Yes, the paddle is inserted correctly.
The problems seem to lie with true DVI connections and wide screen support. When you connect a analog lcd, you can select SLI and the driver will state that it needs to restart your machine. Upon reboot, SLI is enabled. You can run games with SLI no problem. You can run 3D Mark 03 (20755) and games run fine. However, add a widescreen LCD and nothing works. Menu options disappear, once you disable SLI, you can't get SLI reenabled. When you select enable SLI, you get the message that the displays connected to your second video card will go blank ... as SLI will support your primary display. (Of course, no displays are connected to the second video card and never had any connected.) You hit ok, and the SLI box is unchecked. Ugh!!!
If you leave SLI enabled, or reconnect your Widescreen LCD after enabling SLI using an analog monitor, the screen is garabage at anything other than the default resolution. Not even minor interpolation. Hence, you have your new 23 screen to match you new system, but they don't play well. What was Nvidia thinking!?! If you have the money to fork out for two 6800 Ultras, don't they think we would also have the cash for the latest large screeen monitors?