Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: sixone
Is there a question in there somewhere, or was that just a rant?
I wanted to share my misery with everyone. Though, you can offer any advice!
Well, you mentioned the lease in your cliffs. Who's name is on it?
Sadly, both. I have already talked to our management company, and there is no way that I can skip on the lease without forcing him to pay my half, which he could then sue me for.
Originally posted by: iamaelephant
Originally posted by: Safeway
I stood by a table while chatting to some of my friends, and George sort of blocks me in. The tables were arranged around a wall, and the particular table I was standing at was blocked on one side by the buffet table. So when George walked up, he blocked my only exit. About 5 minutes passed by, and I wanted to go get another chocolate covered strawberry. I asked George to move, but he didn't. I tried to nudge him out of the way, but he resisted. He then started mockingly dancing with me, knowing that he was being a prick. I told he to cut it out, and to get out of my way, he didn't I then proceeded to jab him in the ribs a few times to try to get him to cut it out. Then, the deal breaker. He grabbed my wrist, as if he was able to control my actions beyond just blocking me behind a table. That's were I snapped. I ripped his hand off me, grabbed him by the shoulders, and slammed him into the wall. I then started to cuss him out whilst pointing at his face and chest. I wanted to punch the sh!t out of him right then and there. What the hell gave him the idea that he could treat my property like sh!t, and on top of that, act like he could treat me however the hell he wanted to?
Overreact much? I'm not surprised he is uncomfortable around you. You sound like an ashhole.
Originally posted by: bctbct
try make-up sex that could help.
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: bctbct
try make-up sex that could help.
Yea that'd work. I'll do that right after you grow the fvck up.
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: sixone
Is there a question in there somewhere, or was that just a rant?
I wanted to share my misery with everyone. Though, you can offer any advice!
Well, you mentioned the lease in your cliffs. Who's name is on it?
Sadly, both. I have already talked to our management company, and there is no way that I can skip on the lease without forcing him to pay my half, which he could then sue me for.
Sounds like he's skipped on you.
Originally posted by: bctbct
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: bctbct
try make-up sex that could help.
Yea that'd work. I'll do that right after you grow the fvck up.
aw, dont be a bitch...this is OT jackass
Originally posted by: RapidSnail
Originally posted by: iamaelephant
Originally posted by: Safeway
I stood by a table while chatting to some of my friends, and George sort of blocks me in. The tables were arranged around a wall, and the particular table I was standing at was blocked on one side by the buffet table. So when George walked up, he blocked my only exit. About 5 minutes passed by, and I wanted to go get another chocolate covered strawberry. I asked George to move, but he didn't. I tried to nudge him out of the way, but he resisted. He then started mockingly dancing with me, knowing that he was being a prick. I told he to cut it out, and to get out of my way, he didn't I then proceeded to jab him in the ribs a few times to try to get him to cut it out. Then, the deal breaker. He grabbed my wrist, as if he was able to control my actions beyond just blocking me behind a table. That's were I snapped. I ripped his hand off me, grabbed him by the shoulders, and slammed him into the wall. I then started to cuss him out whilst pointing at his face and chest. I wanted to punch the sh!t out of him right then and there. What the hell gave him the idea that he could treat my property like sh!t, and on top of that, act like he could treat me however the hell he wanted to?
Overreact much? I'm not surprised he is uncomfortable around you. You sound like an ashhole.
Why hello thar, George!
Originally posted by: iamaelephant
Originally posted by: RapidSnail
Originally posted by: iamaelephant
Originally posted by: Safeway
I stood by a table while chatting to some of my friends, and George sort of blocks me in. The tables were arranged around a wall, and the particular table I was standing at was blocked on one side by the buffet table. So when George walked up, he blocked my only exit. About 5 minutes passed by, and I wanted to go get another chocolate covered strawberry. I asked George to move, but he didn't. I tried to nudge him out of the way, but he resisted. He then started mockingly dancing with me, knowing that he was being a prick. I told he to cut it out, and to get out of my way, he didn't I then proceeded to jab him in the ribs a few times to try to get him to cut it out. Then, the deal breaker. He grabbed my wrist, as if he was able to control my actions beyond just blocking me behind a table. That's were I snapped. I ripped his hand off me, grabbed him by the shoulders, and slammed him into the wall. I then started to cuss him out whilst pointing at his face and chest. I wanted to punch the sh!t out of him right then and there. What the hell gave him the idea that he could treat my property like sh!t, and on top of that, act like he could treat me however the hell he wanted to?
