I came back awhile ago...after a long absence after the nasty anandtech divorce of the fish and the fiddle....life is great now...married to the best man ever..and living in CA...It sounds like you are sick...sorry about that..hope you get better. My 3 boys are now 20,21,22..the oldest is working on his phd at ucsd this fall, also this fall my middle son is studying his senior year of college in an awesome college in Japan, and my youngest is finishing up his religious mission. My oldest son got hit by a car in brazil when he was on a religious mission..that was really sad but also at the same time a miracle that he lived after being hit 75mph as a pedestrian...he had a lot to overcome...but all is well now, and he got a perfect score on his math portion of his GRE.