhere without our first for the first 4 years. Add in a second and Mommy & Daddy need some recovery time!