How any self-proclaimed Republican lives with themselves is beyond me. I wonder what it's like to be proud of the plain fact that you are one of the shittiest humans to have ever lived, and exist like that on a daily basis?
Did the reason they are like this not apply to you, the reason they are like that would be obvious. We were all exposed to put downs, physical and mental abuse that implied that we are defective in various ways, ugly, stupid, evil, useless, selfish, socially unexceptable, etc.
What is the fallout from this? We are.
We all struggle for success, for meaning, for love, for social standing, for a sense of self worth and respect as a result of the pain we were made to feel. We succeed or we sink, driven by these ego needs.
We all find coping mechanisms in all the avenues our lives can take. But it is money we most value as a symbol of self worth.
And the worse we were made to feel the greater our loss of empathy for ourselves as worthwhile people and the greater the hate we feel.
That hatred of others that is the result of the hatred we were dealt out as children and is express across a spectrum. We can wind up hating the haters for what they have done to us, one kind of contempt, or we can join the haters to redirect that hatred at those not fully broken to drag them to our level.
But it is all called good, because it helps relieve our own inner pain.
So when it comes to what you see among Republicans who think misery is good for others, it is simple the ego that mirrors self hate. They have turned their self hate and misery into a source of self pride. They love their own victim status, are proud on the surface of how much they have suffered and are pleased to help you join them. They are proud, hard, tough, survivors, not like soft, effete, bleeding heart liberals. They are Stockholm survivors happy to spread new misery to make more of the same. Misery loves company.
And they seek your contempt to feel alive and effective to which the rest of us like fools oblige.