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DAPUNISHER

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Don't talk about the gun, even though that's what was used to commit the crime. If people talk about guns, and the merits of owning them, I might lose my masculinity tool replacement gadget. That would make me cry and I don't like crying.

Rather, let's talk about the chef; THE CHEF. What was he doing? Huh? Anyone wanna tell me?

And the knife! Those things are sharp, unlike guns which are blunt and safe and don't kill people. Only people kill people, often times with a knife which are just as dangerous as guns except when they're not.

THIS IS A MENTAL HEALTH ISSUE.
Speaking of mental health issues....
 

SlowSpyder

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Like..I find it odd that lately I've been agreeing with some of what SS is saying, but is it just me or is this board lately becoming more far radical left? I mean, it's like no one has any understanding of personal accountability and wants to blame everyone everything else but the person for their own issues. I'm not even remotely conservative and even I understand that guns aren't the root of any of these problems.


The left in general is becoming more radical, this board is very leftist in general. I have no illusion that ease of access to guns can contribute to crime and cause higher level of lethality in violent crimes. But, I feel the left has become infatuated with the method and overly magnifies gun violence for the sake of pushing their narrative. If this woman poisoned, stabbed, or bludgeoned with a hammer her husband and he died this wouldn't be a thread.
 

fskimospy

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Like..I find it odd that lately I've been agreeing with some of what SS is saying, but is it just me or is this board lately becoming more far radical left? I mean, it's like no one has any understanding of personal accountability and wants to blame everyone everything else but the person for their own issues. I'm not even remotely conservative and even I understand that guns aren't the root of any of these problems.

Nobody thinks that guns are the root of violence, that's a straw man.

What people DO think, and what the empirical evidence clearly shows, is that greater prevalence of guns makes violence worse and that owning a gun makes you less safe.
 
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The left in general is becoming more radical, this board is very leftist in general. I have no illusion that ease of access to guns can contribute to crime and cause higher level of lethality in violent crimes. But, I feel the left has become infatuated with the method and overly magnifies gun violence for the sake of pushing their narrative. If this woman poisoned, stabbed, or bludgeoned with a hammer her husband and he died this wouldn't be a thread.

I dunno..we humans seem to like...
 

GoodRevrnd

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Is owning a gun making you statistically less safe even a worthwhile argument? I expect most people accept that risk, much like we accept the risk of getting in cars, owning a pool, etc. etc. Responsible owners take steps to mitigate risk, but there's still people who don't buckle up or text and drive.
 

fskimospy

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Is owning a gun making you statistically less safe even a worthwhile argument? I expect most people accept that risk, much like we accept the risk of getting in cars, owning a pool, etc. etc. Responsible owners take steps to mitigate risk, but there's still people who don't buckle up or text and drive.

The number one reason people cite as a justification for their firearm purchase is self protection so if people are acting rationally the fact that owning a gun makes you less safe should be an awfully compelling reason not to purchase one, no?

We accept the risks from cars because they have significant utility. Guns really don't, outside of recreational activities and frankly that's not a very compelling argument to me. As I said, they actually provide NEGATIVE value for their most commonly cited purpose.
 

ivwshane

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Is owning a gun making you statistically less safe even a worthwhile argument? I expect most people accept that risk, much like we accept the risk of getting in cars, owning a pool, etc. etc. Responsible owners take steps to mitigate risk, but there's still people who don't buckle up or text and drive.

What's more likely to happen; someone or family member gets hurt with their own gun or a home invasion?

I'd say both are unlikely to happen so it seems pretty irrational to own something for the specific purpose of keeping one's family safe when that very thing makes you and your family less safe.

But hey, being irrational is their problem not mine, well until it is and there in lies the problem. So if the solution isn't a total ban then what other options do we have other than ignoring it?
 

Genx87

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I’m as shocked as anyone. After all, owning a gun makes you safer, right?

Being married to an insane person makes you less safe. I think we need to ban being married to somebody insane to solve the problem.

But talk about a generation difference on display here. Who orders pr0n channels anymore? Oh, the babby boomers do. Lots of free pr0n on the internet, or so I have been told
 

fskimospy

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Being married to an insane person makes you less safe. I think we need to ban being married to somebody insane to solve the problem.

But talk about a generation difference on display here. Who orders pr0n channels anymore? Oh, the babby boomers do. Lots of free pr0n on the internet, or so I have been told

Considering insane people who are deemed dangerous can be locked away in a mental institution for life without trial this may not be the best counter-argument.
 

GoodRevrnd

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People make statistically irrational decisions all the time, but you're also trying to apply national stats to an individual's risk profile. Not everyone is Florida Man. Some people have a higher likelihood of being violent crime victims, others are reactionary fearful suburbanites. Some people properly secure firearms and spend time learning to use them, others bring them into their house without thinking of the consequences. Additionally, many states have gone so far as to restrict every other possible weapon beyond your kitchen knife. So we're essentially discussing restricting an individual's right to defend himself because at the statistically broadest level his firearm is more likely to harm him. At the end of the day it's a push and pull between principles and pragmatism, and I'm not saying we're anywhere close to the right balance, but I think it's a mistake to start determining individual rights this way.
 
