Seriously? I can't imagine asphalt having any more give than concrete, unless you weigh 5000 lbs.
That's what I'm thinking too.
Any solid material will deflect when a force is applied to it. Some things deflect less.
Yes, if you increase the time it takes to go from a speed to zero, the deceleration experienced is reduced.
But you're putting that up against the cushioning of your sneaker, and of your flesh against bone, and of the cartilage in your joints, all of which are immensely more pliable than either concrete or asphalt.
You also shed water as you run, thus reducing your weight. I would expect that to have a more significant effect than the hardness of concrete or asphalt. (Not that
that is much more significant.)
But that's based on a simple thought experiment. I currently lack a human foot with an accelerometer embedded in the bone. I
never get what I want for Christmas. :\