Should I appologize? Got into a fight with my coworker (pregnant woman)

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: myusername
She's pregnant, which means if she miscarries she has a good chance suing you in civil court if you have caused her some sort of emotional distress. IOW, kiss and make up. It may not be as useful to the rest of the world, but it will be easier for you of you wait till AFTER she drops the mongrel, THEN kick her in the stomach.

So what if she miscarriages, shes a b!tch anyways, do we really need more of them in this world?

 

[aplefka]

Originally posted by: montanafan

Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
I HATE PROFESSIONAL WOMEN AT THE WORKPLACE. They'll think you're a hypocrite and will remember everything you said 'till the very end, and haunt you for it in the future. They do nothing but incite, and give no room to breathe for resolvement. I HATE IT. That's why I quit my current job. UGH.

Female Secretaries/HR's on the otherhand are totally different. there was this one clerical worker just do what she had to do, no questions, greet me w/ a smile, and give me coffee w/o asking, and started lively conversations. She brightenned up everyone's mood in the morning.

Too bad i was mainly a field worker

EDIT: i remember i was discussing this w/ my dad and he agrees w/ me to a degree. A lot of professional women do this (not all!!). I told him that women do not belong in the professional, meeting-orientated, teamwork-based atmostphere. They should stick to what they're good @ ----> the kitchen/clerical jobs. Unless future drugs/cultural changes can get rid of this annoying trait in women, they don't deserve the professional workplace.
Ok, I've encountered women that are actually really nice in the professional atmosphere, but I can't discount the fact that i've encountered too many others who aren't nice, and give no room to breath.

*zips up flamesuit*

Of course, my dad laughed @ my opinion saying that he agrees to some degree, but he said "what can you do? Just smile, and recieve your dough, and have fun with friends afterwards. Not too important to fret over it too much. All you have to do is smile no matter the occasion. Even sarcastic smiles can win any argument."

old man knows everything. :thumbsup: to dads heh.

So you didn't like most of your female teachers in school and female professors in college? Were they unprofessional?

You're not working on the same level with them. Horrible analogy.

 

[montanafan]

Originally posted by: aplefka

Originally posted by: montanafan

Originally posted by: DanTMWTMP
I HATE PROFESSIONAL WOMEN AT THE WORKPLACE. They'll think you're a hypocrite and will remember everything you said 'till the very end, and haunt you for it in the future. They do nothing but incite, and give no room to breathe for resolvement. I HATE IT. That's why I quit my current job. UGH.

Female Secretaries/HR's on the otherhand are totally different. there was this one clerical worker just do what she had to do, no questions, greet me w/ a smile, and give me coffee w/o asking, and started lively conversations. She brightenned up everyone's mood in the morning.

Too bad i was mainly a field worker

EDIT: i remember i was discussing this w/ my dad and he agrees w/ me to a degree. A lot of professional women do this (not all!!). I told him that women do not belong in the professional, meeting-orientated, teamwork-based atmostphere. They should stick to what they're good @ ----> the kitchen/clerical jobs. Unless future drugs/cultural changes can get rid of this annoying trait in women, they don't deserve the professional workplace.
Ok, I've encountered women that are actually really nice in the professional atmosphere, but I can't discount the fact that i've encountered too many others who aren't nice, and give no room to breath.

*zips up flamesuit*

Of course, my dad laughed @ my opinion saying that he agrees to some degree, but he said "what can you do? Just smile, and recieve your dough, and have fun with friends afterwards. Not too important to fret over it too much. All you have to do is smile no matter the occasion. Even sarcastic smiles can win any argument."

old man knows everything. :thumbsup: to dads heh.

So you didn't like most of your female teachers in school and female professors in college? Were they unprofessional?

You're not working on the same level with them. Horrible analogy.

Sure I am. Lots of them. And so are a lot of men. But according to DanTMWTMP they shouldn't be there. Unless they're the school cooks or secretary.

 

[PandaBear]

I did talk about this with one male coworker, and he laught along the way saying that 1) it is not professional to do that and 2) don't worry about it because she is famous for being the b1tch, that another senior co-worker had to tell her to "shuff it" (literally) when she first got here.

Well, damages were already done and I did apologize (even if it wasn't the most sincere apology). Before I got assigned to do this, she was having the same problems with our director and other directors that requested the changes. During lunch time she would explain her conspiracy theory, that the other directors were retaliating toward our director for the reasons of politics and pride.

In some way she believed that the whole change/assignment is a political retaliation at directors' level, at her cost. Even after the whole enchalada, our director gave her a choice to come up with a better design, and her choice was to do nothing and tell other teams to change their designs to work with us (of course, that was immediately rejected).

I just finished my last piece of the major work, and only have a small clean up to do. Now, I am back to another team and wake up from this nightmare. Hopefully I don't have to deal with her again.

 

[PandaBear]

Newsflash:

My team got cancelled because of some product line not selling well, and we will be dissolved and absorbed into 3 other team.

Now we and only we, will be integrated into the same team under a manager that opened this whole can of worm. Isn't it ironic?