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People make statistically irrational decisions all the time, but you're also trying to apply national stats to an individual's risk profile. Not everyone is Florida Man. Some people have a higher likelihood of being violent crime victims, others are reactionary fearful suburbanites. Some people properly secure firearms and spend time learning to use them, others bring them into their house without thinking of the consequences. Additionally, many states have gone so far as to restrict every other possible weapon beyond your kitchen knife. So we're essentially discussing restricting an individual's right to defend himself because at the statistically broadest level his firearm is more likely to harm him. At the end of the day it's a push and pull between principles and pragmatism, and I'm not saying we're anywhere close to the right balance, but I think it's a mistake to start determining individual rights this way.
Most gun owners are responsible gun owners right up until they day they aren't.
 

fskimospy

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People make statistically irrational decisions all the time, but you're also trying to apply national stats to an individual's risk profile. Not everyone is Florida Man. Some people have a higher likelihood of being violent crime victims, others are reactionary fearful suburbanites. Some people properly secure firearms and spend time learning to use them, others bring them into their house without thinking of the consequences. Additionally, many states have gone so far as to restrict every other possible weapon beyond your kitchen knife. So we're essentially discussing restricting an individual's right to defend himself because at the statistically broadest level his firearm is more likely to harm him. At the end of the day it's a push and pull between principles and pragmatism, and I'm not saying we're anywhere close to the right balance, but I think it's a mistake to start determining individual rights this way.

Right, we're talking about national stats because we're talking about national gun regulations. As for individual risk profiles, the stats are arrived at specifically by controlling for things like crime rates in their areas, etc. What the stats say is if you hold everything else that we can statistically account for completely equal, bringing a gun into your house makes you more likely to die from both homicide and suicide. So sure, you're limiting someone's right to defend themselves in a way but you're also removing the ability of say, your insane wife to kill you for watching porn.

All laws and regulations aside from simply a common sense perspective most people should not own guns for self defense. It's a foolish purchase.
 

JSt0rm

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Is owning a gun making you statistically less safe even a worthwhile argument? I expect most people accept that risk, much like we accept the risk of getting in cars, owning a pool, etc. etc. Responsible owners take steps to mitigate risk, but there's still people who don't buckle up or text and drive.

And you put others at risk around you as well. They didnt choose to accept the risk.
 

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What's more likely to happen; someone or family member gets hurt with their own gun or a home invasion?

I'd say both are unlikely to happen so it seems pretty irrational to own something for the specific purpose of keeping one's family safe when that very thing makes you and your family less safe.

But hey, being irrational is their problem not mine, well until it is and there in lies the problem. So if the solution isn't a total ban then what other options do we have other than ignoring it?
I think what gets ignored when talking about this is the quality of the risk. We talk quantity all the time. Statistically we aren't likely to have a house fire, but we buy insurance why? Because if it does happen, it could be devastating. Yeah statistically you won't have a home invasion. However if some fool does do it, the possibility of something very bad happening to you or a loved one is more than most people can stand. So some people choose to have guns. Could you be ok with your decision not to have a gun if your daughter was raped or killed by an intruder? Would those stats comfort you? "Well, I made the right decision because statistically it was very unlikely to happen. RIP baby." I don't think most people could be good with that.
 

JSt0rm

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I think what gets ignored when talking about this is the quality of the risk. We talk quantity all the time. Statistically we aren't likely to have a house fire, but we buy insurance why? Because if it does happen, it could be devastating. Yeah statistically you won't have a home invasion. However if some fool does do it, the possibility of something very bad happening to you or a loved one is more than most people can stand. So some people choose to have guns. Could you be ok with your decision not to have a gun if your daughter was raped or killed by an intruder? Would those stats comfort you? "Well, I made the right decision because statistically it was very unlikely to happen. RIP baby." I don't think most people could be good with that.

welp we are back to this dumb talking point.

U.S. Dept of Justice does cover home invasions. This report covers a 4 year period from 2003 to 2007. Data is annualized. NO deaths due to home invasions.
bjs.gov/content/pub/ascii/vdhb.txt
Highlights
*An estimated 3.7 million burglaries occurred each year on average from 2003 to 2007.
*A household member was present in roughly 1 million burglaries and became victims of violent crimes in 266,560 burglaries.
*Simple assault (15% or 155,400) was the most common form of violence when a resident was home and violence occurred.
*Robbery (7% 72,520) and rape (3% 31,080) were less likely to occur when a household member was present and violence occurred.
*Offenders were known to their victims in 65% or 2,405,000 of violent burglaries; offenders were strangers in 28%.
*Overall, 61% of offenders were unarmed when violence occurred during a burglary while a resident was present. About 12% 8,702 of all households violently burglarized while someone was home faced an offender armed with a firearm.
*Households residing in single family units and higher density structures of 10 or more units were least likely to be burglarized (8 per 1,000 households) while a household member was present.
*Serious injury accounted for 9% or 6, 527 people and minor injury accounted for 36% of injuries sustained by household members who were home and experienced violence during a completed burglary
 
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JSt0rm

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so now that we have established more people die from lightning strikes then home invasion deaths do you want to walk back your dumb talking point?
 

