crashtestdummy
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Note: What I say below assumes a fairly strong pro-choice stance. If you view abortion as murder, then the rest of this discussion becomes moot.
He does still have something of a point. 50 years ago, many parents absolutely might have aborted a gay child if there were a genetic test for it. Had that happened, there might never have been enough gay people alive to push for the rights that they are just now starting to have.
There is a value to diversity of outcomes, even if many of those are, on the face of it, negative ones. We can't say with 100% certainty that in selecting out certain traits, we aren't denying ourselves some future appreciation for those traits.
The more important question is when is the value of that diversity completely overwhelmed by the burden it places on the parents? The big line I would draw between a gay child and a Down's child is that the latter will likely never be self-sufficient. Being gay might be a change in the parent's expectations, but that child will still be able to be a full adult that can support him/herself. As I said much earlier, I don't know what I would do in that situation, and frankly I'm glad I didn't have to, but I do think that option should be there.
As an even tougher gray area, think about things like autism or deafness. Both carry with them unique qualities, skills, and personalities, but they also place a large burden on the family and those kids tend to have worse life outcomes.
All of this relies on the assumption that when genetic testing is widespread and sufficiently advanced that we can screen for virtually anything, parents will abort anything that doesn't meet an absurdly high threshold for the "ideal" baby in their eyes. But that's a pretty insane assumption. I'm almost positive that if the vast majority of expectant mothers today were offered the opportunity to screen for "blonde hair and blue eyes" and abort the ones that didn't meet that standard, almost no one takes the offer even if it was offered for free, because the vast majority of expectant mothers don't actually care about those traits. A major medical issue like Down's syndrome is very different from preferred physical traits, and it's reductio ad absurdum to suggest otherwise. You're suggesting a slippery slope where none exists.
He does still have something of a point. 50 years ago, many parents absolutely might have aborted a gay child if there were a genetic test for it. Had that happened, there might never have been enough gay people alive to push for the rights that they are just now starting to have.
There is a value to diversity of outcomes, even if many of those are, on the face of it, negative ones. We can't say with 100% certainty that in selecting out certain traits, we aren't denying ourselves some future appreciation for those traits.
The more important question is when is the value of that diversity completely overwhelmed by the burden it places on the parents? The big line I would draw between a gay child and a Down's child is that the latter will likely never be self-sufficient. Being gay might be a change in the parent's expectations, but that child will still be able to be a full adult that can support him/herself. As I said much earlier, I don't know what I would do in that situation, and frankly I'm glad I didn't have to, but I do think that option should be there.
As an even tougher gray area, think about things like autism or deafness. Both carry with them unique qualities, skills, and personalities, but they also place a large burden on the family and those kids tend to have worse life outcomes.