nehalem256
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- Apr 13, 2012
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Two things come to mind. First, homosexuality is mainstream, out in the open. Whatever societal harm may lie in open homosexuality is already here; we're literally arguing against the aspects of a homosexual relationship that are without question beneficial to society. Homosexuals will be openly living together and/or raising children no matter whether they can legally marry because we as a society have decided this is acceptable. No matter how strenuously one may personally oppose homosexuality, opposing same sex marriage seems to me to be bizarre. It's literally an issue where losing (for conservatives) carries no negative effects beyond a sense of ickiness, and one can easily decide just to not find homosexual marriage icky. Or at the very least, one can avoid thinking about it. Homosexuals one counters will be the same people whether or not they can legally marry, and one's own marriage will be exactly the same either way. There is simply no significant societal or personal harm in gay marriage.
Actually this would be addressed in this article:
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/31/opinion/sunday/douthat-marriage-looks-different-now.html?_r=0
Frum defended what was then the consensus conservative (and consensus national) position. Redefining marriage to include same-sex couples, he argued, would explicitly sever the institutions connection to the two interrelated realities, gender difference and procreation, that it had evolved to address. In so doing, it would replace a traditional view of matrimony with a broader, thinner, more adult-centric view, which would ultimately be less likely to bind parents to children, husbands to wives.
Proponents of gay marriage can only get what they want, Frum wrote, by weakening Americans attachment to the traditional family even more than it has already been weakened, and speeding the process of social dissolution that the 1960s and 1970s began.
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Yet for an argument that has persuaded so few, the conservative view has actually had decent predictive power. As the cause of gay marriage has pressed forward, the social link between marriage and childbearing has indeed weakened faster than before. As the publics shift on the issue has accelerated, so has marriages overall decline.
In essence it is necessary to destroy the idea of marriage for SSM to even make sense.
Which goes back to what I have said repeatedly. When liberals use the word marriage they are referring to a radically different idea than traditional marriage.
So different that it is really absurd to use the same term to refer to 2 distinct ideas. The only logical reason I can see for why they use marriage to refer to their institution is:
(1) The idea of a "special" relationship holds appeal. If they were to call it something else few people would regard such a relationship as special.
(2) The want the rights that have come to be associated with marriage and think it would be harder to convince people to grant them to their non-marital relationship. And in some cases it would seem absurd such as expecting special inheritance tax treatment for your temporary live-in sex partner.