Originally posted by: Mursilis
I don't know if you should get back with your ex - maybe she's matured during your time apart, and would actually make a fine significant other?
I do know, however, that you shouldn't be turning to internet forums mostly populated by immature kids who know almost nothing about the situation to answer life's tough questions.
Ah .. and if my experience will help .....
1) married at 21
2) child at 25
3) caught her sleeping around at 28
4) kicked her ass out
5) kept her around ... kept wanting her..
6) kept wanting her.. didn't get none from her.
7) heard the same thing about the sex, how big 'he' was, better, harder, etc. It's just a hurtful tactic, that's all.
8) got me a roommate. A guy, and no .. no gayness going on. But that was one of my better moves. gave me more money (assisted pay on mortgage) and had someone to chum around with all the time. Meaning I wasn't 'alone' ponder life all the time.
9) really started browsing personal ads.
10) had a new date each week. 1 or 2.
11) dated a few for a while. some good, some bad.
12) finally found 'the one' and am happily married to her. at 32 y/o
while I was dating my current wife.. the ex still tried all her ******. I was 'hooked on her' still and I still would give her money, etc. She tried to get me back at one point, and almost ruined my relationship with my current wife (then girlfriend).
She was a nightmare. But we have trial next Friday. I'm fighting for custody, cause the ex is just a whore.