Bird222

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so now that we have established more people die from lightning strikes then home invasion deaths do you want to walk back your dumb talking point?
I'm not taking anything back. I guess your stats would comfort you in that unlikely event. All I was suggesting is that there are some people who couldn't live with it or at least not well. I guess you don't have insurance either. I'm back to live and let live which some can't seem to do.
 

JSt0rm

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I'm not taking anything back. I guess your stats would comfort you in that unlikely event. All I was suggesting is that there are some people who couldn't live with it or at least not well. I guess you don't have insurance either. I'm back to live and let live which some can't seem to do.

Insurance has nothing to do with this. Its just something your peabrain decided to bring up.
 

JSt0rm

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Do fires randomly start in the homes that have insurance? No? Then shut the fuck up. Sit down.
 

woolfe9998

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The number one reason people cite as a justification for their firearm purchase is self protection so if people are acting rationally the fact that owning a gun makes you less safe should be an awfully compelling reason not to purchase one, no?

We accept the risks from cars because they have significant utility. Guns really don't, outside of recreational activities and frankly that's not a very compelling argument to me. As I said, they actually provide NEGATIVE value for their most commonly cited purpose.

In an overall statistical sense, yes, that is true. But since deaths caused by gun ownership fit in to certain patterns, it's also possible to self-screen. So, for example, you might not want to have a gun in your house if a) you have young children, especially young boys, b) you have a history of depression or other mental illness, c) you have anger management issues (could be depression, see b) or d) you are in an acrimonious marriage, like the guy under discussion in this thread (no way she shot him over a porn subscription alone, pretty obvious this went way back.)

The other important aspect of this that a gun for self-protection isn't necessarily about actually stopping someone from harming you. That is the idea in the gun owner's head, but isn't the primary benefit. The benefit is actually that it may make you feel safer. There is value in just feeling safe and secure.

I think gun ownership in one's home ought to be personal choice.
 
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ivwshane

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I think what gets ignored when talking about this is the quality of the risk. We talk quantity all the time. Statistically we aren't likely to have a house fire, but we buy insurance why? Because if it does happen, it could be devastating. Yeah statistically you won't have a home invasion. However if some fool does do it, the possibility of something very bad happening to you or a loved one is more than most people can stand. So some people choose to have guns. Could you be ok with your decision not to have a gun if your daughter was raped or killed by an intruder? Would those stats comfort you? "Well, I made the right decision because statistically it was very unlikely to happen. RIP baby." I don't think most people could be good with that.

Getting home insurance doesn't make one more likely to have their house catch on fire.

If you want to have guns for illogical reasons that's fine, just don't try to lie to everyone else about it.
 

SlowSpyder

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welp we are back to this dumb talking point.

U.S. Dept of Justice does cover home invasions. This report covers a 4 year period from 2003 to 2007. Data is annualized. NO deaths due to home invasions.
bjs.gov/content/pub/ascii/vdhb.txt
Highlights
*An estimated 3.7 million burglaries occurred each year on average from 2003 to 2007.
*A household member was present in roughly 1 million burglaries and became victims of violent crimes in 266,560 burglaries.
*Simple assault (15% or 155,400) was the most common form of violence when a resident was home and violence occurred.
*Robbery (7% 72,520) and rape (3% 31,080) were less likely to occur when a household member was present and violence occurred.
*Offenders were known to their victims in 65% or 2,405,000 of violent burglaries; offenders were strangers in 28%.
*Overall, 61% of offenders were unarmed when violence occurred during a burglary while a resident was present. About 12% 8,702 of all households violently burglarized while someone was home faced an offender armed with a firearm.
*Households residing in single family units and higher density structures of 10 or more units were least likely to be burglarized (8 per 1,000 households) while a household member was present.
*Serious injury accounted for 9% or 6, 527 people and minor injury accounted for 36% of injuries sustained by household members who were home and experienced violence during a completed burglary

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cheshire,_Connecticut,_home_invasion_murders

I clearly remember the above from 2007.

Are you really taking the angle that no one is murdered in home invasions? I bet the father of that family would have loved to have a loaded gun close by.

I sure hope those murderers' vote are counted, too!
 

JSt0rm

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Wow aren't you quite hostile and disrespectful. I'm done talking to you.

oh yeah? Im hostile and disrespectful? You are perpetuating a lie about guns that will result in peoples deaths and you call me hostile? Get the fuck out of here.
 
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