Originally posted by: illusion88
I hope you aren't in High School yet. Who the hell gets into high school without having a "first kiss"?
I got mine the summer before 10th. Got my second (person) after the end of 11th (a few weeks ago). Its just the typical geek guy shyness. And the fact that 20 months of my affection led to disappointment, jealousy, minor cheating (against her bf) and a complete personality change (for the worse, IMO) in my case.
Anyway, to the OP, just try to be a bit more assertive. Don't be so picky if you don't want anything too serious, and relax. Maybe try to get a non-serious girlfriend to lessen the stress of a relationship when you find someone you like. That's what I'm doing.