Originally posted by: Jwyatt
I had/have the smtp setup with default settings. I didnt change anything when i setup the server. So i might have hade an open relay im not sure.
You have to try REALLY HARD to create open relay with SBS 2003.
The most common problems sending mail to large email organizations like AOL:
1) No Reverse DNS (almost NOBODY checks this, but a few do)
2) Dynamic IP address
3) Known SPAMing IP address or IP range
4) MailServer name doesn't match any valid hostnames for your Domain (AOL will block you after a while if you don't match the names).
5) Sending SPAM
If you can pass all of AOL's tests (that I gave earlier) and if you get no "Red Boxes" when you examine your Domain at
http://dnsreport.com, then you shouldn't be having problems sending email.
It also won't hurt to have a SPF record, but I don't know anybody who actually checks it these days. Also, check your mailserver's IP address at
http://Dnsstuff.com against the list of known SPAMMERS.