$500 for an X800XT
$250x2 for 6800NU (assuming price)
+ $50 for SLI mobo (over normal mobo for the X800XT, with one PCIe slot)
$500 for X800XT, $550 for 6800NUx2
The 6800NU performs better than the 6800GT (extrapolating and assuming performance), which is going to be on a level with, or maybe a bit above the X800XT.
SLI currently only works on some titles, not all, so this gain won't be seen for everything (currently, anyway).
You will also have to wait for the 6800SLI, but it may be possible to find an X800 now.
Do you want to wait, spend a little more, and get probably a bit more performance in some titles.
Or: Get something now, for a little less probably, and get a little lower performance, but be assured of the same level of performance in all games (not dependent on nVidia supporting SLI for them).
Or: SLI mobo, and a 6800GT, then upgrade with another 6800GT later on.