Should I call her?

TheNemesis

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Ok well there's this girl that I really liked in my American Government and then in my Geography class. I asked my friends about her, none of them thought she was hot, but I didn't care. Well the main thing I was asking was if they had her number, nope :l. One of them did have her last name, so I looked her up. Her last name was very unsual, so I found it. I was wondering if I should call her up, or would she think I'm like a stalker n shxt? I think she kind of likes me, but sometimes I believe what I want to about things like that anyways, please advise
 

epsilon

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No you should not call her. Go to her after class and intorduce yourself instead. Getting a call from a strange guy will creep a lot of women out. Don't hide behind the phone man. It doesnt do much for your chances.



 

Daniel

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I would talk to her first, if she doesn't want to give you her number outright I really wouldn't go the stalker route and get it without her, she can be either flattered or freaked out and you probably don't want that as a first impression.
 

jcuadrado

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take it from a player..this will work..

tell her that the other night you were thinking about her and you wanted to talk to her but didnt have her #...the white pages were in the kitchen and you were curious to see if she was listed..so you checked...you almost called...but figured it would be better if you asked first...

then ask if it would be ok to call..

if she doesnt say yes...she's prolly not interested...
jc
 

WombatWoman

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I think many girls might be a bit unnerved by a call from a guy they barely know, but what have you got to lose? If you don't call, you won't get to go out with her. If you call, and she doesn't want to talk to you, you won't get to go out with her.

But if you call and she likes you, then you're going to be a happy fellow.

And congratulations for being interested in the girl even though your friends don't think she is "hot". You seem to have a good head on your shoulders.

EDIT: Perhaps I misunderstood. The other posts seem to assume that you're still in contact with this girl at school. If so, then I would advise more face-to-face contact before calling. But if you aren't scheduled to see her again in person, go for the phone.
 

TerreApart

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Don't call her unless she at least knows who you are. Spooky...

Meet her somewhere public like: game, event, party, or other gathering and talk to her. Even making yourself look silly by talking to her around her friends is better than a call out of the blue. At least around her friends, there is a 50/50 chance one of her friends may tell her to give you a chance. Over the phone out-of-the-blue there is a 50/50 chance she'll be weirded-out about you.

Get to know her better, and then call her about homework or something...

With women it's always better to be slow and smooth, than fast and clumsy... Unless of course she's been hinting to you for weeks now to ask her out, then she may get mad and say: You dolt what took you so long to ask me out? But, hey better to be safe and cautious, than fast and spooky...

Good Luck...
 

Urinal Mint

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Fvck it, just go up to her after the next class and ask her out. You have absolutely nothing to lose. I am sitting here absolutely fvcking drunk out of my mind and depressed as all hell wishing I could be in the same shoes as you, alas I am not. Take a chance and just go talk to the girl... don't be afraid of her saying no. If she says no, who cares, it wasn't meant to be. Just give it a whirl... it might work out perfectly for you.

Best of luck man... I'm jealous.
 

Thegonagle

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Well I didn?t read your post or any replies, but I?ll go out on a limb and say YES.

And then I?ll read the thread and EDIT myself so I don?t look like a jackass.

EDIT: Whoah! Not the typical "should I call" thread. Listen to epsilon, jcuadrado, and WW. Talk to her first.
 

TheNemesis

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I'm sure she knows who I am, I've talked to her a few times or else I wouldn't even consider calling her. Hrmm, tough decesion.
 

Thegonagle

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Why won't you see her for two months? Summer break? Are you in a different town? Then don't. Wait 'till you see her again. If you're in the same town, call and tell her first thing you looked her up and ask if that's OK, ala jcuadrado. That should work.

Good luck.
 

blueghost75

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i was in a very similar situation. what stopped me from calling her was that I found out she was dating someone else already, i think if she hadn't been dating that other guy, that she would have been dropping more hints on me, because I could tell that she like me. THere is not much I can do for now though. I am going to throw a birthday party for myself at my house, and I am going to get her freind that I am also freinds with to invite her along. This is out of the ordinary for me, though, because I have never thrown a party, and I am really on the quite side of things. I have a good house for party's, though, and my sister used to throw some good ones here.

i would say in your situation, it would really help if you knew one of her freinds. I happen to know one of this girl's freinds, so i am a little lucky.

I think your best bet would be to get a group of people together to go do something, like bowling, put-put golf, anything like that. Then you could either get one of her freinds to get her to come along, or you could call her and ask her if she wants to come with. If you are with a group of people, it is less like a date, so your just "hanging out" with her. That way you could get to know her better or whatever. It can sometimes be hard to get a group of people together like that though, so good luck. It would really help if you could get one of her freinds to go on this outing, so that she will have someone that she knows better to talk to, and would feel more comfortable, and less out of place.
 

TerreApart

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*Digs into his Mac-Daddy Survival kit*

Its almost state fair time here, how about your area?

Find out if any cool bands are planning to show, then make sure you can get tickets. If you can get tickets, in casual conversation ask her if she plans to hit the fair this year. If yes, heck if no also... lol

Ask her if she would like to hit that concert with you and a few friends, or yourself, it all depends on which ever you think may work out better.

State Fair concerts are generally more relaxed than other concerts, so the setting will be casual and fun...

If she says no, about a casual date that won't occur for a month or so anyway, then you know she doesn't like you that way. If she says maybe, then your back on the balance beam. If she says yes, then you know how you stand...

Good Luck...
 

jcuadrado

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hey there...

trust me when I tell you shouldnt call a girl unless she invites you to...actually...you dont do anything to a girl unless she asks you to or you know 100% that she'll be ok with it...

ive tried to study the female mind for years reading mags such as Cosmo, Mademoiselle and a few more (will never truly fully understand the way they think though )

good luck..and if she's away...wait...you're not gonna see her anyway...

try finding a summer fling...they are always sweet
 

Infidelity

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I know what women want because I can hear their thoughts, I think you should not call her. Introduce yourself first and give her your number or ask for yours.
 

bmacd

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*like everybody else...*
talk to her. I'm one year out of high school, almost turning 18, class clown, yet never had the balls to ask more than a couple of girls out. The homecoming queen of my junior year asked me to prom, but i chickened out.

The one thing i learned is "you'll never get anywhere in life with a (cough) big package if all you have are small balls"

On that note
peace
-=bmacd=
 

IcemanJer

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<< The homecoming queen of my junior year asked me to prom, but i chickened out. >>

dannnnnnng yo'! :Q
 
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