Overreact much? I'm not surprised he is uncomfortable around you. You sound like an ashhole.
Why hello thar, George!
*waves*
Originally posted by: BrownTown
Well first off the way its written really makes it sounds like you are in a relationship or something like that so your whole post sounds very creepy. HAving said that, the way he is acting is even more creepy, thats just messed up. I would suggestg NOT letting him just keep on like this and instead confronting him about it. However if you are OK to live in such a situation than go with it, it really is your descision, nothing us here at ATOT can say/do to help you except to confirm that his actions are indeed very creepy and not right.
Originally posted by: eakers
I think you need to sit down and have a face to face talk with him about the whole thing.
Originally posted by: TecHNooB
Quite a predicament you got there. Make sure you give us an update
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
IMHO you're both being immature about the issue.
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: eakers
I think you need to sit down and have a face to face talk with him about the whole thing.
I tried knocking on his door to get him to come out and have a talk about the situation. He just turned his music up, and I respected his space and walked away. He very obviously does not want to talk to me or see me.
Edit: By the way, I just did this. As in, 5 minutes ago.
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: GeekDrew
IMHO you're both being immature about the issue.
Do explain. I have tried to do everything, short of busting down his bedroom door and forcing him to talk to me. He totally stepped over the boundaries of being a cooperative roommate the second he thought I should buy myself food only to have him eat it. Repeatedly.
Originally posted by: OneOfTheseDays
Originally posted by: Safeway
Originally posted by: eakers
I think you need to sit down and have a face to face talk with him about the whole thing.
I tried knocking on his door to get him to come out and have a talk about the situation. He just turned his music up, and I respected his space and walked away. He very obviously does not want to talk to me or see me.
Edit: By the way, I just did this. As in, 5 minutes ago.
Dude man up and keep knocking on that door. Your hardly making an effort and being very much a coward. If you really wanted to settle this face-to-face, which is incidentally the BEST way to resolve this situation, you would make more of an effort than that.
Your taking the coward's way out of this situation. If you want to leave, then leave. If you want to work things out then go into his room and talk to him. If you want to whine and complain like a little girl then keep doing what your doing.
Originally posted by: montanafan
So you're just locked into this lease until the end of the school year, right, or is it longer? It sounds to me like you can manage to make it for a couple of more months because most of the problems you were having aren't much different than the ones most people have with roommates after a while, except of course for the part about you thinking he might be interested in you.
I can't really tell if you're saying you're uncomfortable with being there now because you're still angry with him about the things that happened before or because of the way he's acting now. Clearly the two of you are not going to be able to be roommates after this school year, but in the meantime, his buying plates, pots and pans, etc. should alleviate some of the ways he was annoying you, and certainly you can make an effort to not get upset over some of the little things with the light at the end of the tunnel so close.
If the way he's acting now is what's so uncomfortable, you're going to have to take the first step to fix that because you're the one that hurt his feelings. Yes, I know he was a pain and you feel he deserved what you did to him, but that doesn't change the fact that as far as he's concerned he was just kidding around with you and you practically attacked him. If he won't talk to you, just write him a note saying that you're sorry you got so angry at him. That you should have talked to him about how all the little things he was doing were making you feel like he didn't have any respect for you or your property instead of just letting it keep building up. And that you appreciate him getting some of his own stuff to try to correct the situation and that you think that will really help.
Now I know that's a lot to ask of you, but it would probably help to make life in the apartment a little more normal than it's been lately. If you can't bring yourself to do it, then you're just going to have to tough it out with the way things are now until the end of the school year. Good luck!